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8 Signs That You’re An Amazing Leader That People Love To Work With

8 Signs That You’re An Amazing Leader That People Love To Work With

In today’s competitive market, the job of a manager is not easy. A manager and leader is responsible for recruiting, training, monitoring, engaging, motivating, anticipating, aligning, evaluating, disseminating, adjusting, predicting, guiding, reinforcing, recording, identifying, planning, and building teams. If you miss one of these responsibilities, your performance will be questioned.

A management role is not the route to power, neither is it a ticket to an easy life with minimal work. It takes lots of courage to step up to lead in any organization. But no one will follow if you’re not leading your team for the right reasons. Talent always seeks out other talent, and talented employees follow leaders who can inspire them and make them better. Here are some qualities that make you a well-liked leader who draws and develops the best talent.

1. You provide direction

Great leaders always provide clear direction by eliminating obstacles and making the path free of distractions. They streamline processes, discover resources, and keep all sorts of interruptions at bay. A great leader understands the problems and issues of employees and fixes them by putting their employees’ interests first.

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2. You groom talent

Talented employees really care about their futures, and they tend to follow a leader who can get them there. A likeable leader helps people to understand the business by showing them every part of the operation to improve their skills. Your best people want to climb. Like it or not, this job is temporary to them. Employees only perform better if the leader is keen to develop and groom them in their field.

3. You give personal attention

The best leaders always provide personal attention to their people. They are keen to mentor and train associates, knowing negligence only gives bad habits, inactivity, and disengagement. They offer regular advice on performance, knowing the best employees crave honesty and dislike sugarcoating. They care about their colleagues and connect with them on a personal level, knowing their personal matters influence their success as well. The best leaders make their subordinates feel valued and inspire them to do things that will make them feel and perform better.

4. You listen to people

One thing that separates great leaders from good ones is a willingness to learn. This is one area in which true leaders excel. They are continually asking questions, voraciously inquiring, and are never fully satisfied. They utilize their abilities and recognize change as an opportunity to learn. The fastest way to lose credibility among peers is to lose touch with the current situation — and show no interest in catching up.

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Great leaders always stay updated, they aren’t afraid of setbacks and criticism, they’re open to constructive opinion and debate. They don’t keep grudges or discourage anyone when they’re wrong. Instead, they focus on solutions and moving forward. In a nutshell, real leaders absorb feedback and take action. Even when they fail, people know their voices were heard by their leader and the process was fair.

5. You give people ownership

Top leaders give their people ownership at work. They don’t stand over them to ensure each and every task is done in a particular manner. They turn their employees loose to discover, test, learn, and understand. They perform their roles by asking questions and providing guidance. In simple words, they give people space to find out how to resolve problems themselves. Through their trust and provision, they encourage improvement. In return, they get respect and loyalty.

6. You establish excellence

Great leaders don’t “demand” excellence — they establish it by setting an example. They put themselves in an employee’s shoes. Under a true leader, employees set their bar high and big things are anticipated every day. Great leader make employees set goals to keep them focused and out of trouble. They push continuous learning to keep workers active and demand results, regardless of standards, politics, and difficulties.

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A great leader understands where you are in terms of knowledge and skill and nudges you on to the next level.

7. You weigh potential

Good leaders don’t just hire people for just a particular job, they also weigh their potential. They don’t look or focus on what an employee can’t do or what others say about them. They focus on what they could do. Amazing leaders look for opportunities to help their talented employees build confidence. Great leaders see what other leaders can’t because they look for it — and they gain the rewards as a result.

8. You lead by example

True leaders are the ones who inspire devotion, trust, and brilliance. They hold themselves accountable to the same rules and regulations as those they lead. They lead by example and view their employees as equals — and they don’t hesitate to get their hands dirty with them. Before judging others, they focus on their own behavior and weigh what’s important and what’s not. That’s exactly how they know what is actually fair, and their people know that they’re being treated fairly too.

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Featured photo credit: The Natural Step Canada via flickr.com

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Tayyab Babar

Tayyab is a PR/Marketing consultant. He writes about work, productivity and tech tips at Lifehack.

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Last Updated on October 22, 2020

2 Transformational Ways to Spark Your Creative Energy

2 Transformational Ways to Spark Your Creative Energy

Good things come in twos: Peanut butter and jelly, Day and night, Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. The same is true for what sparks our creative energy: our thoughts and actions.

Creativity is an inside job as much as it is about a conducive schedule, physical environment, and supportive behaviors. By establishing the right internal and external landscape, creativity can blossom from the abstract to the concrete and we can have fun along the way.

Sparking creativity is all about setting up the right conditions so a spark is ignited and sustained. The sparks don’t fizzle out. They are allowed to grow and ripen.

Think of a garden. Intention alone will not produce the delicious red tomato nor will the readiest seed. That seed needs attention at its nascent stage and as it grows a stalk and produces fruit. If we want to enjoy more than one fruit, we keep at it, cultivating the plant and reaping multiple harvests.

Creativity lives in each of us like seeds in the earth or encapsulated in a nut. Seeds of ideas, concepts, designs, stories, images, and even ways of communicating that surprise and delight await activation.

By sparking our creative energy, we activate these unique seeds. Like snowflakes, they are of a moment and always without a match. The smallest sparks encourage even the smallest, most dormant seeds to sprout.

The good news is that our creative energy wishes to be sparked—to be invited to play. It wants to be our regular playmate.

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1. Be Childlike in Your Thoughts, Attitudes, and Approach

Being childlike in our thoughts, attitudes, and approach is an easy way to internally have our thoughts be gracious prolific gardeners to our creative energy. If we want it to come out and play and hang around as our regular companion, then let’s return to our 5-year-old selves.

Our childhood selves are naturally curious. We still have that curiosity! All we have to do is remind ourselves to get curious. We can do that by simply observing and being with what is in front of us instead of making up a story about what won’t work or why something can’t be done. So, it’s about cultivating curiosity instead of jumping into judgment.

Move Your Inner Judge to the Sidelines

When we get curious, creativity percolates and, ultimately, takes its place in the world. To give a hand in choosing curiosity over judgment, we can move the judge that also lives inside us to the sidelines. The judge squashes our creative urges, even when they are as small as sharing a point of view. It’s that pesky voice that causes us to doubt ourselves or worry about what others will think.

The judge is also risk-averse. The judge likes things to stay the same. Change makes the judge nervous.

Creativity is all about risk and changing things up. It needs risk, even failure, to be its naturally innovative, dynamic, impactful self. The judge likes to convince us failure is something to be avoided at all costs.

To move the judge to the sidelines and let curiosity reign, we can pay attention to who we are in conversation with and who is calling the shots.

Is it the voice of fear, doubt, or anxiety (the inner-critic—the judge’s boss)? Or is it the voice of wisdom, courage, strength, and non-attachment, and of course curiosity (the inner-leader)?

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We can easily tell the difference by how each makes us feel. The inner-critic depletes and slows us down, putting roadblocks in the way. The inner-leader energizes and a natural rhythm develops.

It’s all about who we spend time with. If we wish to exercise, we will seek out our friends who go to the gym or hike. If we want to lose some weight, we will opt to eat dinner with someone who prefers a healthy spot over fast food.

After getting curious, we can honor what our curiosity prompts us to do. The spark can do its job and a fire starts to glow when commitment enters. Our childhood selves were fully committed to being creative. That level of commitment is still something we are very capable of exercising!!

Again, we need to let go of the judge. We can ask ourselves, what do we want to commit to—negativity that depletes our creative energy, depth, and output, or the understanding that our thoughts and attitudes matter and that right thoughts and attitudes are the sparks that really let our creativity come alive?

Learn to Recall Your Childhood Self

To get in touch with that unabashedly committed childhood self, recall your childhood self. If you have a picture, pull one out. Keep it around so you can remember to activate that innate creative nature that was prominent then and wants to be prominent now and always.

Soak in the essence of that being. Commit to their commitment to brave and dogged trial and error because it is yours as well. You are that person.

Remember how tenacious you were when you wanted to build that sandcastle. You kept at it as the waves came in. You built with fury or reconfigured the walls. Also, remember that there was a willingness to fail since you were as invested in the process as well as the outcome—but less with the outcome. You were willing to experiment and start again. There was vitality—the main lifeline of your creative energy—instead of a rigid attachment.

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When you notice you are in conversation with your inner-critic or being held back by it, simply acknowledge, name it, and then switch to your inner-leader by taking a few good deep belly breaths, rubbing two fingertips together, or listening to ambient sounds in the background.

Physical movements shift our negative thoughts over to the positive domain of the inner-leader. As our judge continues to sit on the sidelines, our ability to quiet the inner-critic becomes stronger. We taste freedom. A simple taste emboldens us to say no again to the judge and yes to what makes our hearts and spirits sing—our creativity.

We begin to spark creativity to the point it no longer needs to be invited to play. It becomes our regular playmate—the younger sibling or the kid next door ready to have some fun, maybe even make some mischief by shaking things up.

When we align with our inner-leader and think and act from its promptings, creativity flows up and out with ease, as it needs to!

Letting those initial sparks generate a creativity fire that keeps burning is something we can all do! That’s the inside job.

2. Listen to Your Inner Leaders of Creative Energy

If we listen, our inner-leaders will let us know just what we need to set-up and do in our physical world to maximize that gorgeous, hungry creativity we now have flowing freely in us.

The seed has been unlocked! So, now what?

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To enable our creative energy to take its form and place outside of us, there needs to be spaciousness! Spaciousness in our physical worlds impacts our internal one. It lets the voice of the inner-leader be heard. It lets creativity have room to be sparked and acted upon.

With a little discipline, we can easily create spaciousness in our daily lives—spaciousness that will spark our creativity and let it take shape.

So, no matter who you are and what conditions help your creativity thrive, check-out these easy-to-implement basic suggestions:

  • Reduce or eliminate multi-tasking.
  • Say yes to what matters and what aligns with your big values and goals.
  • Say no to all else.
  • Say no again.
  • Schedule time in your calendar as you do with other things in your life to just be, to ponder, to let ideas percolate, and to create.
  • Spend time doing the things that bring out your creative energy. It could be walking, singing, or simply looking out the window.
  • Meditate.
  • Breathe—long breaths in and long breaths out through the nose.
  • Invite your body and heart into your experiences so your mind is a part of you and not all of you.
  • Try a new thing to spark your creativity. If you spend time running, try a different route. If running feels stale, cruise around a museum, or go for a bike ride.
  • Play a game. Indoors out or outside. Think of what makes you happy that you haven’t done in a while. Is it a physical game like badminton or cards? Maybe it’s storytelling? Play is creative, and it sparks the creative energy, too.
  • Spend time in the places that bring out your creativity. What spot in your home could be your spot for entering into that mode? Do you need to get out? Maybe a park bench is the right spot, with a book of poetry, or even nothing at all.
  • Spend time in nature. Nature brings us to a place of calm and awe and through that our creativity is easily sparked.

Final Thoughts

These are all habits—habits of mind and habits of doing. Experiment with what works for you. Have fun. If you give even 50% to altering your thoughts and actions, then you will begin to spark your creativity. It takes a lot of curiosity and commitment, but it can definitely be done.

Our innate creative energy is a deep source of all that we seek—joy, connection, renewal. It deserves and looks forward to the changes you will make that will let sparks fly and ignite!

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