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10 Things Every Indecisive Person Wants To Tell You

10 Things Every Indecisive Person Wants To Tell You

Every decision whether basic or not is a hard decision. Many people can’t relate with that. They may think we are sly, coy, or simply trying to buy time. But we are not. We are simply stuck with trying to make the right and perfect decision. All through this process we wish people could understand us and relate with our challenges.

1. We want to be absolutely sure

We are indecisive and since making those major decisions is a nightmare we want to be absolutely sure before we dive in. We may burn time and exhaust resources in the process, but it’s okay, we will be more comfortable with ourselves at the end of the day when we have double checked and triple checked.

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2. We want to seek every person’s opinion before we make a decision

It is not simply about us. We want to be informed in the process before making that decision. We ask everyone who may offer us advice, the barber, our aunt, our uncle, our granddad, our parents… sometimes the list can be pretty exhaustive.

3. We might just want to end up not deciding after all

Well we don’t have to decide every time right? Or rather: we shouldn’t decide every time. Not deciding and just sticking it out can be so cool because every decision takes all our effort.

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4. We wish some decisions were simply made for us by someone else

Yes. Like what to eat, what to wear and what to engage our energies in. We don’t always have a mind of our own so sometimes it is so much easier for someone else to help us through the ordeal of making the right decisions.

5. We sometimes wonder if we really made the right decision

As much as the decision we have made seems great, we never think it was the best or it was good enough. We always look back at the other options we should have taken. Could there have been a better one?

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6. We don’t want to feel guilty

At the end of the day we are simply trying to protect our conscience. We do not want to be at the end of the stick where we are to be blamed for the decisions we made or the actions we had to take.

7. We feel accomplished when we make the right decision

We have a sense of pride when we make a decision that offers us great results. After all one great decision could give birth to other great decisions. It is something we simply have to get used to, trying to make the right decision as quick as possible.

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8. We love having people around

It is better for us to have people around us. This is why we cling to friends. Because they make our life easier when it comes to making all those heavy decisions and even the easy ones too. The only difficult part is making the decision on which friends will be ideal and helpful to us.

9. We are sometimes terrified

Please don’t take this the hard way. We can be terrified about making those major decisions sometimes. Whether it is marriage, career or college, we really get so afraid we can wait for ages to make that decision. And it is not as if we suspend the thought of it. We actually are always thinking about it.

10. We are always having options

Life for us is full of options. We are never stuck with one route or one plan. We always have options which can be mentally exhausting as we are just cooking up alternatives or other channels in our heads. It would be so easy to stick to one set of doing things but living with so many options seems so much better.

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Casey Imafidon

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What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

1. They Manage Their Expectations

They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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4. They’re Not Materialistic

There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

5. They Don’t Dwell

They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

6. They Care About Themselves First

They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

7. They Enjoy the Little Things

They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

8. They Can Adapt

They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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9. They Experiment

They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

10. They Take Their Time

They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

11. They Employ Different Perspectives

They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

12. They Seek to Learn

Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

13. They Always Have a Plan

They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

14. They Give Respect to Get It

They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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15. They Consider Every Opportunity

They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

16. They Always Seek to Improve

Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

18. They Live in the Moment

They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

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19. They Say Yes

Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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20. They’re Self-Aware

Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

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Final Thoughts

The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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