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Should You Still Make New Year’s Resolutions

Should You Still Make New Year’s Resolutions

Most articles on making healthy New Year’s resolutions will tell you not to waste your time. Let me show you how they actually may serve a good purpose whether you follow through on it or not, and how to make them truly effective.

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Once that calendar flips over to a new year, there is no ignoring the usual desires that come with it. Lose weight, stop smoking, eat better, spend less on macrame jean shorts. Ok, that last one might just be me.

But here’s the thing: the stats are not on the side of actually following through on your new resolution. There is a very small percentage of people that are able to follow through on complete life overhauls but they are in the minority, like people who watch Keeping Up With The Kardashians to improve IQ scores.

Just because the failure rate on New Year’s resolutions is high, doesn’t mean they should be chucked to the curb like your withering Christmas tree. There are a few mindset changes you can make to have healthy New Year’s resolutions become more effective.

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1. Whether You Like it or Not, it’s a Reminder to Get Your Butt in Gear

For as much as people say it’s a waste of time to start improving your nutrition or joining a gym in January because it will fizzle out, I don’t think that’s the case. At the very least it serves as a reminder for you to take control of your health each year. Even if it’s only once a year, it’s like a little nagging reminder that you should move things in a healthier direction. If you don’t acknowledge it in January, the thought might still pop up a few months later.

Sometimes, there just needs to be something in the back of your head telling you to make some good changes. This might go on for a few years, but there can also be that year where you are totally ready and it all finally clicks in.

The point is to make that year THIS year.

2. You Are Allowed To Start Small

This is what is truly behind all the failure rate stats: people taking on too much, too soon. If you’ve gone from eating Taco Bell three times a day and your physical activity revolves around clicking the “Are you still there” button on Netflix, you’re going to need to start small. Diving head first into 3-hour workouts and eating rice cakes and broccoli all day is going to become a huge shock to your system. This could overwhelm you and eventually lead to you throwing in the towel.

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No matter what your goals are, the secret is to start small and slowly add in good habits. You can build a healthy lifestyle by mastering a new habit until it becomes second nature. This means starting with something simple and doing it for at least a week or two so it’s familiar. Then you can move on to another one. It’s gradual, comfortable, and you’re more likely to stick with it.

Here are 3 health habits to start out with that are simple but effective.

1. Slow Down Your Time Spent Eating

This doesn’t even require changing what you eat but can help you avoid overeating each day. The average person is eating so fast that they are overriding the fullness signals that go from your stomach to your brain saying you’ve had enough. These naturally occur but take around 15-20 minutes to engage. Most people are eating in 3-5 minutes, sometimes quicker, and don’t allow this natural mechanism to do its job.

You may have had enough food, but your body hasn’t recognized that yet. When that happens, you continue to consume more calories than needed. So whenever you eat, be conscious of the time. Set up the timer on your phone or watch a clock and take at least 15 minutes. This can help you consume less each time and also make digestion and absorption easier for you.

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2. Drink More Water Each Day

Most people are walking around in dehydrated or close to dehydrated states. It’s not always recognizable because dehydration doesn’t only mean crawling through a desert in rags. The problem is this: if you’re not getting adequate water, then you’re throwing your body out of whack. Among other things water is critical for:

  • Digestion
  • Absorption
  • Circulation
  • Regulation of body temperature
  • Cognitive function
  • Transport of nutrients through the body
  • Sports and exercise performance

Your aim is to drink about half your body weight in ounces each day. So if you’re 150 pounds that’s 75 ounces of water. When you figure in a cup of water being 8oz, that equals around 9 cups a day. Since most large drinking glasses can hold close to two cups, you’re at around 4-5 large glasses a day, which is very doable. Another tip I’d give you is to have a glass or two first thing when you wake up to get your body up to speed quicker. Throw in some squeezed lemon and it really kicks up the cleansing and detoxification.

3. Eliminate Or Drastically Reduce Sugar

Now you’re looking at a real change. If you’re like the average person, you’re consuming far too much sugar and sugar is really getting exposed for all the damage it can do. The ‘big three’ dangerous health risks in the United States are obesity, heart disease, and diabetes, all of which are associated with too much sugar consumption. It’s not hard to see that it is something that needs to be eliminated.

I won’t lie, it won’t be easy thanks to the addictive nature of sugar and the fact it’s pretty much everywhere. If you can start cutting out manufactured and processed foods, that will be the best start as that’s where sugar is going to show up. If there’s one thing you do, at least cut out liquid sugar. Don’t drink your calories. That means eliminating soft drinks, juices, and sports drinks. Just this alone can make a huge difference to your health.

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Wrapping It Up

Obviously, your health and wellness go a lot deeper than these three tips. However, if you’re looking to make a change, this is a good place to start. These are tips that aren’t overwhelming, rather they are straightforward and easy to implement. Like I mentioned, don’t do everything at once. Start out with one and go with it for a few weeks until it feels comfortable. Then, move on to another.

If you let yourself gradually adopt new healthy habits every few weeks, by the end of the year you may be looking at a complete overhaul to your health and wellness. So when that calendar flips for the next January, you’ll already be ahead of the game.

Featured photo credit: Paul Wilkinson via flickr.com

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Jamie is a personal trainer and health coach with a degree in Kinesiology and Food and Nutrition.

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Last Updated on October 15, 2019

How To Be Successful In Life? 13 Tips From The Most Successful People

How To Be Successful In Life? 13 Tips From The Most Successful People

What is success to you? How to be successful in life?

To some, when they think of success, they imagine wealth; others want power; some just want to make a positive impact on the world.

All of these are perfectly valid, indeed success is a concept that means different things to different people. Though no matter what success is to you, it almost certainly isn’t something will come easily.

There are countless guides and books to being successful, however, as success is personal and unique to each individual. The advice contained in these books can often not be relevant. Therefore following the advice of a single individual can often be unhelpful.

With this in mind, considering the advice of a great many people, people whose ideas of success were different both to each other, and quite possibly, to you can be a good alternative.

What follows is a list of thirteen of the best pieces of advice from some of the most successful people who have ever lived. If you want to learn how to be successful, these 13 tips are essential:

1. Think Big

    From Michelangelo Buonarroti, Great Renaissance Artist:

    “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”

    There are few artists as influential as Michaelangelo. Today centuries after his death, his work still inspires and connects to people. His work is world famous, just think of his statue of David, or the Mural in the Sistine Chapel in the Vatican.

    Imagine then, if he decided not to work as an artist.

    Being a successful artist has always been extremely difficult, imagine if he decided to give up this ambition in favour of something easier?

    Oftentimes, people often decided to put their dreams aside for something more “realistic”. To give up their dream for something easier. This quote teaches us the danger of such a point of view.
    Instead be ambitious.

    2. Find What You Love to Do and Do It

      From Oprah Winfrey, Media Mogul:

      “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.”

      This is a good quote to remember and think about when you’re at work.

      Imagine being as successful as possible in your current job. Ultimately you’ll probably find yourself working extremely hard and this it will take up much of your time.

      If it’s a job you hate, then being successful at it might only mean filling your life with something you hate to do. What’s the sense in this?

      Instead, why not focus on doing something you love? When you’ve found what you’re passionate about, you get the motivation to keep you moving. Success at this means the fulfilment of your dreams.

      Not sure what your passion is yet? You should learn about this Motivation Engine first.

      Even if you’re not successful, you still filled your time with something you love to do. Many successful musicians spent years of their lives doing unpaid performances, the only reason they kept playing was because they loved to perform.

      3. Learn How to Balance Life

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        From Phil Knight, CEO of Nike Inc.:

        “There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about that is the key to success.”

        All too often, people think that to be successful, they need to make the object of their success their life.

        If a person thinks their job will lead them to success, then they may spend countless hours per day, and well into the evening working hard.

        However this comes at the cost of rest, your health and having an enjoyable life. Ultimately they may burn out and cease to be successful at their job anyway.

        If success comes from having a strong social life and a good group of friends, their job may suffer; meaning that they may lose their job, and then be unable to afford going out with friends.

        In these ways, success, as Phil Knight says above, is helped by balance. Think of it as a balance between rest and work, or work and play.

        To achieve that balance, this Ultimate Guide to Prioritizing Your Work And Life can help you.

        4. Do Not Be Afraid of Failure

          From Henry Ford, Founder of Ford Motors:

          “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”

          There is a story, it’s unconfirmed whether it actually happened, yet the message within is none the less true:

          Thomas Edison inventing the lightbulb was the result of several hundred failed attempts. In an interview, he was asked “How do you feel after all of your failed attempts?”

          His response was great, “I didn’t fail, I learned hundreds of ways not to invent the lightbulb”

          He saw each “failure” as a lesson. From that lesson he learned what won’t work, and also might work instead.

          Each failed attempt, each rejection, were key steps on his path to success. It is easy to feel like you should give up after a failure. But perhaps in that failure is a lesson.

          Pay attention to your failures, study them. Perhaps then you’ll learn how to succeed.

          If you find it difficult to fight your fear of failure, here’s a guide for you: Why You Have the Fear of Failure (And How to Conquer It Step-By-Step)

          5. Have an Unwavering Resolution to Succeed

            From Colonel Sanders, Founder of KFC:

            “I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, nor amount of labor, nor amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it. I know.”

            This, in many ways relates to the above quote about learning from your failures.

            It’s the easiest thing in the world to give up from a failure. The only way to push on is if you have the true burning desire to succeed, to not be moved or dissuaded from your goals.

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            If you are not truly dedicated towards success, then each failure will hurt more, each set back will slow you down.

            Success is hard; without the unwavering desire to succeed, this difficulty may seem insurmountable. With the desire, it is merely an obstacle to go through.

            6. Be a Person of Action

              From Leonardo da Vinci, Renaissance Genius:

              “It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”

              Though it was said hundreds of years ago, it works just as much today as it ever had. It applies to literally any successful person.

              Think about it, picture someone like William Shakespeare:

              When we think of the time he lived in, we think of the time in a way shaped by him. When we think of Renaissance era Italy, we think of Michelangelo and Leonardo Da Vinci. Or think about the present day, Bill Gates or Steve Jobs. Our current way of life would simply be incomparably different if they didn’t accomplish what they did.

              You’re probably reading this article on a device by a company that they either founded or companies influenced by them.

              All these figures were proactive, they saw ways to do things differently and did them. If they let the world shape them, then they’d simply fit into the background. Instead they shaped the world.

              Applying this to you?

              Don’t be afraid of going outside the norm. If you can think of a better way to do something, do it that way. If you fail, try again.

              7. Cultivate Positive Relationships

                From Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of America: “

                The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.”

                The best leaders and some of the most influential people (and Theodore Roosevelt is one of the best leaders and one of the most influential people to have lived) were not those who caused commotions, who fought with people or disregarded people; but were people who were friendly to those around them.

                People liked them. They wanted them to do well.

                This is key to good leadership.

                It’s logical. If someone likes you, they want to help you; if you give them a suggestion, they’ll gladly follow through with it.

                But if someone doesn’t like you, they may either refuse to help or actively get in your way.

                What’s more, it’s always a good idea to cultivate good relationships. You can never tell who will prove to become someone who’ll be able to help you in a big way, or even be a good and supportive friend.

                As such, help people and they may help you; and be good to people, and they my be good to you.

                8. Don’t Be Afraid of Introducing New Ideas

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                  From Mark Twain, Famed Author:

                  “A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.”

                  It is an unfortunate truth that those with the boldest ideas are often disregarded.

                  Most of us are taught from an early age to think and do things similarly to everyone else. This can be great to fill an existing role. But to truly do things differently (and all successful people did things differently), you need to think differently.

                  If you have a new idea, don’t throw it away because it’s new and different; instead, celebrate it. Your strange new idea might one day be the one that leads you to success.

                  9. Believe in Your Capacity to Succeed

                    From Walter Disney, Founder of Walt Disney Company:

                    “If you can dream it, you can do it.”

                    Success has to be something you can imagine yourself achieving.

                    It is possible that you will come across those who doubt you and your ability to succeed. You must not become one of these people because the moment you cease believing and dreaming is the moment these dreams fall away.

                    Keep dreaming!

                    10. Always Maintain a Positive Mental Attitude

                      From Thomas Jefferson, 3rd President of America:

                      “Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”

                      Like the above quote says, you need to trust in your ability to succeed. This is the only way to cultivate the right mindset.

                      Replace negative thoughts with the positive ones. You need to approach problems, not as obstacles stopping you, but merely tasks that need to be completed for you to keep going.

                      If you stay positive and think like this, setbacks won’t affect you so much, people’s doubts won’t impact you and even the biggest obstacles will seem like minor problems.

                      However with the wrong mindset of doubt, you’ll be much easier to stop.

                      11. Don’t Let Discouragement Stop You from Pressing On

                        From Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of America:

                        “Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.”

                        It is an unfortunate fact of human nature — all of us in some way, doubt ourselves. This can be made far worse if others doubt us too.

                        When surrounded by doubts, giving up can actually seem like a good idea.

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                        Don’t pay attention to the doubts. If you are discouraged, ignore it.

                        If this discouragement moves into your mind and you begin to doubt yourself. It is important to ignore this too.

                        This is How Self Doubt Keeps You Stuck and How to Overcome It

                        12. Be Willing to Work Hard

                          From JC Penny, Founder of JC Penney Inc.:

                          “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”

                          You might have heard the quote that “success is 1% inspiration, 99% perspiration” or you may have heard about the 10,000 hours idea.

                          Whichever way you frame it, they say one thing:

                          True success comes from work.

                          You’ll never become successful if you don’t work towards your goal in life and keep working towards it.

                          Check out this article and you’ll understand Why Hard Work Beats Talent.

                          13. Be Brave Enough to Follow Your Intuition

                            From Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc.:

                            “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

                            In ancient Greece, there was a group of Oracles who lived in Delphi. Everyone who needed advice or to know their future visited them, from the poorest of society to kings. Above the doorway of the temple were the words “know thyself”.

                            If you strongly believe and desire something, chances are that you already have an idea how to get there. If not, you may naturally know what things will help you and what things will slow you down.

                            It’s like how your body can detect danger even when things seem safe.

                            Ultimately then, you need to trust your own instincts.

                            Final Thoughts

                            What you might have noticed is that many of the above lessons are similar — most are about developing the right state of mind. This clearly suggests that the key to achieving success, in whatever you wish, comes down to the way you approach it mentally.

                            Moreover, no matter what stage of life you’re at now, you can still make a difference and pursue success. You can make resetting your life possible when you do this: How to Start Over and Reboot Your Life When It Seems Too Late

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