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5 Ways To Identify Your Talents And Utilize Them

5 Ways To Identify Your Talents And Utilize Them

To find our talents, we have to experiment. It is extremely rare to just discover one’s talents straight out of high school. A talent is something that you are naturally good at combined with lots of experience over the years.

Although some people are born with certain talents, like the ability to paint, solve math problems, and create or play music, not all of us are lucky enough to meet our talents in early years. That’s why we have to stop depending on luck and start taking action. Going from one thing to another, wrong or right, we build ourselves as an individuals. Before we show off our talents, we must first find them.

I’ve selected 5 ways to identify your talents and utilize them. Make sure that you find yourself in each of them.

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1. Dive into action!

Action is underrated. We think too much. We spend all day thinking about what should be done instead of doing something about it. I wasted almost a year before I started blogging. I wasted a whole year trapped inside of a thinking-phase and trying to discover my talents. What was the outcome? I wasted lots of time. There is no good outcome from over-thinking.

Do stuff, write your ideas in a notebook, and work. It works even in the beginning; just start something. Even if it’s wrong, at least you’ve eliminated one possible talent. Force your thoughts into actions. That’s the only the way you will dive into action; otherwise, the overall time is wasted.

2. Discover.

“The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity.” –Albert Einstein

Never stop questioning! Diving into action and questioning everything are the two quick-start boosters for finding your talents. Be curious. Find what drives your blood and keep pursuing it. If we stagnate in one place and stop asking questions, we will never reach the extraordinary. Take action, do more, and keep questioning! Life is too boring when you know all the answers.

3. Select your talents.

At some point, in one place or another and after frequently taking action, we will discover our talents. Some people are good at public speaking; some are good at selling products, and some are good at blogging. Knowing what you are good at opens a lot of opportunities.

We have to decide in what direction we will head. If it’s public speaking, we can be a representative for a firm. If it’s blogging, we can choose between 10,000 things to write about. We have to dive into action, discover our talents, and select our direction.

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4. Keep upgrading.

This concept fits right in with number two. Keep questioning and keep answering those questions to upgrade your knowledge and skills. If we keep asking ourselves questions, but we let the answers slip right through, we will experience overthinking. And as discussed in number one, overthinking will only waste time rather than help us find our talents.

Recently I meet the guy who broke the world record in a marathon. Before he broke the world record, he kept asking himself, “Can someone pass that time?” or “How much more should I push to have a faster pace than the world record?” He kept answering those questions, and eventually, he did pass Patrick Macau’s world record by 15 seconds. He personally said that he wouldn’t stop until he has the world record at a safe place. Upgrading is a must for talent; otherwise, we will keep sinking into quicksand.

5. Reach perfectionism.

It’s been said that perfection doesn’t exist, and it’s true.  Perfection to me is being better than the guy you were yesterday! That’s what perfection is, to keep bettering ourselves everyday. Read, motivate, inspire, share your knowledge, and support your talents everyday.

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Steve Jobs invented Apple computers and inspired his workers to build new Apple products. Apple continues his work without him, and they will persist in improving their products until the last day of Apple’s existence. The fact is, Steve Jobs did reach his personal perfectionism, and did the best he could until his last breath.

Time is passing by. Take more action, never stop questioning, select your talents, upgrade and reach your personal perfectionism. Be the best version of you!

“Stay hungry, stay foolish” –Steve Jobs

Featured photo credit: Question Everything / Nullius in verba / Take nobody’s word for it / Duncan Hull via flickr.com

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Last Updated on May 26, 2020

Top 10 Reasons Why People Don’t Reach Their Goals

Top 10 Reasons Why People Don’t Reach Their Goals

With everything that happens around us, it is sometimes difficult to reach our goals. This is compounded if you have any of the reasons on the list below.

Luckily, in addition to the top 10 reasons why people don’t reach their goals, I’ve included a quick fix for each of them. So let’s get to it.

1. Creating Vague Goals

When you don’t know where you are going, it is really hard to get there. Many people set themselves up for failure when they set goals that are unclear. “I want to lose weight” sounds like a great goal but the people who set this kind of goal will never reach it. It is not because the people are not motivated or disciplined but because the goal is too general. Do you want to lose 5 lbs or 50 lbs?

Quick Fix:  Set SMART goals by being Specific, making sure they are Measurable, Achievable and Realistic, and last but not least — give yourself a Time deadline. If you want to go one step further, you may want to read The Missing Letter in Your Smart Goals.

2. Lacking a Higher Purpose

Goals can be set on any topic imaginable but if you don’t have a higher purpose, it makes it is easy to give up once the initial motivation and excitement wears off. Understanding how your goal is relevant to you allows you to persevere even when the going gets tough.

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Quick Fix: When setting your SMART goal, ask yourself how the goal is relevant to your life and what you want to achieve.

3. Procrastinating

Even when you have SMART goals that are relevant to your purpose, if you don’t get started, you’ll never achieve your goal. One of the most dangerous phrases is “I’ll do it later.”

Quick Fix: Make sure the goal has been broken down into manageable pieces and then start right away. Here are 11 Practical Ways to Stop Procrastination.

4. Not Taking Responsibility

Things will go wrong. That’s a fact of life. When something comes up and you don’t achieve your goal, who do you blame? Your boss who kept you at work late so you couldn’t work on your book or maybe the horrible weather that stopped you from going to the gym. If it’s not your fault, there is nothing you can do, right?

Quick Fix: Own up to not reaching your goals. When you take responsibility, you’ll become resourceful knowing that you have control over the attainment of your goals.

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5. Listening to People Who Discourage You

When you go for your goals, especially the big ones that really count and fit in with your purpose in life, it is inevitable that people will discourage you. There are many reasons for this: concern, jealousy, ignorance, etc. How many goals have already been given up on because other people decided they were not worth pursuing?

Quick Fix: This one is easy. As long as you know the purpose for your goal, ignore the naysayers. You can take what they are saying into consideration but make sure you make the final choice.

6. Starting Too Many Projects

I’m a starter. That sounds like a good thing but not when you start too many things, you don’t end up finishing many of them. This usually stems from the fear of missing out (FOMO) or being someone who has many ideas.

Quick Fix: Understand that you have a limited amount of time and that you can’t do everything. To deal with FOMO, realize that by not finishing, you are missing out on all the opportunities that open up when you finish the projects you are working on.

7. Being Negative

If you think you’re not going to make it, then you’re probably not going to make it. If you don’t believe you’re going to reach your goal, then when you fail, it is expected which makes it easy to stop trying. When you are optimistic and a setback occurs, you focus your energy on finding solutions because you truly believe there is one. If you believe that you suffer from bad luck, check out this article.

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Quick Fix: Consider the idea that optimism and pessimism are both expectations of the future. Each are equally likely to be true but which belief will help you lead a happier more fulfilled life? Instead of wasting your energy on complaining, spend that energy on learning.

8. Being Selfish

There are people out there that think it is silly to help others. They believe in taking and not giving. They are misers with their time, money and knowledge and are only interested in opportunities where they stand to benefit. Most big goals require the help of others and it is very difficult to help people who only care about taking.

Quick Fix: Serve others first. Always look for ways to add value to other people.

9. Surrounding Yourself with People Who Don’t Reach Their Goals

You are who you associate with. This may be hard to swallow for some people and there are always exceptions to the rule but for the most part, we act in accordance with the people around us. This comes from the strong ad natural desire to belong and to be accepted (think of all the dumb things you did in high school just to fit in).

Quick Fix: Associate with people who always reach their goals.

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10. Watching Too Much TV

Not all TV is bad but if you are watching TV then most likely you are not doing anything to move one step closer to your goal. The problem with TV these days is that it is captivating. There are programs for all interests and hobbies and the shows keep getting better and better. Those who watch alot of TV usually don’t reach their goals and perhaps people watch TV because they don’t have any goals.

Quick Fix: Shut off the TV. Cancel the cable. Pick up a book that will help you move one step closer to your goal. Here are 6 Steps to Remove TV from your Life.

Do you have anything to add? What do you think are the reasons why people don’t reach their goals and what are your thought about the 10 reasons we have listed here. Feel free to give your own effective quick fixes for the different reasons in the comments section below.

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