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Why Do We Have an Addiction to the Internet?

Why Do We Have an Addiction to the Internet?

In times like these, everyone is on the internet. Do you find yourself checking social media way too often? Do you solve arguments between friends by Googling the answers? It is easy to forget just how much the internet has become a seamless part of our daily lives. Some may consider the internet to be an addiction! People use the internet all of the time because it is a useful resource but in my view, I think we are using the internet too much. It’s an addiction.

Here is why we are addicted to the internet so much:

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1. It Helps Time Pass

When we have nothing to do, we simply grab out laptops and start searching the web for interesting things. Almost everywhere you go, there is internet access.  When there is nothing to do, I simply grab my laptop, and look up things I like. This ranges from celebrities, dream homes, music, etc. I know it may not be productive, but I find that gaining knowledge can be from a book, magazine, encyclopedia, and the internet for that matter. When we read we engage our senses. The internet enables this also. So, why shouldn’t we be addicted to internet surfing if it can help us gain so much knowledge in one place by itself?

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    2. It helps us learn

    With one click of the button, you can search for whatever it is that is on your mind. When the internet has everything it is you might need, why shouldn’t we be on the internet? I must say though, everything is good in moderation. Too much of anything can be counterproductive and I think the internet falls victim to this. When we over utilize online search capabilities, we fall victim of eye strain, headaches, as well as body aches. So instead, make it a habit to look away and get your body active. The internet is a great resource for helping you learn new information.

    3. It causes a domino effect

    I know if I search for one thing, I will search for something that is related to it that I have read in the article that I just finished. It is a tendency I have, to gain as much knowledge as I possibly can. One engine search, inevitable leads to another- just like when one domino falls, the next in line also does. I search for something and end up searching for something else. It is a quick downward spiral! Make sure to control it as it has the ability to spiral our of hand.

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    4. It is fun

    I know that engine searches are fun. Typing something into the search engine and waiting for results to pop up is exciting. It is for me. Many times, when researching, I will always hope for a .org or .gov website because it is thought that they are well trusted and helpful. I don’t know, but browsing through, and selecting them is fun for me. I know it is weird, but it is something that I like doing.The internet is fun and there is no doubting that. You can find yourself enjoying yourself, even in difficult research, because of the interesting, fun information you uncover during your searches.

    5. It helps us believe we are productive

    When searching through webpages and gather information, the internet helps us believe that we are actually productive. I wouldn’t say we are completely ridden of productivity, but it definitely is not the most productive work ethic. Productivity means actually getting up, doing something, and moving the body. Standing in front of the computer, at least, in my view, is far from things like perfection or productivity. Yet, the internet gives you the illusion that you are being productive even if you are not physically moving.

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    Last Updated on January 21, 2020

    How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

    How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

    If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

    Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

    So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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    1. Listen

    Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

    2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

    Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

    “Why do you want to do that?”

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    “What makes you so excited about it?”

    “How long has that been your dream?”

    You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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    3. Encourage

    This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

    4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

    After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

    5. Dream

    This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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    6. Ask How You Can Help

    Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

    7. Follow Up

    Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

    Final Thoughts

    By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

    Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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