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10 Steps to Excel With the Power of Persuasion

10 Steps to Excel With the Power of Persuasion

There are a number of persuasion steps you have to implement in order to get someone to see your side of things, even/especially when it’s not necessarily in their best interest to. Everything from timing to approach to preparation is key for your success in an argument or debate. Here are ten persuasion steps you should always keep in mind.

1. Pick the right environment

You don’t want to try to persuade someone in a place they’re not already comfortable. One of the first persuasion steps is always to carefully choose when and where you’re going to have your debate. The best place is somewhere the person you’re persuading feels like he has the home field advantage, like their actual home, because they’ll feel less pressured. To determine the best time to persuade, pay attention to the person’s mood swings on a typical day and pick a period where their mood is on the upswing.

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2. Start subtle

Don’t launch into an intense argument right off the bat. Rather, ease into it so that the person you’re persuading doesn’t immediately tune your words out. You might even want to start a conversation about an entirely different topic and gently nudge the subject in the right direction. The ideal scenario is when the person you’re trying to persuade thinks that they’re the one that brought the subject up.

3. Display confidence

Richard Nixon won the 1960 Presidential Debates according to people who listened on the radio, but John F. Kennedy was the clear winner to everyone with a television set because he looked confident, not sweating profusely like Nixon. If your debate is over the phone then you don’t have to worry about persuasion steps like this, but most persuasions are achieved in-person, so you need to act confident in your mannerisms and body language. Another big part of displaying confidence is actually being confidant, which is why you absolute need to…

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4. Be prepared

Don’t try to persuade someone without knowing exactly how you’re going to go about it. If you’re trying to persuade someone to side with you politically, you can research facts and statistics to prove your point. If you’re persuading somebody to do something against their nature, look in advance for reasons that your suggestion is a sensible option for them. The rest of these persuasion steps will get you almost nowhere if you’re not already properly prepared for your verbal sparring match.

5. Predict counter-arguments

Don’t just limit preparation to opening statements. Think very carefully about the arguments your opponent will make in response to yours and plan accordingly. If you’re defending someone, for example, consider what the other person doesn’t like about who you’re defending and know in advance how to respond to those complaints.

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6. Consider their needs

Really get into the mind of the person you’re persuading. What are they really after? Do they want things to be easier? Simpler? Do they want to make a decision that makes them feel good about themself? This is among the most important persuasion steps.

7. Appeal to reason

One of the most effective persuasion steps is an appeal to someone’s rational side. Emotions are unreliable, so cold hard facts are your best bet to change somebody’s mind. This step goes back to preparation. If you have the facts at your disposal, use them to effectively change someone’s mind.

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8. Appeal to emotions

If all else fails, hit them on an emotional level. This is among the riskiest persuasion steps for reasons mentioned above, but it can also be one of the most powerful.

9. Make the decision seem urgent

When rushed, people are more prone to make poor decisions or decisions they otherwise wouldn’t make. If that’s the kind of decision you want someone to be making, this is the preparation step for you. If there’s no inherent hurry in what you’re trying to persuade, do what you can to create an urgency.

10. End with something positive

Absolutely do not end with an “I told you so.” Make the person you persuaded feel like they benefitted from your talk with them, even if it resulted in a different outcome than they expected. The more you can make it seem like a win-win scenario, the more likely someone will continue to see things your way even after you’ve left the room.

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Last Updated on September 28, 2020

How To Study Effectively: 7 Simple Tips

How To Study Effectively: 7 Simple Tips

The brain is a tangled web of information. We don’t remember single facts, but instead we interlink everything by association. Anytime we experience a new event, our brains tie the sights, smells, sounds and our own impressions together into a new relationship.

Our brain remembers things by repetition, association, visual imagery, and all five senses. By knowing a bit about how the brain works, we can become better learners, absorbing new information faster than ever.

Here are some study tips to help get you started:

1. Use Flashcards

Our brains create engrained memories through repetition. The more times we hear, see, or repeat something to ourselves, the more likely we are to remember it.

Flashcards can help you learn new subjects quickly and efficiently. Flashcards allow you to study anywhere at any time. Their portable nature lends them to quick study sessions on the bus, in traffic, at lunch, or in the doctor’s office. You can always whip out your flashcards for a quick 2 to 3 minute study session.

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To create effective flashcards, you need to put one point on each flashcard. Don’t load up the entire card with information. That’s just overload. Instead, you should dedicate one concept to each card.

One of the best ways to make flashcards is to put 1 question on the front and one answer on the back. This way, you can repeatedly quiz yourself into you have mastered any topic of your choice.

Commit to reading through your flash cards at least 3 times a day and you will be amazed at how quickly you pick up new information.

As Tony Robbins says,

“Repetition is the mother of skill”.

2. Create the Right Environment

Often times, where you study can be just as important as how you study. For an optimum learning environment, you’ll want to find a nice spot that is fairly peaceful. Some people can’t stand a deafening silence, but you certainly don’t want to study near constant distractions.

Find a spot that you can call your own, with plenty of room to spread out your stuff. Go there each time you study and you will find yourself adapting to a productive study schedule. When you study in the same place each time, you become more productive in that spot because you associate it with studying.

3. Use Acronyms to Remember Information

In your quest for knowledge, you may have once heard of an odd term called “mnemonics”. However, even if you haven’t heard of this word, you have certainly heard of its many applications. One of the most popular mnemonic examples is “Every Good Boy Does Fine”. This is an acronym used to help musicians and students to remember the notes on a treble clef stave.

An acronym is simply an abbreviation formed using the intial letters of a word. These types of memory aids can help you to learn large quantities of information in a short period of time.

4. Listen to Music

Research has long shown that certain types of music help you to recall information. Information learned while listening to a particular song can often be remembered simply by “playing” the songs mentally in your head.

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5. Rewrite Your Notes

This can be done by hand or on the computer. However, you should keep in mind that writing by hand can often stimulate more neural activity than when writing on the computer.

Everyone should study their notes at home but often times, simply re-reading them is too passive. Re-reading your notes can cause you to become disengaged and distracted.

To get the most out of your study time, make sure that it is active. Rewriting your notes turns a passive study time into an active and engaging learning tool. You can begin using this technique by buying two notebooks for each of your classes. Dedicate one of the notebooks for making notes during each class. Dedicate the other notebook to rewriting your notes outside of class.

6. Engage Your Emotions

Emotions play a very important part in your memory. Think about it. The last time you went to a party, which people did you remember? The lady who made you laugh, the man who hurt your feelings, and the kid who went screaming through the halls are the ones you will remember. They are the ones who had an emotional impact.

Fortunately, you can use the power of emotion in your own study sessions. Enhance your memory by using your five senses. Don’t just memorize facts. Don’t just see and hear the words in your mind. Create a vivid visual picture of what you are trying to learn.

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For example, if you are trying to learn the many parts of a human cell, begin physically rotating the cell in your minds eye. Imagine what each part might feel like. Begin to take the cell apart piece by piece and then reconstruct it. Paint the human cell with vivid colors. Enlarge the cell in your mind’s eye so that it is now six feet tall and putting on your own personal comedy show. This visual and emotional mind play will help deeply encode information into your memory.

7. Make Associations

One of the best ways to learn new things is to relate what you want to learn with something you already know. This is known as association, and it is the mental glue that drives your brain.

Have you ever listened to a song and been flooded by memories that were connected to it? Have you ever seen an old friend that triggered memories from childhood? This is the power of association.

To maximize our mental powers, we must constantly be looking for ways to relate new information with old ideas and concepts that we are already familiar with.

You can do this with the use of mindmapping. A mind map is used to diagram words, pictures, thoughts, and ideas into a an interconnected web of information. This simple practice will help you to connect everything you learn into a global network of knowledge that can be pulled from at any moment.

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Learn more about mindmapping here: How to Mind Map to Visualize Your Thoughts (With Mind Map Examples)

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