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Why asking for help isn’t the same as giving in

Why asking for help isn’t the same as giving in

Asking for help is something most entrepreneurs (including myself) aren’t very good at doing. It’s understandable: when you come up with a killer idea for a business, you want to be the one who sets it in motion.

I started my first business aged 21 full of optimism, passion and arrogance. Like most 20 year-olds, I thought listening was a waste of time. Sure, they might have done it before, but I was doing something different and better. It took me 20 years to realise that talking to people and asking for help are two of the most useful skills an entrepreneur can learn.

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Find a mentor

Finding a mentor is a good way of receiving professional and targeted guidance. Find someone who you admire, who has more experience and a different skill set than you. Be honest about what you’re good at and where you’re struggling so that you make the most of their help. A mentor isn’t there to shower you in praise, but to offer you constructive criticism and share their experiences of the business world.

According to data presented by the Harvard Business School, 25% of start-ups crash and burn so it makes sense to take advice from someone who’s done it before and can recognise the warning signs early on. You don’t have to implement everything they say, but listen and take notes because if it’s not helpful now, it could be in the future.

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Get a partner

Sometimes it’s even more worth bringing in a partner so that the business can benefit from two or even three differing perspectives. For example, my skills tend to be more in sales and motivating, so I recently partnered with Andrew Valentine, the Founder of Street Car, who has helped massively by advising me and analysing our business models for AVirtual. It’s a really effective working relationship and means that I can spend more time doing what I love.

It’s also worth remembering that investors tend to prefer investing in a pair of founders rather than one person because they recognise that no-one is good at everything and it’s less risky for them.

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Build a network

Aside from office interactions, being an entrepreneur can be painfully lonely. It’s important to build a network of people who are doing similar things, can offer support and help you to expand your professional circles. That’s where the most exciting collaborations and partnerships come from. There will come some point in your career when you need recommendations from other professionals, whether it’s about website design, marketing or assembling a board of directors so it’s worth making as many connections as you can now.

Also, don’t underestimate the usefulness of professional organisations; they can connect you with CEOs from across the globe and usually, have amazing archives of motivational and focussed articles on relevant business topics. I’ve met some of the most interesting people in my career through EO, but there are networks in almost every community which you can join. It can be daunting, but pushing through your comfort zone usually pays off.

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Hire an assistant

Finally, hire an assistant early on so that you don’t become one. It might seem like a luxury, particularly when you’re just starting out, but employing someone to take care of day-to-day administration will save you a massive amount of time and make the whole experience more enjoyable.

It’s hard when you’re an entrepreneur because your role isn’t always that clear cut and you end up doing a bit of everything, which can be quite challenging and unsettling, not to mention stressful. An assistant can help you learn to prioritise and delegate; skills, which are vital for effective leadership and optimal productivity.

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Last Updated on August 10, 2020

10 Things You Should Do If You’re Unemployed

10 Things You Should Do If You’re Unemployed

Regardless of your background, times today are tough. While uneven economies around the world have made it incredibly difficult for many people to find work, the recent COVID pandemic has made things worse.

Regardless of age and qualification, stretches of unemployment have affected us all in recent years. While we might not be able to control being unemployed, we can control how we react to it.

Despite difficult conditions, there are many ways to grow and stay hopeful. Whether you’re looking for work, or just taking a breather between assignments, these 10 endeavors will keep you busy and productive. Plus, some may even help push your resume to the top of the next pile.

Here’re 10 things you should do when you’re unemployed:

1. Keep a Schedule

It’s fine to take a few days after you’re finished at work to relax, but try not to get too comfortable.

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As welcoming as permanently moving into your sweatpants may seem, keeping a schedule is one way to stay productive and focused. While unemployed, if you continue to start your day early, you are more likely to get more done. Also, keeping up with day to day tasks makes you less likely to grow depressed or inactive.

2. Join a Temp Agency

One of the easiest ways to bridge the gap between jobs is to find temporary work, or work with a temp agency. While many unemployed people job hunt religiously, rememberer to include temp agencies in the search.

While not a permanent solution, you will be in a better position financially while you search for something permanent.

3. Work Online

Another great option if you’re unemployed is online work. Many different sites offer a variety of ways to make money online, but make sure the site you’re working for is reputable.

Micro job sites such as Fiverr and Upwork as well as sites that pay for you to take surveys, are all quick, legitimate options. While these sites sometimes offer lower pay, it’s always better to move forward slowly than not at all.

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4. Get Organized

Unemployment is an excellent opportunity to get organized. Embark on some spring cleaning, go through old boxes, and get rid of the things you don’t need. Streamlining your life will help you dive head first into the next chapter, plus it helps you feel like your unemployed time is spent productively.

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5. Exercise

Much like organizing your life, another good way to keep yourself enthusiastic and healthy is to exercise. It doesn’t take much to get slightly more active, and exercise can help you stay positive. Even a walk around the block a few times a week can do a lot for keeping you motivated and determined. If you take care of yourself, you can make the most of this extra time.

6. Volunteer

Volunteering is an excellent way to use extra time when you’re unemployed. Additionally, if you volunteer in an area related to your job qualifications, you can often include the experience on your resume.

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Not only that, doing good is a true mood booster and is sure to help you stay optimistic while looking for your next job.

7. Improve Your Skills

Looking for ways to increase your job skills while unemployed is a good way to move forward as well. Look for certifications or training you could take, especially those offered for free.

You can qualify more for even entry level positions with extra training in your line of work, and many cities or states offer job skills training. Refreshing your resume, and interview and job skills may make your job hunt easier.

8. Treat Yourself

Unemployment can be trying and tiring, so don’t forget to treat yourself occasionally. Take a reasonable amount of time off from your weekly job hunt to recharge and rest up. Letting yourself rest will maximize your productivity during the hours you job search.

Even if you don’t have extra money for entertainment, a walk or visit to the park can do wonders to help you go back and attack your job hunt.

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9. See What You Can Sell

Another good way to bridge the gap between jobs is to sell unused possessions. eBay and Amazon are both secure sites, but traditional garage sales are a fine option too. Sell off a few video games, or some electronics, for some quick and easy cash while you figure out a permanent solution.

10. Take a Course

Much like training and certifications, taking a class can be a good way to keep yourself sharp while unemployed. Especially when you’re between jobs, it can be easy to forget this option, as most courses cost money. Don’t forget the mass of free educational tools online: 25 Killer Sites For Free Online Education

Keeping your brain sharp can help you stay focused and may even help you learn some new, relevant job skills.

The Bottom Line

While unemployment numbers are still high, there are many things you can do to better yourself and move forward. While new skills to aid your job hung might seem out of reach, there are plenty of free ways to get ahead, online and off.

Additionally, don’t forget that taking time for yourself can do wonders for keeping you productive in your job hunt. While it is a challenge, don’t give up–being unemployed can offer you extra time to better yourself, and possibly grow more qualified to find work.

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