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5 Ways To Bring Out The Best In You

5 Ways To Bring Out The Best In You

Success for many people may be high performance, making a good and steady income or becoming wealthy, consistently doing the greater good for others, or simply just having inner peace within oneself. With life’s ebbs and flows, it can be challenging to become successful, no matter what your definition of success may be. Many people tend to become stuck in confusion of how to even begin to get to the level of success in which they want to be. However, there are some tips you can apply to help you get started.

1. Inventory Your Talents

In order to be successful at something, you need to perform well. Every person has something they are good at doing, whether it is taking care of others, performing specific duties that require certain skills, or remaining calm while being under pressure. You can also inventory your talent by asking people who are close to you to reveal what it is that they think you are good at doing. You can also ask those you care for what they think makes you unique and special. Finding perspective from others is a great tool to try!

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2. Think of Your Childhood

Take some time to relax, close your eyes, and think back to your younger days. Reflect on the times you were the happiest, think about the things you loved doing, and contemplate about how you felt when you were doing them. In addition to this, think about when you were younger (or even now), what you didn’t want to stop doing when you were told to switch to a new task. Ask yourself, “Why do I want to keep doing this? What precisely makes me enjoy it so much?”

3. Be a Dreamer

Surely, you have spent time just thinking about how you wish your life could be. We all do, even when we are seemingly in a good place in our lives. Successful people want more; they want to reach even higher. Using meditation each morning as you awaken, or at night before you go to sleep, will help clear your mind and open it up for accepting new thoughts. Dreaming big gives hope to anyone who wants to achieve more, and eventually those dreams will enable you to find a way to make good things happen!

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4. Be Daring

It is imperative to take risks in order to achieve your goals and to become what you want to be. You may have to be proactive in your search for a better life and reach out to others. You may have to apply for a new job, decide to go back to school, or start a business and step out of your comfort zone. This may make you anxious and uncomfortable, but, with all risks, it is necessary. Take that leap of faith and a deep breath, and go for it.

Unleashing and holding tight to something you love to do, either as a means of income or for sheer enjoyment, can be done with a little persistence towards yourself. It may take time to find what makes your excitement grow as you do something productive, but it is most definitely a realistic goal to set for yourself. Living your life, day to day, should bring you satisfaction and joy. After all, you deserve nothing less!

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5. Realize That Victory Is Near

Many people think that success for them is so far away and they get overwhelmed easily by thinking about it. When you have worked on your goals for a while but things don’t seem to be working for you, you might feel like giving up or at least frustrated. Usually ,when this happens, you are just two millimeters away from victory. This is one of the beautiful lessons I learned from Tony Robbins at his UPW event in Australia. Tony called this the “2-millimeter shift“. He explained that all you need is a little shift in your strategy or mindset in order to maintain the momentum to achieve the outcome that you are after. So when things are not working and you are stuck, just remember that victory is near and all you need is to find that tiny shift.

When you realize that the success you want is within your reach, you will keep going and utilizing more of your potential and resources to help you achieve your goals.

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Published on May 20, 2019

How to Prevent Inaction from Leading to Regret

How to Prevent Inaction from Leading to Regret

Time.

When you think of this construct, where do you see your time being spent?

As William Shakespeare famously wrote “I wasted time, and now doth time waste me…”

Have you used your time wisely? Are you where you want to be?

Or do you have unfinished goals to attain… places you want to be, things you still need to do?

The hard truth is, that time once passed cannot be replaced–which is why it is common to hear people say that one should not squander time doing nothing, or delay certain decisions for later. More often than not, the biggest blocker from reaching our goals is often inaction – which is essentially doing nothing, rather than doing something. 

There are many reasons why we may not do something. Most often it boils down to adequate time. We may feel we don’t have enough time, or that it’s never quite the right time to pursue our goals.

Maybe next month, or maybe next year…

And, before you know it, the time has passed and you’re still no where near achieving those goals you dream about. This inaction often leads to strong regret once we look at the situation through hindsight. So, take some time now to reflect on any goal(s) you may have in mind, or hidden at the back of your mind; and, think about how you can truly start working on them now, and not later.

So, how do you start?

Figure Out Your Purpose (Your Main Goal)


The first important step is to figure out your purpose, or your main goal.

What is it that you’re after in life? And, are there any barriers preventing you from reaching your goal? These are good questions to ask when it comes to figuring out how (and for what purpose) you are spending your time.

Your purpose will guide you, and it will ensure your time spent is within the bounds of what you actually want to accomplish.

A good amount of research has been done on how we as humans develop and embrace long-term and highly meaningful goals in our lives. So much so, that having a purpose has connections to reduced stroke, and heart attack. It turns out, our desire to accomplish goals actually has an evolutionary connection–especially goals with a greater purpose to them. This is because a greater purpose often helps both the individual, and our species as a whole, survive.

Knowing why it is you’re doing something is important; and, when you do, it will be easier to budget your time and effort into pursuing after those milestones or tasks that will lead to the accomplishment of your main goal.

Assess Your Current Time Spent

Next comes the actual time usage. Once you know what your main goal is, you’ll want to make the most of the time you have now. It’s good to know how you’re currently spending your time, so that you can start making improvements and easily assess what can stay and what can go in your day to day routine.

For just one day, ideally on a day when you’d like to be more productive, I encourage you to record a time journal, down to the quarter hour if you can manage. You may be quite surprised at how little things—such as checking social media, answering emails that could wait, or idling at the water cooler or office pantry —can add up to a lot of wasted time.

To get you started, I recommend you check out this quick self assessment to assess your current productivity: Want To Know How Much You’re Getting Done In A Day?

Tricks to Tackle Distractions

Once you’ve assessed how you’re currently spending your time, I hope you won’t be in for too big of a shock when you see just how big of an impact distractions and time wasters are in your life.

Every time your mind wanders from your work, it takes an average of 25 minutes and 26 seconds to get into focus again. That’s almost half an hour of precious time every time you entertain a distraction!

Which is why it’s important to learn how to focus, and tackle distractions effectively. Here’s how to do it:

1. Set Time Aside for Focusing

One way to stay focused is to set focused sessions for yourself. During a focused session, you should let people know that you won’t be responding unless it’s a real emergency.

Set your messaging apps and shared calendars as “busy” to reduce interruptions. Think of these sessions as one on one time with yourself so that you can truly focus on what’s important, without external distractions coming your way.

2. Beware of Emails

Emails may sound harmless, but they can come into our inbox continuously throughout the day, and it’s tempting to respond to them as we receive them. Especially if you’re one to check your notifications frequently.

Instead of checking them every time a new notification sounds, set a specific time to deal with your emails at one go. This will no doubt increase your productivity as you’re dealing with emails one after the other, rather than interrupting your focus on another project each time an email comes in.

Besides switching off your email notifications so as not to get distracted, you could also install a Chrome extension called Block Site that helps to stop Gmail notifications coming through at specific times, making it easier for you to manage these subtle daily distractions.

3. Let Technology Help

As much as we are getting increasingly distracted because of technology, we can’t deny it’s many advantages. So instead of feeling controlled by technology, why not make use of disabling options that the devices offer?

Turn off email alerts, app notifications, or set your phone to go straight to voicemail and even create auto-responses to incoming text messages. There are also apps like Forrest that help to increase your productivity by rewarding you each time you focus well, which encourages you to ignore your phone.

4. Schedule Time to Get Distracted

Just as important as scheduling focus time, is scheduling break times. Balance is always key, so when you start scheduling focused sessions, you should also intentionally pen down some break time slots for your mind to relax.

This is because the brain isn’t created to sustain long periods of focus and concentration. The average attention span for an adult is between 15 and 40 minutes. After this time, your likelihood of distractions get stronger and you’ll become less motivated.

So while taking a mental break might seem unproductive, in the long run it makes your brain work more efficiently, and you’ll end up getting more work done overall.

Time is in Your Hands

At the end of the day, we all have a certain amount of time to go all out to pursue our heart’s desires. Whatever your goals are, the time you have now, is in your hands to make them come true.

You simply need to start somewhere, instead of allowing inaction waste your time away, leaving you with regret later on. With a main goal or purpose in mind, you can be on the right track to attaining your desired outcomes.

Being aware of how you spend your time and learning how to tackle common distractions can help boost you forward in completing what’s necessary to reach your most desired goals.

So what are you waiting for? 

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