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4 Things you Can do to Become your Own Life Coach

4 Things you Can do to Become your Own Life Coach

Everybody needs a champion. In the midst of life’s ups and downs, ebbs and flows, a champion is there to pull you up along the way and force you to go further; to not give up. Obstacles happen along the path of life, and without that voice to keep your drive determined and steady, moving forward can be a difficult thing to do. Many people hire life-coaches to help them with short and long-term goals, especially if they are getting ready to make a change in their lives. But did you ever think that you could be your own life coach and your biggest fan? Here are some ways in which you can become your own life coach and become successful in your journeys.

#1. Identify Areas of Improvement

You have probably been thinking about finding a life coach or wondering what you can do to better yourself. In that case, the first step to take is to reflect upon yourself, honestly, about what you can improve. Perhaps you want to improve your health by exercising more, or improve your finances by strategizing a budget that you can really stick to, or even making a career change. Whatever you want to improve in your life, make a list and focus on the items, one at a time.

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#2. Recognize Your Challenges

While you will need to focus on your strengths to make any changes in your life, it is equally important to recognize your weaknesses, or challenges. Being honest with yourself and acknowledging your challenges are both crucial in developing a plan of action. For example, if you feel you fall short in willpower, your inner-coach will need to address that challenge in order to make you resist the temptation of giving in. We all have challenges, but with the right mindset and strategies, they are able to be overcome. That is where you, as your own life coach, come in. Your role is to be honest with yourself and remain positive with an “I can do it!” attitude and steamroll right over those recognizable weaknesses in order to achieve the change you want to see, or be!

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#3. Educate Yourself

An educated mind is such a powerful mind, and doing research and learning about different tactics you can apply to your daily life, tactics that work for you, can help you reach your improvement goals. Finding information on how to deal with challenges, how to adopt a positive mindset and keep it going, and how to set specific short-term goals to reach your dream can help you along the way. As your own life coach, taking the time to learn as much as you can about what you need to do in order to make an important change (or changes) in your life will be beneficial.

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#4. Learn From Others

Listen to or read about other individuals that have changed their life for the better. Learn from them. Life coach Tony Robbins said that the surest way to become successful is to model someone who is already successful.  Many people who have achieved a major life goal are very proud and are open to sharing their story. Many people also give tips and methods they used to help them along the way. You can also learn from their mistakes to help you in your decision-making process as you make your way in your journey. Of course, recognizing that your needs are different and unique to you is important; however, it is still nice to hear stories of inspiration from others that have succeeded.

Being your own life coach will bring you closer to your inner-self and give you the strength you never knew you had. Being intrinsically motivated to attain your new life goals will give you a sense of inner peace and happiness within yourself, which will in turn shine through for others to see!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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