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5 Ways Weight Lifting Can Make You Mindful

5 Ways Weight Lifting Can Make You Mindful

Weight lifting is one of the most mindful things you can do for your yourself.

Stay with me here.

It’s hard to think of weight lifting in this way. You usually think of grunts, Mr. Universe competitions, and scented baby oil, not the lotus pose.

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The discipline of weight lifting has a bad rap. Unfortunately, it kind of deserves it. Most people do it to look good in a bathing suit or to stretch out their t-shirts. The rest of us, though, do it for more thoughtful reasons.

Here’s my story. I was a fat kid for a long time. After I “successfully” lost over 50 lbs thanks to a yo-yo diet (hence the quotes), I went looking for a healthy exit plan. Part of that meant finding a physical regimen I could stick to. One day, my roommate took me with him to the gym, where I stumbled upon weight lifting and fell in love.

Around that same time I started mindfulness meditation to calm my restless mind. I wasn’t sure if the two could co-exist. One is explosive and intense, while the other is calming and peaceful. To my surprise, I found both to be rewarding mindful endeavors.

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I’ve been doing both for many years now, and the truth has only gotten more clear. Lifting has granted me a healthier body and a more mindful noggin’. Who would’ve thought that throwing around some iron would become such an enlightening journey.

I recommend weight lifting to everyone, regardless of their personal goals. And now I am recommending it to you. If you want a more mindful state of living, it is for you.

Here are five ways I’ve seen lifting bring me closer to zen-master level.

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1. Here, now.

When I am lifting I am only focused on what I am doing. It’s just me and that stubborn barbell. Part of it is about survival: you need to focus; otherwise, you can lose your motivation or even hurt yourself. In an age where everything is equally “important,” and your attention is so divided, practicing this level of focus is refreshing and restorative.

2. Beginner’s mind.

During one my first days at the gym, my roommate came over and stopped me mid-workout. “No no. You’re back is all wrong. We have to practice basic form.” It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been doing it, when you lift, you always have to be mindful of the basics (i.e. form, movement, and being body-aware). That beginner’s mind must never go away, or else you risk getting cocky and building bad habits. You know that guy who swing dumbbells around like a he’s playing bocce ball? Don’t be that guy.

3. Tiny steps.

Above all else, you need patience. It’s a long, but satisfying, process. You can’t jump from one weight bracket to another, or go from a simple exercise to a complex one overnight. There are a lot of steps in between. The mantra of “trust the process” fits well here. You will be amazed at the results you get if you do the work, and follow the many tiny steps with mindful attention. You will be, in essence, chiseling yourself a little bit every day.

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4. Pain is temporary; strength is not.

One day, I had a crisis of faith. I stopped half-way through a workout and thought, “Why am I doing this? To show off a six pack?” I found my true motivation, and it’s one shared by many lifetime lifters: getting stronger. Lifting tests you, physically and mentally. These tests can be painful. They are short periods of discomfort. But when you push past this, always chasing a stronger you, you will come out at the other end rejuvenated with pride in your natural fortitude. You just willed a heavy weight to do your bidding. You just sweated out two more reps than last week. “Yeah, I did that.” It’s invigorating to accept the pain and become stronger because of it.

5. There is no (challenging) spoon.

No pain, no gain. It’s a silly slogan, but it’s true. To grow you need to keep challenging yourself. When you lift, you have to mentally prepare for the challenge in front of you. Part of being mindful is accepting the hard stuff. Over time you will build an attitude that frames challenges in the positive. Challenging situations are just opportunities to learn and grow on your path to becoming a better version of yourself. Those 10 squats that just set your thighs on fire will make your legs stronger than ever.

Namaste, meathead.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

5 Fixes For Common Sleep Issues All Couples Deal With

5 Fixes For Common Sleep Issues All Couples Deal With

Sleeping next to your partner can be a satisfying experience and is typically seen as the mark of a stable, healthy home life. However, many more people struggle to share a bed with their partner than typically let on. Sleeping beside someone can decrease your sleep quality which negatively affects your life. Maybe you are light sleepers and you wake each other up throughout the night. Maybe one has a loud snoring habit that’s keeping the other awake. Maybe one is always crawling into bed in the early hours of the morning while the other likes to go to bed at 10 p.m.

You don’t have to feel ashamed of finding it difficult to sleep with your partner and you also don’t have to give up entirely on it. Common problems can be addressed with simple solutions such as an additional pillow. Here are five fixes for common sleep issues that couples deal with.

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1. Use a bigger mattress to sleep through movement

It can be difficult to sleep through your partner’s tossing and turning all night, particularly if they have to get in and out of bed. Waking up multiple times in one night can leave you frustrated and exhausted. The solution may be a switch to a bigger mattress or a mattress that minimizes movement.

Look for a mattress that allows enough space so that your partner can move around without impacting you or consider a mattress made for two sleepers like the Sleep Number bed.[1] This bed allows each person to choose their own firmness level. It also minimizes any disturbances their partner might feel. A foam mattress like the kind featured in advertisements where someone jumps on a bed with an unspilled glass of wine will help minimize the impact of your partner’s movements.[2]

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2. Communicate about scheduling conflicts

If one of you is a night owl and the other an early riser, bedtime can become a source of conflict. It’s hard for a light sleeper to be jostled by their partner coming to bed four hours after them. Talk to your partner about negotiating some compromises. If you’re finding it difficult to agree on a bedtime, negotiate with your partner. Don’t come to bed before or after a certain time, giving the early bird a chance to fully fall asleep before the other comes in. Consider giving the night owl an eye mask to allow them to stay in bed while their partner gets up to start the day.

3. Don’t bring your technology to bed

If one partner likes bringing devices to bed and the other partner doesn’t, there’s very little compromise to be found. Science is pretty unanimous on the fact that screens can cause harm to a healthy sleeper. Both partners should agree on a time to keep technology out of the bedroom or turn screens off. This will prevent both partners from having their sleep interrupted and can help you power down after a long day.

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4. White noise and changing positions can silence snoring

A snoring partner can be one of the most difficult things to sleep through. Snoring tends to be position-specific so many doctors recommend switching positions to stop the snoring. Rather than sleeping on your back doctors recommend turning onto your side. Changing positions can cut down on noise and breathing difficulties for any snorer. Using a white noise fan, or sound machine can also help soften the impact of loud snoring and keep both partners undisturbed.

5. Use two blankets if one’s a blanket hog

If you’ve got a blanket hog in your bed don’t fight it, get another blanket. This solution fixes any issues between two partners and their comforter. There’s no rule that you have to sleep under the same blanket. Separate covers can also cut down on tossing and turning making it a multi-useful adaptation.

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Rather than giving up entirely on sharing a bed with your partner, try one of these techniques to improve your sleeping habits. Sleeping in separate beds can be a normal part of a healthy home life, but compromise can go a long way toward creating harmony in a shared bed.

Featured photo credit: Becca Tapert via unsplash.com

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