Advertising
Advertising

5 Must Read Self Help Books You Never Heard Of

5 Must Read Self Help Books You Never Heard Of

What is a must read self help book?  It is a book that has beneficial information that will help you in one way or another improve your well being.  Most of these books were released years ago, or even decades ago, but the information in them is relevant today.  Here is the list of must read self help books.

1. Psycho-Cybernetics, A New Way to Get More Living Out of Life by Maxwell Maltz

cybernetics

    You will be blown away by this self help book.  Maxwell Maltz was a plastic surgeon who realized that most of his patients didn’t need plastic surgery.  All they needed was to spend twenty minutes a day thinking about how they would go through life after the plastic surgery.  The patient would come back after the three weeks and cancel the plastic surgery because they realized that it was not the plastic surgery that they needed but rather to gain self confidence.  This is one of many examples in this powerful book.  Some would say that this is the self help books of all self help books.  I think you will agree after you read it.

    Advertising

    2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy

    powerofyour

      You will enjoy this inspiring and enjoyable book.  Some readers may not like the numerous religious references, but if you can get past it you will read some amazing true stories about how positive thinking can change your life.  Joseph Murphy provides examples to back up what he writes about.  Do you ever wonder why some people are happy and some are miserable?  Is it as simple as desire?  Read this self help book and rediscover yourself.

      3. The Genie Within: Your Subconcious Mind–How It Works and How to Use It by Harry W Carpenter

      Advertising

      geniewithin

        How do you communicate with your subconscious mind?  Why would you want to communicate with your subconscious mind?  This self hep book will answer these two questions in a very believable and simple to understand way.  The techniques he writes about are crystal clear and easy to learn.  You will see results from his techniques immediately.

         

        4. The Secret of Quantum Living by Frank J Kinslow

        Advertising

        secretofquantumliving

          This self help book is about the awesome feeling your body gets when you clear your mind and think about nothing.  Some call this being in the present.  You could compare this self help book to the more popular book “The Power Of The Now“, but this book is easier to read, the author provides a more clear understanding how to do it, and you will catch yourself smiling because his writing is captivating.  It can be difficult learning new techniques that will help you, but this one is very simple because the author makes is simple to learn and fun to read.

          5. It Works: The Famous Little Red Book That Makes Your Dreams Come True! by RHJ

          itworks

            When they say little in the title, they actually mean it here.  This book is very precise and provides examples on a technique that will make your dreams come true.  You will be sceptical but like anything if you don’t try it you will not see the proof.  It is very simple and can be put into action immediately.

            Advertising

            That’s it!  These five book are packed with life changing information.  Search these books on the Internet and you will notice that most will say these self hep books are indeed the best written and most useful.  They all have different techniques, they are all different, but they all work.  There are thousands of self help books, but very few that actually impact the readers life.  These five will impact your life.

            Featured photo credit: Chris Potter via flickr.com

            More by this author

            15 Habits of Exceptionally Likable People 5 Must Read Self Help Books You Never Heard Of How To Be Less Emotional If Your Team Lost In World Cup let go 12 Signs You’ve Let The Wrong Person Go

            Trending in Communication

            1 How to Live up to Your Full Potential and Succeed in Life 2 Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset 3 10 Strategies to Keep Moving Forward When You’re Feeling Extra Stuck 4 Learn the Different Types of Love (and Better Understand Your Partner) 5 Anxiety Coping Mechanisms That Work When You’re Stressed to the Max

            Read Next

            Advertising
            Advertising

            Last Updated on November 15, 2018

            Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

            Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

            What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

            As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

            The Success Mindset

            Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

            Advertising

            The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

            The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

            The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

            How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

            Advertising

            How To Create a Success Mindset

            People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

            1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

            How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

            A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

            Advertising

            There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

            2. Look For The Successes

            It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

            3. Eliminate Negativity

            You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

            Advertising

            When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

            4. Create a Vision

            Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

            If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

            An Inspirational Story…

            For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

            What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

            Read Next