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Why Do We Have an Addiction to the Internet?

Why Do We Have an Addiction to the Internet?

In times like these, everyone is on the internet. Do you find yourself checking social media way too often? Do you solve arguments between friends by Googling the answers? It is easy to forget just how much the internet has become a seamless part of our daily lives. Some may consider the internet to be an addiction! People use the internet all of the time because it is a useful resource but in my view, I think we are using the internet too much. It’s an addiction.

Here is why we are addicted to the internet so much:

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1. It Helps Time Pass

When we have nothing to do, we simply grab out laptops and start searching the web for interesting things. Almost everywhere you go, there is internet access.  When there is nothing to do, I simply grab my laptop, and look up things I like. This ranges from celebrities, dream homes, music, etc. I know it may not be productive, but I find that gaining knowledge can be from a book, magazine, encyclopedia, and the internet for that matter. When we read we engage our senses. The internet enables this also. So, why shouldn’t we be addicted to internet surfing if it can help us gain so much knowledge in one place by itself?

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    2. It helps us learn

    With one click of the button, you can search for whatever it is that is on your mind. When the internet has everything it is you might need, why shouldn’t we be on the internet? I must say though, everything is good in moderation. Too much of anything can be counterproductive and I think the internet falls victim to this. When we over utilize online search capabilities, we fall victim of eye strain, headaches, as well as body aches. So instead, make it a habit to look away and get your body active. The internet is a great resource for helping you learn new information.

    3. It causes a domino effect

    I know if I search for one thing, I will search for something that is related to it that I have read in the article that I just finished. It is a tendency I have, to gain as much knowledge as I possibly can. One engine search, inevitable leads to another- just like when one domino falls, the next in line also does. I search for something and end up searching for something else. It is a quick downward spiral! Make sure to control it as it has the ability to spiral our of hand.

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    4. It is fun

    I know that engine searches are fun. Typing something into the search engine and waiting for results to pop up is exciting. It is for me. Many times, when researching, I will always hope for a .org or .gov website because it is thought that they are well trusted and helpful. I don’t know, but browsing through, and selecting them is fun for me. I know it is weird, but it is something that I like doing.The internet is fun and there is no doubting that. You can find yourself enjoying yourself, even in difficult research, because of the interesting, fun information you uncover during your searches.

    5. It helps us believe we are productive

    When searching through webpages and gather information, the internet helps us believe that we are actually productive. I wouldn’t say we are completely ridden of productivity, but it definitely is not the most productive work ethic. Productivity means actually getting up, doing something, and moving the body. Standing in front of the computer, at least, in my view, is far from things like perfection or productivity. Yet, the internet gives you the illusion that you are being productive even if you are not physically moving.

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    7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

    7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

    Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

    Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

    When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

    Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

    1. You’re depressed about your home life.

    No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

    However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

    If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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    When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

    You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

    2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

    Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

    If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

    You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

    If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

    3. You can’t stop snooping.

    Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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    I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

    Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

    So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

    It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

    If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

    4. You’re afraid of commitment.

    If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

    Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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    No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

    If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

    Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

    5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

    If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

    Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

    Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

    Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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    If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

    6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

    When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

    When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

    If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

    7. You chase past feelings.

    It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

    You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

    When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

    Final thoughts

    If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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