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7 Profound Truths From “The Prophet” That’ll Help You Grow Remarkably

7 Profound Truths From “The Prophet” That’ll Help You Grow Remarkably

Kahlil Gibran is a Lebanese poet and philosopher; his predominant work “The Prophet,” has profound influence and made a terrific impact on mankind since its inception.

I’ve found few answers to the predicaments of life in “The Prophet” that has enormous potential to change you. I’ve been in a maze drifting away until “The Prophet” tapped my unconscious and showed me the path out of the maze towards enlightenment.

Here we go:

On Joy and Sorrow

The Prophet says, “Joy is your sorrow unmasked.”

The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Any adversity in your life is a blessing in disguise that makes you a better person. So whenever you are in a deep melancholy, just stay calm; the joy has yet to come because both joy and sorrow are inseparable.

When you are joyous, look deep into your heart; you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.

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On Pain 

The Prophet says, “Much of your pain is self chosen.”

We inflict pain upon ourselves knowingly; obviously we can’t avoid it, however, we can deal with it. Try to avoid the trap of being the victim and search for ways to handle your pain.

Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. So accept pain and get to know you better. Pain is a chance to grow personally.

On Reason and Passion

The Prophet says, “Your reason and your passion are the rudder and the sails of your seafaring soul.”

Having a reason and passion in life cuts off the unnecessary melodrama and leads you to the desired goal.

Reason and Passion gives a purpose to life; we aimlessly loiter and succumb to the paradoxes of life if we don’t have reason and passion that leads to the eternity.

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So when you are lost and depressed, find your reason and passion. They truly help you.

On Good and Evil

The Prophet says, “Evil is nothing but good tortured by his own hunger and thirst.”

Life is full of choices, we have to choose carefully; let us not allow good be tortured by the hunger. If so, good provokes evil.

So have restraint and practice self-control to surely prevents all the mishaps of evil. Longing for goodness is in all of us. Nurture it, protect it and practice it. When good is hungry, it seeks food even in dark caves; when it is thirsty it drinks even from dead waters.

Beware, after all choice is yours.

On Work

The Prophet says, “Work is love made visible.”

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If we do so, we consciously avoid all our career depressions.

And what is working with love?

It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, as if your beloved were to wear the cloth.

You work that you may keep peace with the soul of the earth. And to love life through labor is to be intimate with life’s inmost secret.

No matter what, do what you love; you’ll never regret, for in it is hidden the gate to eternity.

On Giving

The Prophet says, “Those who believe in life, their coffer is never empty.”

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Holding on to everything you own is the source for all troubles and worries. Life is short, give unconditionally. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

To simply put, “To withhold is to perish and to give is to receive”

On Choice

The Prophet says, “Let not the sprit go wandering upon the wind.”

Control your thoughts. There is no good and bad separately; both lie within us. It’s ultimately the choice we consciously opt for.

Hold up the spirit and guide your soul to eternal bliss.

Our depressions are mostly self-inflicted; the problems in life are the choices we made. Before laying axe unto the evil, let us examine the roots first. Once it is done our predicaments obviously fly away.

To end this article, “It is life in quest of life in bodies that fear the grave.” Let us aim for the eternity and make our lives beautiful and purposeful.

Thanks to Kahlil Gibran.

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

How to Reinvent Yourself and Change Your Life

How to Reinvent Yourself and Change Your Life

There will always be times in your life when you may need to learn how to reinvent yourself. This could come when you experience a big change, such as leaving your job, moving on from a relationship, transferring to a new home, or losing a loved one. If you are going through a major shift in your life, you may have to find new ways of thinking or doing things, or risk failing to reach your full potential.

“When something bad happens, you have three choices. You can let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.”

Many people who dared to leave their old unhappy lives enabled themselves to pursue their passions and find a renewed zest for living. You can also achieve the same if you take a leap of faith and make things happen for yourself.

To help you always be at your best wherever you may be in your life, here are some practical tips on how to reinvent yourself.

The Reinvention Checklist

Before embarking on a journey of self-reinvention, you need to make sure that you have everything that you need to make the trip bump-proof. These things include:

Resilience

Problems and obstacles are guaranteed to happen. Some of them will be difficult and may knock you off course; the important thing, however, is that you learn from these difficulties, never lose focus, and always get back up. This requires building resilience to get through the tough times.

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Support

Humans are social beings. Although it is important that you learn to rely on yourself when facing any challenge, it is also important to have a support team that you can lean on to give you a boost when things get too tough and to correct you when you’re making mistakes.

The key is to find the right balance between independence and dependence. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and share the difficulties you’re facing. When you open up, you’ll find the people who are really going to be there for you.

Self-Care

During the process of learning how to reinvent yourself, you will have to pull yourself away from your old comfort zones, habits, roles, and self-perceptions. This can be difficult and cause you to question your self-worth, so it’s important to engage in self-care to maintain a positive outlook and keep your mind and body healthy as you face the challenges that await you. Self-care can include:

  • Participating in a hobby you enjoy
  • Spending time with your support system
  • Taking some time to walk in nature
  • Practicing loving-kindness meditation

Find what works for you and what helps you feel like your true self as you seek a reinvented version of you.

How to Reinvent Yourself

Once you’re sure that you’re equipped with all the tools in the self-reinvention checklist, you can begin your journey of learning how to reinvent yourself.

1. Discover Your Strengths

This step provides valuable information on how you deal with certain situations. If you have this information, you will be able to manage difficulties more efficiently.

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To find out what your strengths are, you can ask your friends and colleagues for feedback, engage in self-reflection, or try these 10 Ways to Find Your Own Personal Strengths.

2. Plan

This step calls for a thorough assessment of your current emotional, psychological, and financial status so that you can develop plans that are realistic and practical.

It’s okay to have ambitious dreams, but your plans have to be realistic. Making use of SMART goals can help you plan your life better.

You can also consult your mentor or life coach for practical tips and advice.

Ultimately, you’ll want to create specific long-term and short-term goals that you can create milestones for. By doing this, you’ll lay out a specific roadmap to your reinvented self.

3. Try Things Out

Sometimes, we don’t know if solutions actually work until we try them out. This is why it is important to experiment whenever possible, especially if you’re dealing with a career change. You may need to simply experiment in order to find the things you like. This can be the same with hobbies. If you’re not sure what you would like doing, accept invitations from friends to join them in their favorite sport or take a class, like pottery or photography.

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By seeing what’s out there in any area of your life, you’ll have a better chance of finding the things you enjoy and the goals you want to create.

4. Manage Your Finances Well

Changes may require a bit of money. If you’re shifting to a new career, you may have to pay for training. If you’re going through a tough divorce or having a hard time dealing with the death of a loved one, you may have to pay for therapy. If you’re moving to a new home, you’ll definitely have to pay a whole lot of expenses.

All of these things are possible, but it will require a bit of money savviness as you learn how to reinvent yourself. If you have that cushion, you’ll feel more comfortable straying from your current path to try new things.

5. Muster Your Courage

Fears and self-doubt may arise when you encounter difficulties and setbacks. Sometimes, they may also come when you’re taking risks. You have to manage these negative emotions well and not allow them to discourage you. Tap into your courage and try doing at least one new thing each week to develop it.

Learn how to deal with your self-doubts to move forward in this article: How Self Doubt Keeps You Stuck (And How to Overcome It)

6. Use Your Support Group

As stated above, you need to build a strong support group before you even start the process of reinventing yourself. Your group will keep you from taking wrong turns and encourage you when you get too weighed down by problems. Don’t be afraid to call them, or even ask them out for coffee if you need to vent about the current difficulties you’re facing.

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7. Remind Yourself Every Day of Your Commitment

Write your goals on different-sized cards and scatter them at home and at work in places where you can easily see them. This way, you will constantly be reminded of where you want to be. Remember, writing down your goals helps them stick[1].

8. Accept Failure, Learn, and Resume Your Journey

Failing is normal, especially when we’re trying out something new. When you fail, simply recognize it, learn from it, and move on. Failure, in the end, is the best way to learn what does and doesn’t work, and you simply won’t be able to learn how to reinvent yourself if you don’t accept the inevitable failures that await you.

Final Thoughts

If you truly want to learn how to reinvent yourself and live the life you desire, take the advice above and start taking action. It will take time, patience, and plenty of effort to make the change you want happen, but it will be all worth it.

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