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10 Reasons Why You Should Not Stop Being True To Yourself

10 Reasons Why You Should Not Stop Being True To Yourself

It’s all too easy to fall into the ensnaring trap of always trying to please other people over valuing what makes YOU great. To climb out of that depressing pit, read these ten reasons you should always stay true to yourself.

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    1. Being someone other than yourself never pays off in the end.

    The number one thing you need to remember is that pretending to be someone else, even if you or others consider that someone else an improvement, never concludes with positive results. You have to make a true change to become a better person, not just pretend to be one.

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      2. You won’t be able to please everyone.

      You just won’t. If anything, the harder you try to make everyone happy, the less likely they’ll end up satisfied with your efforts. People can sense when you’re being fake, so instead of that try embracing sincerity by being true to yourself.

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      3. You don’t know what other people want.

      Even if you think you know what others want from you, you’re probably wrong. Unless people have outright told you the problems they have with you, an uncommon occurrence, you’ll at best be playing a guessing game.

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        4. Other people don’t really know what they want, either.

        Even if someone does give you a guideline describing what they want you to change about yourself, heeding their advice to the letter likely won’t leave them appeased. Most people don’t actually know what they want, let alone know how to communicate their wishes and desires in ways someone else can understand.

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          5. People will respect you more.

          When your co-workers and family members and friends and enemies see you being true to yourself, they’ll be impressed with your ability to stick to your guns. By not acting different because certain people want you to, you demonstrate a rare integrity that others can’t help but take notice of.

          6. People will LIKE you more.

          As mentioned above, sincerity is much better received than when you’re not being true to yourself. Even if they can’t put a finger on why, many people will enjoy your company more if you’re being the real you, not a monkey dancing around for their amusement.

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            7. You’ll be happier.

            Obviously, being true to yourself is the best choice in regards to your overall self-esteem. There’s little as depressing as pretending to be someone you’re not because you don’t believe people will respond well to the true you. Avoid that crippling pitfall.

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            8. Life will be easier

            By not constantly trying to be different things for different people, life will get a lot simpler very quickly. Imagine not having to “act” nearly as much as you do now, sharing your true self with others whether they like it or not. Sounds nice, doesn’t it? So go do it.

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              9. You have to look at yourself in the mirror every day.

              You don’t wake up each morning and see another person’s reflection gazing back at you. You’re the person you have to spend the most time with, which makes you the head judge of your value. You might be currently judging yourself on what other people think of you, but you won’t be at peace until you value being true to yourself above almost anything else.

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                10. You’ll further uncover the real you.

                By pretending to be things you’re not, you have less time to uncover who you are deep down inside. Life is far too short, and uncovering what makes us unique and special is an extremely long process. Don’t slow that process down further by failing to be true to yourself. Hopefully, you’ve now realized that staying true is far and away the best thing for you.

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                Last Updated on October 18, 2018

                50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

                50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

                Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

                It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

                It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

                Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

                Quotes for self-assurance

                1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

                  2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

                    3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

                      4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

                        5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

                          6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

                            Quotes about positivity

                            7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                              8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                                9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                                  10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                                    11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                                      12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                                        13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

                                          Quotes for work and success

                                          14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                                            15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                              16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                                17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                                  18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                                    19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                                      20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                                        21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                                          22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                                            23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                              24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                                25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                                  26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                                    27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                                      28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                                        29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                                          30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                                            31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                              32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                                33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                                  34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                                    35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                                      36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                                        37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                                          38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                                            39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                              40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                                41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                                  42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                                    43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                                      44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                                        45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

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                                                                                                          46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                                            47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                              48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                                49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                                  50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                                    51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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