As kids we have to listen to our parents because we care. Soon our various relatives, friends, mentors and even people we barely know tell us how to live our lives, because we care. If you want to swim right, they tell you left is the way. And then begins the flurry of doubt that maybe what you want to do, or are doing, is wrong as if all the self doubt wasn't enough.
So here we bring to you 35 quotes that will lead you to where you want to be, all the time telling you to take that leap of faith. Don't care about what they want. Worry about yourself today. After all, self-care is the best kind of care that you can give.
35 Quotes About Not Caring What People Think Too Much
1. βThe eyes of others our prisons; their thoughts our cages.β β Virginia Woolf
2. βA dame that knows the ropes isn't likely to get tied up.β β Mae West
3. βYou have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It's their mistake, not my failing.β β Richard P. Feynman
4. βCare about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.ββLao Tzu
5. βNever dull your shine for somebody else.β β Tyra Banks
6. βIf being an egomaniac means I believe in what I do and in my art or music, then in that respect you can call me that... I believe in what I do, and I'll say it.β β John Lennon
7. βI do not care so much what I am to others as I care what I am to myself.β β Michel de Montaigne
8. βBe who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind donβt matter and those who matter donβt mind.ββ Dr. Seuss
9. βDoubt kills more dreams than failure ever will. ββ Suzy Kassem
10. βMost people are other people. Their thoughts are someone elseβs opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.ββ Oscar Wilde
11. βYour time is limited, so donβt waste it living someone elseβs life.ββSteve Jobs
12. βSome people say, βNever let them see you cry.β I say, if youβre so mad you could just cry, then cry. It terrifies everyone.β β Tina Fey
13. βGreat spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly.ββ Albert Einstein
14. βSome people say you are going the wrong way, when itβs simply a way of your own.ββ Angelina Jolie
15. βI donβt care what you think about me. I donβt think about you at all.ββ Coco Chanel
16. βDon't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what.β β Erma Bombeck
17. βThere is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do.β β Marianne Williamson
18. βBelieve in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no choice but to believe with you.β β Cynthia Kersey
19. βNo name-calling truly bites deep unless, in some dark part of us, we believe it. If we are confident enough then it is just noise.β β Laurell K. Hamilton
20. βWhen it comes down to it, I let them think what they want. If they care enough to bother with what I do, then I'm already better than them.β β Marilyn Monroe
21. βDonβt waste your energy trying to educate or change opinions; go over, under, through, and opinions will change organically when youβre the boss. Or they wonβt. Who cares? Do your thing, and donβt care if they like it.β β Tina Fey
22. βIΒ care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself.β β Charlotte BrontΓ«
23. βI want to be around people that do things. I donβt want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do. I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.β β Amy Poehler
24. βYou probably wouldnβt worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do.β β Olin Miller
25. βThere is nothing more attractive than confidence, once she sees her own beauty, everyone else will.β β Habeeb Akande
26. βFew and mean as my gifts may be, I actually am, and do not need for my own assurance or the assurance of my fellows any secondary testimony.β β Ralph Waldo Emerson
27. βPeople who repeatedly attack your confidence and self-esteem are quite aware of your potential, even if you are not.β β Wayne Gerard Trotman
28. βSo many people along the way, whatever it is you aspire to do, will tell you it can't be done. But it all it takes is imagination. You dream. You plan. You reach.ββ Michael Phelps
29. βWell, laddie, if you've let an old buzzard like me hurt your confidence, you couldn't have had much in the first place.β β Tamora Pierce
30. βMost people just want to see you fall, that's more reason to stand tall.β β Emma Michelle
31. βThere is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.β β Aristotle
32. βHe thinks himself rather an exceptional young man, thoroughly sophisticated, well adjusted to his environment, and somewhat more significant than any one else he knows.β β F. Scott Fitzgerald
33. βWhen I was growing up I always wanted to be someone. Now I realize I should have been more specific.β β Lily Tomlin
34. βOne day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.β β Sigmund Freud
35. βMy dear, I don't give a damn.β β Margaret Mitchell
You aren't going to attain much if you care about what others think. Here are some quotes to equip you to become who you want to be and something caring about others opinion
Sacrifice needs to have boundaries. If every moment is spent caring about if people like you or not, you never get the time and space to do for yourself.
It's hard to not care what others think of you. But by focusing on what others think, you lose your own definition of yourself.
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