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Published on November 22, 2017

Want To Raise Good Kids? Here Are 5 movies That Will Help You Out

Want To Raise Good Kids? Here Are 5 movies That Will Help You Out

Deciding what movie to take your kids to can be overwhelming. The sheer amount of blockbuster films, cartoons and animations can make any parent wonder what the most appropriate movie is to watch with their children. The impressionable nature of kids can mean that exposing them to negative teachings could result in picking up bad habits from a young age.

Think that’s an exaggeration? It’s been scientifically proven that what children watch, especially with films and TV, has a strong ability to influence and shape their minds. The power of persuasion was discussed in an article by Dr. Jeremy Dean who commented that “stories work so well to persuade us because if they’re well told, we get swept up in them, and we are transported inside them.[1]

This can work in both a negative and positive way. If parents can be strategic in what movies they select for their kids and then utilise the impressionable window of time after the film has finished to discuss the story line and valuable character traits, children will be more open to learn, understand and make positive connections.

With this in mind, here are 5 movies that will give you the opportunity to help you teach children valuable life lessons.

1. Frozen (2013)

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    Frozen tell the story of fearless optimist Anna who teams up with rugged mountain man Kristoff and his loyal reindeer Sven in an epic journey to find Anna’s sister. This child-like comedy sees the characters encountering Everest-like conditions, mystical trolls and a hilarious snowman named Olaf.

    Lessons Learned: This is a wonderful story about sibling love rather than the traditional ‘man saves the day’ movie. It shows the importance of family bonds with strong character traits of kindness, love and self-worth.

    Get Frozen on iTunes.

    2. Brave (2012)

      Princess Merida is betrothed to a prince but wants to be anything but a “princess”. Instead she longs to be free, climb her favourite mountain, and use her archery skills. She attempts to run away and be “herself” and learns some lessons along the way.

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      This is a story of a girl determined to make her own path in life and break the stereotypical idea of a princess. Her defiance of tradition means relying on her bravery and archery skills to beat an evil curse. This movie is a great example for both boys and girls that shows the ideas of self-love, bravery and grit.

      Get Brave on iTunes.

      3. Charlotte’s Webb (2006)

        This film tells of a unique friendship between a pig called Wilbur and a spider named Charlotte. The unlikely pair come together after Wilbur’s life becomes endangered and Charlotte helps create a plan to save him.

        This movie is a intricate example of friendship and self-love with the characters displaying a strong sense of kindness, self-worth and love that children can learn from.

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        Get Charlotte’s Web in iTunes.

        4. Moana (2016)

          Based on stories from Polynesian mythology, this animation tells the story of Moana Waialiki. Daughter of a chief and expert navigator of the seas, Moana island experiences failing crops and local fisherman are no longer able to catch fish. She learns that the demigod Maui caused the blight by stealing the heart of the goddess, Te Fiti and the only way to heal the island is to persuade Maui to return Te Fiti’s heart. Moana then sets off on an epic journey across the Pacific.

          This is a tale of a girl overcoming impossible odds and discovering herself in the process. It teaches children the rewards of perseverance and the importance of knowing their identity. This is especially wonderful for the empowerment of girls as well as courage, curiosity and sticking to your goals.

          Get Moana on iTunes.

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          5. Finding Nemo (2003)

            Nemo, a clown fish, gets lost one day despite his father Marlin’s warning of the dangers of the sea. Nemo subsequently gets abducted by a boat and netted up to be sent to an office fish tank in Sydney. Marlin starts his journey to try and find Nemo encountering many characters along the way including a forgetful blue tang fish called Dory. The two travel a great distance, encountering dangerous situations in pursuit of Nemo. Meanwhile, Nemo along with the other captured sea animals in the fish tank, plot a way to return to Sydney Harbour to live their lives free again.

            This is a tale of survival but ultimately one of love. The characters show a wonderful example of perseverance, compassion and courage teaching children the importance of love and to never give up.

            Get Finding Nemo on iTunes.

            So, next time you sit down with your kids to watch a film, choose one that explains an important life lesson. Use this time to have a conversation and allow children to understand what they have been watching and how they can connect this with their own life. It’s possible to make movie-watching fun and educational at the same time!

            Reference

            [1]http://www.spring.org.uk/2012/01/why-stories-sell-transportation-leads-to-persuasion.php

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            Published on July 17, 2018

            20 Tips to Get Your Bedtime Routine Started for a Better Tomorrow

            20 Tips to Get Your Bedtime Routine Started for a Better Tomorrow

            “Today is tomorrow’s yesterday,” the quote says and it rings true from North to South, from West to East. And if we want to have a productive and energetic today, we need to prepare it yesterday. If we learn from yesterday, we can live today and we’ll even have time to plan for tomorrow.

            The best way to jumpstart your day isn’t the first thing you do in the morning – but the last thing you do the night before. And here is a list of 20 tips that you can use for your bedtime routine to start the next morning energetic and productive:

            1. Create your bedtime routine

            In the words of late Jim Rohn:

            “Simple things are simple to do but they are also simple not to do.”

            The first thing to start with is by actually creating a bedtime routine. By this, I don’t mean just being a victim of consequences like kids, late dinners or office tasks that need to be done.

            By creating a bedtime routine, you consciously create a set of behaviors that you will do (or not do) before you fall asleep that night.

            In the beginning, it only needs to be a single thing that you adhere to like no laptop in the bed or TV for only 30 minutes or hitting at sack at 11:30 pm max.

            And you can use the following tips to optimize your bedtime routine.

            2. Play music

            Music has a variety of effects on our bodies. First of all, our bodies are 70% water and vibrations affect us physiologically. There was a research done by Dr. Masaru Emoto who studied the effects that music has on the structure of frozen water molecules.

            By playing certain (soothing) music, you will feel relaxed and prepared for sleep. I personally use post-rock (piano) songs playlist which include songs like “Your Hand In Mine” by Explosions In The Sky, everything from Anthony Greninger and The XX.

            Now, it’s all about finding the perfect music for you. You need to find your own rhythm, so try out a lot of different songs and categories and see what fits you the best.

            3. Read a book

            This one is a bit tricky – you should be reading a book before you sleep but not something which is hard to understand and needs a lot of straining from your conscious mind.

            It’s best to read something lighter before bedtime because it will put your mind in a nice rhythm and will induce you into a qualitative sleep.

            This doesn’t mean that you should read things like 50 Shades of Grey (no, please no), but don’t go reading “Gödel, Escher, Bach: and Eternal Golden Braid” by Douglas Hofstadter either.

            Pick something that interests you and is quite easy to read like “How To Win Friends & Influence People” or biographies like “Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage” by Alfred Lansing.

            4. Put on your pajamas

            When you jump into your sleeping clothes, you signal your mind and body to shut down and go into “sleep mode.”

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            Try to have a set of pajamas always prepared next to your bed and never go under the sheets with your house or work clothes.

            5. Plan out your 3 most important tasks for tomorrow

            This is something Leo Babuta talked a lot. When you plan out your 3 most important tasks for tomorrow, you immediately eliminate unnecessary decisions from tomorrow’s day.

            When you remove decision making from the day, all that’s left is to just do that activity.

            This is backed by research about ego depletion, where making decisions throughout the day depletes our willpower, making us less likely to do the activities.

            But if you prepare them in advance (decide and write down that you’ll do it), you will be more likely to do them.

            So plan out your 3 most important tasks for tomorrow and sleep like a baby, knowing what you will do tomorrow.

            6. Write a journal

            “Dear diary….” or you can start any other way. But this isn’t a six-grade school girl writing who she has a crush on. This is about reflecting on what happened to you today, how that activity made you feel and your general impression of the day.

            Here’s a how-to guide on how to start writing a journal:

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            7. Prepare clothes for tomorrow

            We talked about ego depletion when planning the next day. It’s the thing with the clothes you will wear tomorrow.

            When you prepare things for the next morning, your mind won’t go into “freak” mode, trying to remember everything you need to do in the morning like finding clothes for work, making breakfast, finishing that presentation, checking the valve pressure, changing the car oil, saving the world…

            When you prepare for the morning in advance, you sleep better because you don’t have those menial tasks like clothes hovering around your head.

            8. Turn off your WiFi

            The word of the 21st century is connectedness and it’s great – we are more connected than ever. But this doesn’t mean that you need to be connected 24/7.

            During the night, you should definitely turn off your WiFi and be unavailable. This makes your brain rest and doesn’t put you in that always-available-state, where you’re always prepared for that email or message.

            Just leave it for the morning – 99% of things can wait. And if it’s that 1% that can’t wait, trust me, they will find a way to contact you.

            9. Watch entertainment

            Throughout the day, you should be working, learning and pushing yourself. But when the night comes, you need to reward yourself for the activities and accomplishments of the day – because you deserve it.

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            So take 30-45 minutes and simply watch entertainment without feeling guilty – you can even watch a good movie. I have my entertainment nights on Friday where I watch gaming tournaments on YouTube – just a big fan of League of Legends.

            10. Do mindfulness exercise like meditation

            Mindfulness doesn’t have to be meditation, but meditation is almost always mindfulness.

            Mindfulness trains your mind to become present and aware of the things and people that surround you. This makes you forget about the worries of the future and the regrets of the past and makes you live in the present.

            Mindfulness as a bedtime routine helps you clear out your mind and makes you fall asleep easily, without those pesky regrets and worries sneaking up on you when you finally hit the sack.

            Find out more about how Meditation Can Change Your Life: The Power of Mindfulness.

            11. Evaluate your today

            You planned out the 3 most important tasks that you need to do today. Now, it’s time to evaluate those tasks.

            This is the time for self reflection, and Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

            So sit down and evaluate if you managed to accomplish the 3 tasks that you set up the night before.

            12. Write down 3 things that happened today (not gratefulness)

            This is a really good exercise because it’s not woo-woo like gratefulness or unstructured as a diary.

            This is about making a history book out of your life- something your grandkids might read upon and see how your life looked like.

            Writing down 3 things that happened today makes you simply record 3 events that happened on the day, with or without your judgment about them (good or bad, positive or negative).

            After 3-6 months, you can read upon these and summarize them to create a timeline of your life and after a year, summarize it again.

            This will create a timeline of your life, with all major events that happened written down. It will also make you more self-aware about the things happening every single day.

            13. Drink water

            Quality of sleep depends a lot on the hydration of our bodies. If you feel the thirst, it means you are already dehydrated.

            The sacred rule I adhere to for a quality bedtime routine is one glass of water before bed and one glass of water as soon as I wake up.

            Take a look at this article to find out How Much Water Should You Drink Each Day (and How Much Is Too Much for You).

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            14. Cool off the room

            Setting the right conditions for sleep are optimal for a quality-like sleep and productive and energetic day.

            You need to sleep in a colder, dark and silent room. The quality of mattress and pillow also contribute to good sleep and even better mornings.

            You might want to consider investing in a sleeping mask, good mattress and an even better pillow – it makes a big difference.

            Here’s a guide on how to choose a good mattress:

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            15. Don’t eat heavy food

            Eating that late night dinner at 10:30 pm and then going back home trying to fall asleep is like getting drunk and trying to walk the line – you think you can do it until you actually try it.

            A big dinner and heavy food before bedtime keeps your stomach working 24/7 and prevents it from having any rest during the night. This affects the quality of sleep and makes you feel groggy before you fall asleep and extends to when you wake up.

            Remove heavy food from your night meals and look at how your energy spikes in the morning – I did it six months ago and I am never going back to it.

            Check out more food options to help you sleep here:

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            16. Avoid exercise before sleep

            You shouldn’t exercise 3 hours before bedtime – it wakes up your entire body and prepares you for a physical activity.

            Exercise is for morning or tops afternoon – the night is for relaxing bedtime routine activities.

            However, you can try to stretch your body to help relax your nerves before going to sleep:

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            17. Go to bed at the same time

            Training your body and mind to shut down at the same time is beneficiary because it learns when you don’t need energy and when you do. This makes your energy usage more effective because you are 100% active when you need it and 0% active when you don’t need it.

            Most people work on a 50-60% active energy, always being active but never being on their top game. If you train your body and mind to shut down after, let’s say, 11:00 pm, then it will reward you with energy spikes in the morning and afternoon.

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            And the easiest way to accomplish this is by going to bed at the same time.

            18. Optimize sleep cycles

            Tips 17. and 18. are closely connected.

            Sleep cycles consist of 1.5-hour rotations, where you finish one round of sleeping after 1.5 hours of sleeping and start over again. The best time to wake up is when a sleep cycle ends and just before the next starts.

            So to optimize your sleep cycles, you should wake up after 5 or 6 sleep cycles, respectively after 7.5 or 9 hours of sleep. This is when you will feel the most energetic.

            Hitting your sleep cycles at the beginning is quite hard but when you always fall asleep at the same time, your body will adjust to it and will make you hit them.

            For more tips, here’s How to Hack Your Sleep Cycle and Get Better Sleep.

            19. Work on your passion project

            Nothing brings more satisfaction to a person than seeing a dream, a vision which only lived inside of a person mind come to life. And working on a passion project is exactly that – you are making a reality out of your vision or a dream.

            You can allocate 20-30 minutes a night to work on your passion project. This will make the feeling of accomplishment even stronger and will affect the quality of your sleep by a handful.

            If you think you’re too busy to do what you’re passionate about, here’re 7 Ways You Can Make Time For Your Passion.

            20. Spend time with loved ones

            The biggest factor that contributes to a happy and fulfilled life are relationships – with friends, family and loved ones.

            At the end of a long, arduous day, you should spend time with your loved ones- the people with whom you can share your happy but also your sad moments.

            A path to many starts with one

            Not all of these 20 tips will make sense to you and they shouldn’t. You should pick out one and start with that and then, add up another one.

            Test what works for you and what makes sense and you will soon see the difference in your energy and productivity.

            Just remember – the path to many starts with only a single one. Start with one and create a bedtime routine for a better tomorrow.

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