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11 Incredible Things Will Happen To You When You Date A Funny Girl

11 Incredible Things Will Happen To You When You Date A Funny Girl

I have dated a funny girl. I still laugh when I remember the time we spent together. Everything was insanely memorable. She made herself count in my world. With a funny girl you really don’t get out of the moments. It sort of sticks with you for a long time and you really wish that such moments with her stayed. Make sure you embrace the incredible things that will happen to you when you start dating a funny girl

1. You will have someone who has a great sense of humor

We are not meant to take life too seriously. Because we are not perfect and can never get everything totally accurate. A funny lady will make you realize the humor in your mistakes and weaknesses. And they don’t just make you realize these flaws, they make great jokes out of them.

2. You will be surprised and caught off guard every now and then

Who doesn’t love surprises? A funny girl won’t simply make you laugh, she will surprise you with her jokes and actions. Sometimes this will make you relax and calm down in the face of a tense and a critical situation.

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3. You will have a witty friend

She is witty and magical and she can tell you things which will make you have a different perspective, an unconventional one. Funny girls make their words come out humorous, but actually there is always an underlying layer of intelligence in what they say.

4. You will be happy to show off your girlfriend

Her attractiveness for the people around you is not in her physical beauty but in what she says and how she says it. Through your girlfriend you will definitely be drawn to more interesting people.

5. You won’t have any fake moments in your relationship

Everything is real. There are fewer pretenses between you and her. You can deal with situations as they come because she is real and prepared to take you for who and what you are.

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6. You will always get an honest opinion

She says it the way it is. Humor can be a tool but she’ll tell you how she really feels about things. Since she is blunt and she doesn’t hold back her feelings or her misgivings. She just tells you the way it is. You can always be confident about her honest opinions.

7. You will not be held back from anything

She wants you to take risks and be adventurous. Those actions sorts of charm her and draw her closer to you. She won’t limit you. Rather she will fire you to making mistakes and learn from them.

8. You’ll be able to grow old together

You are not scared of growing old with her. In fact you look forward to it because she’ll stay the same. She won’t change her personality or stop making you laugh. She will add beauty to your older years. That is something to look forward to, growing old with someone who makes you laugh.

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9. You’ll be able to push her buttons

She doesn’t get mad when you push her buttons. She can relate with that. Actually there is no reason sweating the small stuff, she will rather be laughing over it.

10. You’ll watch her perform sometimes

Everyplace is her stage but you have actually seen her perform and done something out of the box or very creative, and you had to applaud her authenticity. And yes you got turned on by that too.

11. You’ll start watching classic movies

She loves watching movies and she gets you involved. She wants you to see the fictional side of life and relax a little. You shouldn’t be minding that some of these movies are classics because she’ll make you realize how funny they are.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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