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Why You Should Make Happiness a Daily Habit

Why You Should Make Happiness a Daily Habit

How important is happiness? The quest for happiness is plot for novels, poems, music, movies and other works of fiction. Happiness also shows up in the German and U.K. National Anthems. It forms part of the American Declaration of Independence, is a popular Chinese Symbol, and appears in speeches at weddings and birthdays worldwide. Happiness is important. Is happiness important to you? Your happiness is something you should be thinking of right now.  Here are 10 compelling reasons why.

1. Because life’s too short to waste on things that don’t matter. 

Life coach Cheryl Richardson, in her book Take Time for your Life, described the fire that gutted her office early in her career. “In an instant, life as you know it can disappear forever.” She relates how fire, like a natural disaster, “puts you in touch with how valuable every moment really is.”  Don’t wait for loss or disaster before you begin doing the things that bring meaning to your life.

2. Because if you don’t, you will regret it.

Young adults dream of high adventure but have no means to pursue it. Those in early middle age have the means but no time.  Retirees have all the time and the means but health issues limit mobility. Now is the right time to begin living your dreams. Pick more daisies now if you’re moved to do so, and keep regret out of your life.

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3. Because you are 50% percent less likely to get ill when you’re happy.

In a study of more than 3,000 older adults by the University College London, findings showed unhappy people are twice as likely to have health problems than those who enjoy life and choose to be physically active. A Harvard School of Public Health study of 6,000 individuals, aged 25 to 74, similarly showed that a sense of enthusiasm and hopefulness appears to reduce the risk of coronary heart disease.

4. Because when you’re happy, life transitions become a walk in the park.

Your life coping mechanisms matter a lot during transitions like starting college, getting married or working in a foreign country. Transitions become difficult for people who cling to what’s familiar and therefore view anything that’s different – the weather, the food, the culture, their relationships – as unsatisfactory. Happiness makes you open to new things and to different ways of getting things done.

5. Because happiness helps you recover sooner from life’s disappointments.

Happy individuals accept disappointments as part of life but always expect more good things to come their way. Why? Because they do not dwell on their failure. They look for the lessons and the silver lining, and then move on and apply those lessons.

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6. Because happiness creates a harmonious home life.

An upbeat mood reflects your positive outlook. Your spouse/partner and children are more relaxed and cheerful around you.  Simply by being pleasant to them, you acknowledge their contributions to your life. They feel appreciated.

7. Because a happy person gets work done faster and smoother.

Your optimism rubs off on your work team. Your colleagues communicate easily with you. They are glad to be on your team and are motivated to perform well. Your relations with superiors and other stakeholders are pleasant and work decisions come easier.  Happiness is the oil that smoothes human relations.

8. Because no one else can do it for you.

At the height of being in love, couples promise to make each other happy.  The feeling is real and the intent is honest and genuine, but holding another person responsible for your happiness is setting you both up for failure.  The good news is YOU map your own happiness. When you take charge of your happiness, no one can rain your parade.

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9. Because your quest will take you to incredible experiences of personal growth. 

Finding your happiness is learning about yourself and discovering what life’s about. Beyond the limits of your comfort zone is where meaningful growth happens. When you expose yourself to a range of experiences, you gain  knowledge, cultivate interests, develop skills, and make new friends. If a crisis happens in one area of your life, growth in other areas of your life works as a buffer.

10. Because being a zombie is no fun.

Some people live their lives by default. They go through their days in auto mode, not noticing much and contributing even less.  Almost numb, they’ve become like zombies jerking involuntarily and grunting incoherently in a black-and-white world. Where’s the fun in that?

To be fully alive is a gift to be grabbed. Happiness makes life a vividly colorful journey and YOU hold the steering wheel. Start  the engine.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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