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10 Things You Can Do To Calm Your Nerves When Facing Stress

10 Things You Can Do To Calm Your Nerves When Facing Stress

Stress is unavoidable. The harder you try, the more stressed you become. So what to do? Stress can be managed, whether it is positive stress (eustress) or negative stress (distress), by keeping your nerves calm and your brain cool. Here are a few tips to keep yourself calm while facing stress:

1. Talk it out

Find someone you’re close to, and talk about the factors that are causing stress. Discuss the details, and seek advice or guidance. Talking to someone will help the tension fizzle out, and in turn you may get a solution to your problems.

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2. Write it down

Sometimes it may not be possible to share your problems with others. In such situations, putting pen to paper and writing down the causes of the stress helps soothe your nerves.  Writing is very much like you are talking to yourself. It may provide a kind of introspection, which could lead you to better ideas regarding the stressful events. You may destroy/delete the contents when you feel better if you don’t want anyone else to read your notes.

3. Take a bath

Water — in particular, cool water in summer and slightly warm water in winter — may prove to be of great help in stressful situations. When stressed, take a shower, which will relax your muscles and thereby ease your tensions. While bathing, try not to think about anything. Keep your mind as empty as possible.

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4. Go for a walk

Walking is considered a great exercise for the body. However, walking is also good for the brain. But don’t walk hastily with clenched fists. Enjoy slow maneuvering in cool air and peaceful surroundings. Feel the breeze on your face. Listen to the sounds of nature. Observe the things happening around you, such as the ants working in the chain, birds chirping in the air and water flowing down a river. It will relieve you, momentarily, from your stressful situations and you will feel recharged to fight back.

5. Listen your favorite music

Music is considered a great healer, and can be a soothing companion in stressful situations. Play your favorite songs. Usually, slow music is considered better in easing tension than hard-hitting rock, but this varies from person to person.

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6. Read your favorite book

Reading, if you like it, can help in soothing your nerves. However, if you don’t like to read, then avoid it. Choose subjects that are close to you, that you enjoy. Reading takes us into a different world from the actual one we are in. For some time, it’s like the brain thinks only about what is going on in the book, and not what is going on with you. As you are not thinking too deeply about the stressful situations, you feel relaxed. And even after finishing the book, the contents seem to occupy the mind for quite some time, which allows no room for the stressful thoughts. After you are relaxed and recharged, you may confront the situation again.

7. Watch a movie

Go to a movie by yourself to take you out of the surroundings and situations responsible for causing stress. The two or three hours that you will be away from the stressful world will rejuvenate you.

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8. Eat

For some people, stress is associated with overeating, which leads to obesity. If you fall in this category, then you should choose your food wisely. It has been found that eating in stressful situations may provide some relaxation.

9. Play with toddlers

If possible, the company of a child can be a great way to relax. Children are innocent and stress-free creatures. If they feel pain, they will cry it out. But as grown-ups, we hesitate in crying. Instead, we accumulate our frustrations, which in turn adds to stress. If you have access to a child, or a few children, just spend some time with them. Be a child. This will help you in keeping troubling situations out of your mind.

10. Face the situation and solve the problem

Finally, the big one. All the above suggestions are helpful in providing some time to relax, but stressful situations are not going to subside on their own. So be brave, and face the situation until you have reached a solution. Take a break, re-energize yourself, and come back to kill the demon.

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How to Keep Yourself Awake at Work Without Caffeine

How to Keep Yourself Awake at Work Without Caffeine

Keeping yourself awake at work can be a real challenge when you’re bored, exhausted or sleep-deprived.

But before you reach for that can of Red Bull, bottle of Mountain Dew, or pot of coffee, try these healthy remedies to stimulate your 5 different senses and help you stay awake at work:

Sight – Visual Stimulation

The first thing you do when you wake up is opening your eyes, so your visual stimulation is very important to keeping your energy level high.

1. Maximize your exposure to light.

Your body’s internal rhythm is regulated by the amount of light you receive. The greater your exposure, the more alert you will feel.

Open the shades and let in the sunlight. Step outside or look out the window. Turn on all the artificial lights in your office or around your work space.

2. Exercise your eyes (or give them a break).

Roll your eyes up and down, side to side and diagonally. Rotate them clockwise and then counterclockwise. Squeeze them shut and then open them wide. Do this several times.

Reading and sitting in front of a computer screen for long periods can lead to eye fatigue.

Take regular breaks with deliberate blinking and looking out into the distance.

3. Take note of your environment.

Learn to enjoy people-watching. Observe their activities, speech, body language and interactions with others. Notice the details of building, trees and other objects around you, including their color, shape and size.

By doing this, you’re not only relaxing your eye muscles but also calming your mind.

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Hearing – Auditory Stimulation

What you hear or listen to have direct effect on your brain. This is why we feel so annoyed and sometimes angry when we hear construction noise when we’re working.

4. Engage in conversation.

Talk to a friend or colleague. Trade funny stories. Discuss your business venture, a creative idea, the latest political scandal, or any other topic that interests you.

Practice mindful listening to what you and the other person are saying. Tune into the tone, volume and content of the conversation.

Learn how to practice better listening from this guide:

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5. Listen to upbeat music.

Try hip hop, rock or jazz to keep you alert. Instrumental, non-distracting music works best.

Sing, whistle, and hum along if you can. Plug in the earphones if you must.

Smell – Olfactory Stimulation

If you’re feeling sleepy and suddenly smell the coffee, you’ll probably feel more energetic. This is why smell is an influential stimulation.

6. Work your nose.

Aroma therapists recommend essential oils of peppermint (to boost energy), rosemary (to build awareness), eucalyptus (to increase oxygen), cedarwood  (to activate your mind), and cinnamon (to improve your reaction time).

If you don’t have essential oils on hand, you can use lotions or burning candles that provide the same scents.

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Citrus like lemons, limes, grapefruits and oranges are also natural olfactory stimulants. Get a whiff of these citrus scents to stay awake.

Taste – Gustatory Stimulation

If you want an energetic day at work, you can’t let your tongue feeling plain and flavorless.

7. Have a good breakfast.

Start off with the most important meal of the day.

Think fresh, light and healthy: bran cereals, wholegrain breads, fruits, and yogurt.

Nix the heavy stuff like sausages, greasy eggs or pancakes.

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8. Drink lots of water.

Keep a glass or bottle of H2O near you and sip from it throughout the day. Dehydration can leave you feeling tired, sluggish and sleepy.

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9. Eat energy-boosting snacks.

Nuts and fruits (like bananas, apples and strawberries) are sure bets. Pairings with staying power include baby carrots with a low-fat cream cheese dip; celery sticks with peanut butter; red peppers with hummus; and plain yogurt with granola.

Avoid carb-filled, sugary snacks that make you crash and leave you feeling tired.

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Touch – Tactile Stimulation

Last but not least, your sense of touch will make you physically feel more energetic and less stressful.

10. Splash cold water on your face.

Do this in the morning, during bathroom breaks and in the afternoon. Being exposed to cold water pushes your body to adjust and regulate its internal temperature, which in turn keeps you alert.

This works the same as you take a cold shower to increase mood and alertness. Take a look at this article to learn more about it:

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11. Use acupressure.

Apply pressure to, massage, or tap on the stimulation points of your body. These include the top of your head, the back of your neck, the back of your hand (between the thumb and index finger), just below the knee and your earlobes.

Watch this video to learn about the acupressure points you can try:

12. Get moving.

Move away from your chair and stand, walk, run or climb the stairs. Feel the earth under your feet. Stretch and twist. Do jumping jacks, lunges, push-ups and back bends.

And if you need to move more discreetly, wiggle your feet, bounce your knee up and down, scrunch your toes, or cross your legs.

You can also try some simple stretches and exercises at your desk:

Unlike addictive caffeine fixes, these remedies activate your senses, engage your attention, amp up your energy and prevent morning grogginess and afternoon slumps without the side effects or health risks.

Pick a few ways from this list of suggestions and practice them consistently. And when you do this consistently, you’ll soon see the positive results — a more energetic and productive you at work.

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