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8 Not-So-Obvious Signs You’ve Been Working Out Too Hard

8 Not-So-Obvious Signs You’ve Been Working Out Too Hard

For the majority of the people in this world, getting motivated to exercise or even beginning to exercise is difficult. But there are a few of us who actually do the opposite of this… We exercise too much.

While exercising and being physically active every day is great, like everything else in life, too much of something is a bad thing. As far as our fitness goals go, 80% of our chance in attaining them will depend on what we put into our mouth.

That said, this article is somewhat personal to me. Overtraining is something I have been struggling with in the last couple of years. Once we have exercise in our blood, it is impossibly hard for us to stop. We feel guilty and moody if we skipped a workout. Even as a fitness professional, I technically know my body better than anyone else but it is a struggle to find a good distinction between working out too much and just right.

It wasn’t until I learned to listen to my body, to plan and regimen, and figure out what my own strengths and weakness are, that I solved the puzzle.

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If you’re reading this and it resonates in you, or if you’re feeling tired and unmotivated, here are some signs that might indicate you’ve been working out too hard. Our body needs at least 1-2 rest days a week and if you’re constantly facing some of these signs, a few weeks or even a month off exercise can do you good. Don’t worry, taking some time off will not throw all your efforts out the window and will definitely won’t make you an overweight person. If anything, it will make you feel refreshed and energized, and most importantly bring you awesome results in the future.

1. You consistently fail to complete your workout.

Failing when progressing is great. You know, when you’re lifting heavier weights and you can only complete 4 reps. Or when you’re sprinting harder and can only complete a short amount of time. But if you’re getting slower and weaker, in other words, failing when you’re regressing, it probably means you’re working out too hard.

2. You have trouble sleeping or falling asleep.

Difficulty falling asleep simply means your sympathetic nervous system is still working even when you’re resting. While this can be a major sign of overtraining, it can also mean that your stress levels are high when you need them to be low. If you’re tossing and turning in bed or you’re waking up in the middle of the night, you’re overtraining.

3. You’re lifting, sprinting or doing HIIT exercises every single day.

Unless you are a professional athlete who trains several times a day and eating food and supplements that can enhance your performance, you are not Wolverine. For many of us, lifting, sprinting and doing high-intensity interval trainings every single day won’t leave our body with enough time to recover. In the end, our health will deteriorate along with our mood and feelings and that is something you don’t want to happen. Take a break or alternate high intensity and lifting days with easy stretching days. Your body will thank you.

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4. You feel excessive pain in your limbs.

If you feel pain in your knees, wouldn’t it be obvious that you’re probably overusing or not using it correctly? If you’re running and you feel sore in your lower limbs, it might mean that you’ve run too hard or too far for too long. If you’re lifting and you feel pain in your limbs, there could be one of two possibilities — number one being a delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS) or number two, you’re lifting with poor form. While the former is a natural thing and will go away in a couple of days, lifting with poor form can over time lead to undesirable injuries. It is imperative for you to tune in to your body and listen to these important signs to avoid overtraining.

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5. You feel tired and moody after a workout.

Exercise is suppose to make you feel good, due to the high levels of endorphins released and circulating in your body during and after the workout. It’s a great feeling, isn’t it? But what if that feeling never comes? What if you feel like napping each time after exercise, or worse, you feel like death? If you feel like a Lochness monster after a workout and it isn’t making you feel good, it’s time to scale down a little bit.

6. You crave for more sugar than usual.

Our body tends to crave sugar when our levels of cortisol are high or when our glycogen (glucose in its storage form) is low. If you crave Tim Tams and Pop Tarts more often than usual, it’s a good sign that you’re working out to hard.

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Learn more — How Sugar Affects Our Brain

7. You frequently fall sick.

While there are many reasons why you may fall ill, exercise shouldn’t be one of them. Exercise is known to be one of life’s natural immune boosters. One reason why I started exercising in my late teenage years was because I was constantly sick, and it worked. However, if you’re up to date with your flu shots and no one else in the house is sick, but you’re staying in bed because of a virus or a bug, you might want to take a look at your exercise frequency and intensity.

8. You feel like you’ve gained weight even though you’re exercising a lot.

Yes, exercise should make you lose weight and increase your lean muscle mass. But sometimes, working out too much can increase muscle wastage and fat storage. You might be burning calories, but you’re burning calories from glucose and glycogen and your precious muscle stores and you don’t want that. To achieve leanness, your body’s cortisol levels should be in balance. Lack of sleep and overtraining can tip this over, leading to high cortisol level and increase fat disposition. Have you been working out like a crazy person and still feel like you’ve gained weight? You’ve overtrained.

If you’ve experienced some of these signs yourself, take a step back and have a break. Don’t deny the signs, because at the end of the day, you’re exercising to improve health, not deteriorate it.

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Life is too short to spend being tired and moody and definitely too short to spend all your time exercising.

That is why all the exercises I suggest in my blog are short and sweet, but effective. My goal is to strike a perfect balance and recovery is imperative in achieving this and most importantly, teach my clients how to do that.

Listen to your body. You only have one.

Read more — 7 Things You Should Stop Doing When Trying To Be Healthy

Featured photo credit: HJ Media Studios via flickr.com

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

Boundaries are limits

—they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

1. Self-Awareness Comes First

Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

  • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
  • When do you feel disrespected?
  • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
  • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
  • When do you want to be alone?
  • How much space do you need?

You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

2. Clear Communication Is Essential

Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

Sample language:

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  • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
  • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
  • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
  • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
  • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
  • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
  • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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Final Thoughts

Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

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