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Why Harry Potter Has Become a Special Part of My Life

Why Harry Potter Has Become a Special Part of My Life

Even as a fourth grader, I was cynical. How, I wondered, could a series as universally loved as Harry Potter actually be all it was hyped up to be? Despite my apprehensions towards the series, when I was 14, bored and without a book to read, I relented and purchased Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. Within ten days, I had finished all six books that were out at the time, and was already eagerly waiting for Deathly Hallows.

One of the things I most appreciate about the Harry Potter series is how many life lessons it taught me in some of my most formative years. Covering topics like friendship, morals, love, creativity and motivation, Harry Potter is as much of a life guide as it is an incredible story. Here are four unexpected Harry Potter life lessons I’ve learned from those seven books.

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1. I First Understood Depression With Harry Potter

You can exist without your soul, you know, as long as your brain and heart are still working. But you’ll have no memory, no… anything. There’s no chance at all of recovery. You’ll just — exist. As an empty shell. And your soul is gone forever… lost.

Depression would plague me more later in life, but it was the descriptions of the feelings caused by the Dementors that served as a potent introduction to the very real problem that I would later experience. J.K. Rowling captured the hopelessness that comes with depression, which few people who haven’t suffered from it can understand. Her use of the Dementors in the Harry Potter series taught me to channel my Patronus (inner strength) to push through the inexplicably tough times.

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2. I Learned That Friendship Requires Bravery

It takes much bravery to stand up to our enemies but we need as much bravery to stand up to our friends.

Whether it means not letting a friend drive when they’re drunk or sharing the hard truths they need to hear, being a good friend is not always easy. That Harry Potter life lesson was delivered in Sorcerer’s Stone when first-year Neville Longbottom stood up to Harry and friends. It was an impressive demonstration of the kind of bravery that’s required in or outside a world of witchcraft and wizardry. It warmed the heart when Neville’s courage rewarded them near the end of the book in the form of Gryffindor winning the House Cup.

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3. I Realized That Creativity Comes From Hard Work

I’m not as good as you,” said Harry, very embarrassed, as she let go of him.
“Me!” said Hermione. “Books! And cleverness! There are more important things — friendship and bravery and — oh Harry — be careful!

Hermione was by far the most creative student at Hogwarts specifically because she worked so hard. Her hours studying paid off, saving her friends’ hides more than once or twice. Harry had raw talent, but Hermione was super inventive because she utilized all her knowledge to innovate. That emphasis on the value of hard work is one of my favorite Harry Potter life lessons.

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4. I Found An Awesome Productivity Hack

While you are at Hogwarts, your triumphs will earn you house points, while any rule-breaking with lose house points. At the end of the year, the house with the most points is awarded the House Cup, a great honour.

The students of Hogwarts were far more dedicated to their studies and their school than the kids you’d find at a typical place of education. Why was that? Largely because of the House Cup that taunted Gryffindor, Slitherin, Ravenclaw and Hufflepuff. That taught me one most significant Harry Potter life lessons, showing that we all need some kind of “trophy” to reward ourselves for our hard work. That can be in the form of some TV time, a tasty treat or something else that motivates us to get things done. If you have that carrot at the end of the stick, you will run faster. Yet another important life lesson imparted to me by Harry Potter.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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