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8 Signs Foretelling You’re Destined To Be Successful

8 Signs Foretelling You’re Destined To Be Successful

It’s rough out there trying to make your mark in the world. At some point or another we come across people, situations, quotes, that inspire us. What we do with that inspiration is up to us. We can either make the choice to be average, or make the choice to become something much, much greater. We often relate success to careers or finances, but it’s much more broad than that. You define what success is to you and these traits show you’re on the right track.

1. You’re action-oriented

You’re one of those people who likes to take on a task and get things done. You’re not afraid to make mistakes along the way because in your eyes, you’d rather get things moving and adjust your approach after seeing some results. You’re a leader, you like to be in charge. Some may look at this as a bad thing, but sometimes with you, it’s an “it’s my way or the highway” kind of deal.

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You may also at times find yourself being mildly stubborn in some situations. You’re the complete opposite of indecisive. You take on leadership roles with ease, and you actually enjoy the responsibility that comes along with it. What is patience? You know little to almost nothing about it. You often find yourself becoming impatient with those around you who aren’t like you.

2. You keep an open mind

One of the most important characteristics of successful people is learning to keep an open mind about literally anything and everything, but you know that already. You notice that the more you learn, you realize how little you know. This mindset allows for you to take advantage of opportunities that present themselves to you. You’re always open to new ideas, new ways of thinking, and you’re constantly challenging your own beliefs.

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3. You have the habit of setting goals

Most think that setting goals means “what do I want five years from now?” But you realize the importance of setting daily, achievable goals. You understand that by sometimes setting long-term goals you can lose your vision, so you establish small daily goals that will help you achieve that vision much easier. You’re a realistic optimist.

4. You aren’t stuck in the past or failure

You know that what’s done is done and you can’t go back and change anything in the past. You use your past as a vital tool for your future. Everything from your past has brought you to the present and you don’t waste any of your time wallowing in the could’ve, should’ve, would’ve beens. You know that by getting stuck in the past you’re robbing yourself of the present and future. You’re completely adaptable and you fully embrace change. You’re comfortable with the unknown and you’re always ready to take it head on.

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5. You can delay gratification

You have an uncanny ability to wait it out for the big reward for all your dedication and hard work. You take a look at what you have and what you want, and you’re able to avoid making impulsive decisions. For example, if someone told you that you could have one cookie now, or you could wait 20 minutes and receive two cookies, you’re smart enough to wait it out and reap the larger reward.

Delayed gratification truly applies to all aspects of life. Whether it be with your career, finances, relationships, health, etc. You have acquired the ability to ignore the temptations of instant gratification because you know that it is an essential element when you’re trying to reach your ultimate goal.

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6. You work on maximizing your strengths

“Successful people maximize their strengths and minimize their weaknesses. They know what they are good at.” – Alan Stein

You use your strengths as your foundation to success. You rely on the skills in which you are proficient and use them to do what you love. You’re fully aware of your weaknesses and look to others for their knowledge and skills in areas in which you lack. You know that you can’t do everything on your own so reaching out to others for assistance when needed isn’t a difficult task for you. You use your strengths as your prime resource to reach your goals.

7. You’re ambitious

You can clearly see yourself being the best of the best. You wake up every day ready to tackle anything and everything thrown your way. Why? Because you know in the long run it’s going to help you achieve your end goal. You know that it isn’t just about working longs hours and seeing a journey to its end. Ambition is truly the reason for existence. It’s your soul telling you where the meaning in life is found. You’re extremely persistent and nothing stands in your way.

8. You have passion for improvement

You have this deep desire and craving to always want to improve yourself and often times you can be too hard on yourself. You’re constantly wanting to change and improve so you can become the best version of you. You’re never satisfied and you’re your own worst critic, in every aspect of your life.

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Last Updated on January 24, 2021

7 Ways to Eliminate Your Excuses

7 Ways to Eliminate Your Excuses

I have this friend. She uses excuses to get out of everything related to being a responsible adult (and I mean everything!). The worst part is, she’s been doing this for so long, excuses are now a deeply embedded part of her personality.

I used to gently nudge her toward ways to solve her excuses so she’d stop holding herself back, but she has the market cornered. Seriously, it’s an impenetrable force field. Her life isn’t at all how she wants it to be, and instead of taking responsibility for it, she pulls out her scroll of excuses and reads out the section called “Reasons Why Nothing Is My Fault.”

Truthfully, I’d have more respect for her if she were to just come out with it and say, “I’m not doing this or that because I’m too lazy.” Let’s face facts: if she wanted her picture-perfect lifestyle badly enough, she’d do anything to get it.

Why do I bother with her? Because at one time, I was her: ambitious, motivated, determined, but when things weren’t going how I wanted them to I was suddenly a victim of my environment. This led to years of spinning my tires. My excuses were always there to break my fall… until they weren’t. Like my friend, I was participating in a blind game of self-sabotage that led to my life turning out exactly how I swore it never would.

Like all bad habits, excuses are easy. They allow you to box yourself into your comfort zone and be “okay” with your life. After a while, you’ll find this way of living isn’t enough for you. You can either accept where your life is (which is the excuse-coated version of “give up”), or you can eliminate your excuses by taking responsibility for where you are now and more importantly, why you created the excuses in the first place.

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So what’ll it be? Yeah, I thought so. To help you get started, here are 7 ways to eliminate your excuses:

1. Read Between the Lines

Usually, the excuse you’re using is masking the real reason why you “can’t” accomplish something. For some, it’s a fear of failure. For others, it’s a self-esteem issue. For others still, it’s a fear of success or having something to lose.

If you’re unsure of where the excuses are coming from, simply ask yourself: if you were to succeed and accomplish what you want, what’s the worst thing that could happen? List off every worst case scenario, and you’ll likely recognize a theme. This is the issue to tackle.

2. Stop Ending Your Statements with a “But…”

This is a little trick I use that works every time: instead of saying “I’d really like to, but…”, cut yourself off and say “I’d really like to.” This triggers your mind to focus on the plans you need to make to reach your goals, instead of the roadblocks currently in your way. Instant motivation!

3. Avoid Other “Excusers”

One of the big things I noticed once I began stepping out of my comfort zone was the number of people in my life who were also making excuses. So many excuses, in fact, that looking back on our conversations together, we were always complaining and excusing! Imagine if we instead put all of that time into doing!

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Like you, those you spend time with might not realize they’re making excuses, and trust me you can point it out all you want – it’s a realization everyone has to come to on their own before they can change. Jump start a new conversation; be the one who changes the tune. If you eliminate your excuses, you’ll likely encourage those you care about to do the same.

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4. Trick Yourself

Depending on your goals, sometimes just thinking about them is overwhelming. This is especially the case with enormous goals, such as succeeding in a challenging career or building a business from the ground up. It’s too easy to become so overwhelmed you don’t get started at all.

Eliminate your excuses by creating the mother of all to-do lists as it relates to that specific goal. Break it down into itty bitty baby steps. Only work on one tiny step at a time, and hide the rest of the steps in a drawer. When you’re done the step, it doesn’t feel like it was such a big deal. Then move onto the next, and the next. This worked wonders for me when I started working on my first screenplay while simultaneously recovering from adrenal fatigue. Now, I’m able to work on it regularly—and comfortably—without a list at all.

Soon, you’ll look back on all of your tiny steps and will be amazed at your progress!

5. Build Excuse-Free Habits

As they say, “Feel the fear, but do it anyway.” Recognize the excuses you’re making, own up to them, and do what you want to do regardless of what you think is holding you back. Yes, it’s a lot easier said than done, but it’s one thing to say you have control of your life and another to take control.

Building these habits is difficult, and sometimes painful in the moment, but afterward you feel refreshed and indescribably proud of yourself. So much so, you’ll want to set your next challenge right away. It’s an addictive practice once you get started! Make testing your limits fun and enjoy the process on your own terms.

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6. Use Your Excuses As Signals

Once you recognize your excuses for what they are, you can begin using them to your advantage. Consider your excuses a signal to a deeper underlying problem. It’s a great way to familiarize yourself with what makes you tick. Each time you find yourself making an excuse, look into it further, find the true cause and work toward moving past it. The more you practice this, the less you’ll hold yourself back from your full potential.

7. Trust the Process

There are times when you sincerely want to do something, but there are aspects of your schedule/lifestyle/workload that hugely conflict with what you want. In these instances, you’re not in denial or making excuses, you’re simply examining the roadblocks that are in your way. It’s when you allow these roadblocks to stay in place that they become excuses.

Oddly enough, it’s when something’s really important to us that we start layering on the excuses. If you immediately turn to a proactive attitude when these situations arise, and trust yourself to think of a solution, you won’t have to eliminate your excuses – you won’t be able to find one.

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