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How To Cope With Workplace Stress Effectively

How To Cope With Workplace Stress Effectively

Stress is all too common in the work place. There are a number of contributing causes, including fear of being let go, pressure to not make mistakes, too much overtime, and lack of job satisfaction. Any of those factors can be overwhelming for someone who doesn’t know how to keep his or her stress levels under control. Below are six ways you can effectively manage workplace stress.

1. Recognize When You’re Stressed

Stress can take a number of different forms, both mental and physical. You may be feeling depressed, anxious, or irritable. You may also be tired, scatterbrained, or lacking motivation. Additionally, you might notice some muscle pain, headaches, stomach problems, or a reduced sex drive. If you’re feeling any of these symptoms, ask yourself what could have you stressed. Once you identify your stressor, remember to…

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2. Keep Things in Perspective

If you recognize that you’re stressed, remind yourself that things aren’t as bad as they seem at this moment. Your stress is causing your body to respond disproportionally to whatever predicament you’re in, and how you feel right now isn’t indicative of its severity. Simply remind yourself that you’re probably overreacting and the best thing you can do is keep calm so that you can evaluate your situation with a level head. It may get you closer to realizing that it helps to…

3. Know When to Let Things Go

When someone tells you to “let it go” you rarely feel more relieved. Maybe it would be more effective if that person told you why letting go of what’s troubling you go is a good option. For one, your body can’t handle the stress. The symptoms mentioned above won’t subside until you stop focusing on the cause of all your pressure. Secondly, stressing will get you absolutely nowhere. You can’t change anything or fix any mistakes by inflicting emotional pain on yourself. If anything, your stress will only make things worse. Lastly, you’re not always objective in these sorts of circumstances. Your problem may not be as bad as it seems, or may only be temporary. There are all sorts of reasons not to hold on to what’s causing you stress when it can often be just as easy to let it all go. Once you do let go, remind yourself of how you can avoid or dampen stress in the future. One way is to…

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4. Find a Work-Life Balance

If your job is everything to you, of course a setback in the workplace will feel catastrophic. Find a healthy balance between your time at work and the rest of your life so that all your eggs aren’t in one basket. Spend social time with friends and family, pursue nonwork interests, and be sure to include relaxing activities in your schedule so that you can you wind down after a busy day. And, of course…

5. Live a Healthy Life

A jog might be the last thing you want to do before you work an eight-hour day, but it can often be the best thing for you. When you can barely catch your breath, you will struggle to feel stressed about something happening at work. Your exhaustion frees you, clearing your mind, increasing energy, and benefiting your mood. Healthy eating habits also help. Your mind and body will feel a lot more level with frequent, small meals than with the occasional candy bar or slice of pizza. If even this fails to help you cope with stress then you should seek…

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6. Social Support

Oftentimes the solution to workplace stress can be found in the workplace itself. Many employers offer employee assistance programs to help you deal with things at work that negatively affect your well-being. The intensity of the work environment can often be the cause of stress, but employers know that and understand that programs that improve an employee’s well-being and job performance are beneficial to both sides.

Featured photo credit: Giuseppe Savo via flickr.com

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Last Updated on March 29, 2021

5 Types of Horrible Bosses and How to Beat Them All

5 Types of Horrible Bosses and How to Beat Them All

When I left university I took a job immediately, I had been lucky as I had spent a year earning almost nothing as an intern so I was offered a role. On my first day I found that I had not been allocated a desk, there was no one to greet me so I was left for some hours ignored. I happened to snipe about this to another employee at the coffee machine two things happened. The first was that the person I had complained to was my new manager’s wife, and the second was, in his own words, ‘that he would come down on me like a ton of bricks if I crossed him…’

What a great start to a job! I had moved to a new city, and had been at work for less than a morning when I had my first run in with the first style of bad manager. I didn’t stay long enough to find out what Mr Agressive would do next. Bad managers are a major issue. Research from Approved Index shows that more than four in ten employees (42%) state that they have previously quit a job because of a bad manager.

The Dream Type Of Manager

My best manager was a total opposite. A man who had been the head of the UK tax system and was working his retirement running a company I was a very junior and green employee for. I made a stupid mistake, one which cost a lot of time and money and I felt I was going to be sacked without doubt.

I was nervous, beating myself up about what I had done, what would happen. At the end of the day I was called to his office, he had made me wait and I had spent that day talking to other employees, trying to understand where I had gone wrong. It had been a simple mistyped line of code which sent a massive print job out totally wrong. I learn how I should have done it and I fretted.

My boss asked me to step into his office, he asked me to sit down. “Do you know what you did?” I babbled, yes, I had been stupid, I had not double-checked or asked for advice when I was doing something I had not really understood. It was totally my fault. He paused. “Will you do that again?” Of course I told him I would not, I would always double check, ask for help and not try to be so clever when I was not!

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“Okay…”

That was it. I paused and asked, should I clear my desk. He smiled. “You have learnt a valuable lesson, I can be sure that you will never make a mistake like that again. Why would I want to get rid of an employee who knows that?”

I stayed with that company for many years, the way I was treated was a real object lesson in good management. Sadly, far too many poor managers exist out there.

The Complete Catalogue of Bad Managers

The Bully

My first boss fitted into the classic bully class. This is so often the ‘old school’ management by power style. I encountered this style again in the retail sector where one manager felt the only way to get the best from staff was to bawl and yell.

However, like so many bullies you will often find that this can be someone who either knows no better or is under stress and they are themselves running scared of the situation they have found themselves in.

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The Invisible Boss

This can either present itself as management from afar (usually the golf course or ‘important meetings) or just a boss who is too busy being important to deal with their staff.

It can feel refreshing as you will often have almost total freedom with your manager taking little or no interest in your activities, however you will soon find that you also lack the support that a good manager will provide. Without direction you may feel you are doing well just to find that you are not delivering against expectations you were not told about and suddenly it is all your fault.

The Micro Manager

The frustration of having a manager who feels the need to be involved in everything you do. The polar opposite to the Invisible Boss you will feel that there is no trust in your work as they will want to meddle in everything you do.

Dealing with the micro-manager can be difficult. Often their management style comes from their own insecurity. You can try confronting them, tell them that you can do your job however in many cases this will not succeed and can in fact make things worse.

The Over Promoted Boss

The Over promoted boss categorises someone who has no idea. They have found themselves in a management position through service, family or some corporate mystery. They are people who are not only highly unqualified to be managers they will generally be unable to do even your job.

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You can find yourself persistently frustrated by the situation you are in, however it can seem impossible to get out without handing over your resignation.

The Credit Stealer

The credit stealer is the boss who will never publically acknowledge the work you do. You will put in the extra hours working on a project and you know that, in the ‘big meeting’ it will be your credit stealing boss who will take all of the credit!

Again it is demoralising, you see all of the credit for your labour being stolen and this can often lead to good employees looking for new careers.

3 Essential Ways to Work (Cope) with Bad Managers

Whatever type of bad boss you have there are certain things that you can do to ensure that you get the recognition and protection you require to not only remain sane but to also build your career.

1. Keep evidence

Whether it is incidents with the bully or examples of projects you have completed with the credit stealer you will always be well served to keep notes and supporting evidence for projects you are working on.

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Buy your own notebook and ensure that you are always making notes, it becomes a habit and a very useful one as you have a constant reminder as well as somewhere to explore ideas.

Importantly, if you do have to go to HR or stand-up for yourself you will have clear records! Also, don’t always trust that corporate servers or emails will always be available or not tampered with. Keep your own content.

2. Hold regular meetings

Ensure that you make time for regular meetings with your boss. This is especially useful for the over-promoted or the invisible boss to allow you to ‘manage upwards’. Take charge where you can to set your objectives and use these meetings to set clear objectives and document the status of your work.

3. Stand your ground, but be ready to jump…

Remember that you don’t have to put up with poor management. If you have issues you should face them with your boss, maybe they do not know that they are coming across in a bad way.

However, be ready to recognise if the situation is not going to change. If that is the case, keep your head down and get working on polishing your CV! If it isn’t working, there will be something better out there for you!

Good luck!

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