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4 Easy Steps to Becoming a Morning Person (And Making It Stick)

4 Easy Steps to Becoming a Morning Person (And Making It Stick)

On what felt like just another Sunday morning, it finally hit me. In the five minutes I spent trying to make out the outline of my take-away coffee, my girlfriend at the time had changed out of her running clothes, bounced up next to me and finished listing her favourite moments of the morning.

She had proudly completed a personal best run, the rose bushes were now blooming, she’d picked up some fruit for breakfast and the new girl at the cafe had finally remembered her name. As she recalled the memories, her skin glowing in the warm morning light, it all finally clicked.

At that exact moment it suddenly hit me how much life I was missing out on.

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There’s a common myth that we are born a night owl or an early bird, but as I soon realised, this is simply not true. Drawing on techniques from visualisation, fitness and mindfulness you can teach your body to wake up early and transform your schedule in the space of a few weeks.

If you follow these 4 easy steps you will soon be feeling like a brand new person and have more energy than you ever thought possible.

1. Write Down Why You Want To Become a Morning Person

Maybe you would love to be more productive, have time for a nutritious breakfast or simply feel more alive during the day. Whatever it is, write it all down on a piece of paper. How would having these things make you feel? Healthy? Full of energy? More fulfilled? Get everything down. When it’s finished, place the paper next to your bed or pin it where you can see it easily when waking up.

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2. Choose a Morning Routine

Next you need to choose some activities to kick start your morning. Studies show that repeating physical and mental tasks help strengthen the habit-forming part of your brain. In other words, the more you repeat the same tasks in the same order, the better you will get at doing it without thinking!

I start my mornings with a gym session or a morning walk, meditation and preparing a healthy breakfast. You could try things like writing in a journal, brewing coffee, reading or even studying. Make sure you choose 1-3 activities that you find uplifting or useful, that take anywhere from 20 minutes to 2 hours to complete. It’s completely up to you.

Don’t worry too much about getting it ‘right’ the first time – as long as you have a pre-decided routine, that’s half the battle won.

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3. Visualise Your Morning Routine At Night

In the final moments before drifting off to sleep, imagine yourself waking up the next morning and performing your routine in the right order. To make it more effective, focus on the little things – the feeling of dragging yourself off your mattress, how your coffee smells, or the cool fabric of gym clothes on your skin. Breathe in the air, and remind yourself that you’re becoming a morning person (and nothing will stop you!).

Run through this several times before you go to sleep, until it feels comfortable. After one or two weeks, your body will actually remember your routine as a habit and you won’t even have to put effort into getting up.

4. Practice Mindfulness

Every morning, as you’re going through your routine, try to stay present and focus on how alive (or un-alive) your body feels. When your mind starts telling you things like ‘it’s too cold!’ or ‘it’s way too early for this!’ try to focus back on your body’s sensations. If you catch yourself deep in thought, accept that it’s a thought, and reconnect your concentration on your current activity, or your breath.

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When you’ve completed your routine each morning, take a moment to smile and congratulate yourself. As the days and weeks go past, remember to savour all of those feelings you wrote down on that paper, so when you have a difficult morning it will be easy to get back on track.

Try it And You Won’t Go Back

I challenge you to give it a shot and experience the difference. It might seem hard at first, but you’re stronger than that. If you keep at it for a week your brain will have already made it up to three times easier than day 1.

Then you will look back on all those years of wallowing under the sheets that could have been spent enjoying the serenity, energy and vitality that comes from truly becoming a morning person.

Featured photo credit: Viktor Hanacek via picjumbo.com

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Last Updated on September 10, 2019

7 Morning Rituals to Empower Your Day And Change Your Life

7 Morning Rituals to Empower Your Day And Change Your Life

Most of your reality is not a given. It is shaped by your expectations, beliefs and thoughts you have formed about it. A big chunk of these beliefs and expectations are encoded into habits you integrate in your daily life.

Yes, some of these habits are formed unconsciously and can be counter-productive or limiting but conversely, you can consciously form positive habits that will transform and empower your life significantly.

This is a powerful point of departure that more and more people are becoming aware of. The most common trait of highly successful people is the recognition of the power they have in co-creating their reality through changing the way they think, believe or expect their reality to be.

One of the most effective ways of changing our belief patterns is through practising and maintaining daily rituals. Ancient traditions had clearly understood the power of rituals in reinforcing habits and changing the way we see and create our reality a long, long time ago.

Once again, if you look into the life history of any highly successful individual, you will find some form of ritual in their daily routine. Some of these rituals may seem banal or eccentric but don’t be deceived by appearances. Rituals are one of the most effective self-empowering tools freely available at the practitioner’s disposal – that is, you!

Below are some the easiest yet life-changing morning rituals you can do every day. Of course, you can have your own afternoon or bed-time rituals but morning rituals are extremely effective in empowering your day since they help you charge yourself before it all starts.

1. Gratitude

Feeling gratitude and appreciation for those little signs and moments of joy happening in your life is probably one of the most overlooked or underestimated rituals. It is a perfect morning ritual to start your day on a very positive key.

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The real power of gratitude is that it makes you pick out and focus on what is working in your life – what is in tune with your being as a whole. It is selectively positive. It reinforces happiness and positivity by shedding light on those awesome things, small or big, that grace your everyday living.

Quite often, we just pick out the pain points, the problems, the bottle necks, whatever it is that is not working in our life and causing friction, anxiety and unhappiness. This is like constantly rewriting the script of your life with a negative or tragic overtone. Your subconscious mind follows faithfully that script you write whether it is a negative or positive one.

So feeling gratitude is undoubtedly an immensely empowering ritual. Start your day by being thankful for those positive things that happened the previous day or throughout the week. It could be something really petty and small. It doesn’t matter. You might be grateful for an unexpected visit from an old friend, a beautiful encounter with a kind stranger, a new opportunity or whatever it is that shines your way. Do it every morning and see what happens during the day.

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    2. Writing Down Your Most Important Tasks

    This is a very practical ritual. Start your day by identifying and writing down from one to three of the most important tasks you need to complete during that day. These tasks are ones which support important long term goals that are aligned to your purpose, passion or general direction in life.

    For example, if writing a book or building an online community are important long term goals which are aligned to your personal growth, then an important task for the day might be finishing off a particular page or two of the book or coming up with fresh content ideas for the online community.

    What is important with this ritual is that you identify these tasks and complete them as early in the day as possible. Of course, you will have other tasks apart from the ones you will write down but, these are tasks which can be tackled later or batched up and carried out in one go.

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    Writing down your most important tasks in the morning helps you focus your day and life according to what is essential. It helps you prioritize and manage your time better. As a result, you simplify your life by applying your focus and energy on what really counts for your overall life progress.

    3. Affirm Your Goals in Writing or Drawing

    This is similar to the previous idea but different in its application and purpose. Writing down your most important tasks of the day is a way to have a concrete structure of action to follow. Affirming your goals, on the other hand, is a very powerful way of crystallizing your vision and goals in life into your everyday mental space.

    Writing down or doodling your goals on a piece of paper helps you externalize those goals by giving them form. In return, they are reflected back in your subconscious mind and thus, reinforcing them and integrating them more wholly.

    An example of this would be writing down “I am achieving greater success in my career” or “I am becoming healthier and stronger through my exercise.” Notice the present tense being used as a way to tell yourself you are in the process already. Remember the life script we subconsciously follow? You are basically modifying the script to be applied now in the present.

    Drawing or doodling can be equally, or even more, effective  (if you are more of a visual person) as it summarizes a graphical representation of your goals. For example, if your goal is to build a new house or live in another country, you can draw the house or draw things that symbolise the country you want to live in.

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      4. Practice Qi Gong Exercises

      According to Chinese philosophy, Qi (pronounced ‘Chee’) means the life force or energy inherent in all things;[1] and Qi Gong is the practice to cultivate and circulate that energy in your body. This may sound esoteric or complicated but actually, Qi Gong is really a set of simple exercises aimed at increasing your health and vitality.

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      There are numerous forms and practices available for free through the online media. As a morning ritual, I recommend following these simple exercises by Qi Gong master Lee Holden:

      5. Drink Hot Water with Lemon

      Simply add a slice of lemon in a glass of hot water and drink one every morning. This is a very simple ritual I follow faithfully every morning.

      Apart from being a good source of vitamin C and a great way of flushing out toxins in the morning, it balances and maintains the PH levels in the body, reduces pain and inflammation in joints and knees and helps nourishing brain and nerve cells. Here are some more benefits of drinking hot water with lemon.

      6. Rise Earlier

      The practical advantages of waking up early are obvious.

      For example, you gain more time for doing exercise such as walking, cycling or Qi Gong as suggested above. You gain more time to be with yourself to reflect, meditate or, more importantly, carry out the other morning rituals.

      So rising early can be seen as a foundation for all the other morning rituals. Many, like myself, find that they are more productive in the early hours of the day.

      Also, various studies have shown that there are many other benefits from waking up an hour or two earlier in the morning. Sleeping early and waking up early helps the body attune with the earth’s circadian rhythms thus, promoting more restorative sleep. Other curious results from such studies show, for instance, that early risers tend to be more optimistic and can anticipate and solve problems more efficiently than the norm.[2]

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      7. Listen to Uplifting Music

      Uplifting music can have a direct impact on our mood, especially in the morning. It charges us emotionally and tunes us into a more positive outlook of the day ahead.

      Most people wake up to music or listen to music as they commute to work. Very often, however, they tune in to a radio or randomly pick a playlist from their device. Being more selective and conscious of the music you listen to in the morning can have a great impact on your day and life in general.

      It’s funny how we try to choose music according to our mood. For example if you are feeling down or disappointed by something, you are more prone to listen to music that reflects that mood – for instance blues, sad songs or downtempo music. This has the effect of reinforcing that mood. What you need to do is the exact opposite and retune your mood by listening to music that beats to a different tune than that mood.

      Try to listen to more uplifting music in the morning even if, or especially if, your mood does not dictate so.

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      Reference

      [1] Live Science: What Is Qi Gong
      [2] Harvard Business Review: Defend Your Research: The Early Bird Really Does Get the Worm

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