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3 Extraordinary Lessons All Entrepreneurs Should Learn From James Cameron

3 Extraordinary Lessons All Entrepreneurs Should Learn From James Cameron

James Cameron: college drop-out, serial entrepreneur, explorer, artist, philanthropist and a tremendous warrior for the environment – and one of the most inspiring people on this planet. He has written and produced more than twenty-five films and documentaries including The Terminator, Aliens, The Abyss, Titanic, and Avatar; that have made millions and millions of dollars around the world.

But how did a small town kid from Chippawa, Ontario go on to dominate Hollywood and win 11 Oscars in the process?

Here are three lessons we can learn from visionary James Cameron on creating a big life:

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1. Take actions towards your dreams and never give up

“The universe is like a giant bank vault lock, where the tumblers are constantly moving and once in a while the tumblers line up and you have to listen for the click. So you must be prepared in that moment to step through the door.” – James Cameron

There are moments when you may not know what to do next, how to move forward or what kind of decision you should take. Moments in which you find yourself living an unfulfilled life, but know deep inside that you have the power to create your own reality. That’s what happened to James Cameron. After leaving college he lived one of the most frustrating periods of his entire life. He was constantly questioning why he was coming up with such great ideas when he didn’t know how to put them into place. After seeing Star Wars he changed his perspective about life and decided to quit his job as truck driver and make action towards his dream. After writing his first science fiction script for a ten minute short titled Xenogenesis his career as filmmaker began.

Therefore, when you are facing a difficult moment in your life or you need to take an important decision, you have the power to make your own choice. Ask yourself: “If I make this choice today, how will impact my future?” Be prepared, know what you want and move towards it, no matter what!

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2. Dare to dream big and be extraordinary

“I set my goals way higher than the achievable. And when I fail, I fail at a very high level. That’s my process. It’s really demented, but it actually works. When you are aiming really high and doing something new, you must be also prepared to fail, learn from your mistakes and begin with a new plan. More motivated than before.” – James Cameron

When anyone is starting a big project there is the thrill of the idea, of possibilities, that moment when the fantastic becomes possible, just barely possible, and you begin to experience amazing things happening in your life – because you allowed yourself to dream big and be unrealistic. We have the tendency to place ourselves within boundaries that define who we can and cannot be. This mindset causes us to settle for the lowest level of our potential.

So form a clear, detailed picture of what the bigger version of your life looks like; one in which you’ve already attained your greatest goals and fulfilled your deepest desires. When you do something that no one has ever done before you become aware that something really important is happening in your life and you feel privileged just to witness it.

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3. Create a bond of respect

“But now I look back and every single thing I learned in my young age has paid off for me. How to drive a truck and even scraping the gums from the bottom of school desks gave me something that I value now: respect.” – James Cameron

Learning to respect past circumstances, people’s efforts, abilities and opinions is an essential quality to be a great leader and a successful entrepreneur. It’s really easy, all you have to do is to treat people the way you like to have them treat you.

Thank them for their assistance and their support on a regular basis. When others are successful, draw attention to them and celebrate their achievements. You will immediately earn not just their respect, but their trust as well. You must be a reflection of what you’d like to see in others, because you get in return what you give!

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James Cameron is a clear example that the road to success is not a straight line: It’s a winding road. You have to imagine it first, you have to draw it for yourself, you have to work hard and then you have to walk it. Find your passions, find the things that really move you – don’t listen to the naysayers, just go for that. Protect your dreams and ideas and fight for what you stand for, because the world needs the special gift that only you have.

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Last Updated on October 16, 2019

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

We all have relationships. We have acquaintances, relatives, colleagues, neighbors and friends. However, for a large percentage of us, many of these relationships are not fulfilling.

They are unfulfilling because they lack real strength; and they lack real strength because they lack real depth.

Unfortunately, in today’s society, we tend to have shallow, superficial relationships with others, and it’s extremely hard for this kind of relationships to provide anything more than faint satisfaction.

I’d like to show you, based on my experience as a communication and confidence coach, how you can add a significant amount of depth, and thus strength, to your relationships and make your social life a whole lot more meaningful.

Here’re 5 simple yet powerful ways for meaningful relationships building:

1. Meet More People

This is an apparent paradox, but the quality of the people you meet has considerably to do with the quantity of people you meet.

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If you don’t know a lot of people and you barely meet one or two new people every season of the year, considering the variety of individuals out there, you won’t meet very often people who are a good match with you in terms of personality, interests and values.

And since this natural match plays a huge part in building strong relationships, you’ll just as seldom have the opportunity to develop strong relationships.

Conversely, if you go out a lot, you meet a lot of new people and you constantly expand your social circle, you’re much more likely to meet people you match up well with, and these people have a tremendous potential to become good friends, reliable partners, etc.

This is why it’s important to meet more people.

2. Talk about the Things That Matter To You

A relationship becomes the strongest when two people discover they believe in the same things and have similar interests. It’s these commonalities regarding values and interests that create the strongest emotional connection.

I’ve noticed that many people keep conversations shallow. They talk about trivial stuff such as the weather, what’s on TV, the lives of various movie stars, but they rarely talk about what really matters to them in life. This is a mistake from my perspective, because it’s the perfect method for a relationship to not develop.

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Talk about the things that truly matter to you and give others a chance to know what you care about and what you believe in. If they believe in the same things and they care about the same things, they’ll eagerly let you know. Thus you’ll find meaningful common ground and you’ll feel more connected.

3. Express Vulnerability

Many people try to come off as perfect. They don’t talk about their failures, they hide their shortcomings and they never say anything that could embarrass them.

This is all just a facade though. You may appear perfect to some, but you know you’re not perfect and they know that too. You’re only human and humans have flaws.

However, by hiding your flaws, what you do succeed in is appearing cold and impersonal. You seem like a marble statue rather than a real person. And this makes it very hard for anyone to connect with you emotionally.

Humans connect with other humans, not with ideals. Keep this in mind and don’t be afraid to let your vulnerability and your humanity show. This is what takes a relationship to the next level.

Take a look at this article and find out Why Showing Vulnerability Actually Proves Your Strength.

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4. Have Integrity

Integrity, as I see it, is the alignment between your thoughts, your words and your actions. When you say what you think and you do what you said you’ll do, you have integrity.

This is a crucial trait because if you have integrity, people can trust you. They can trust you to give them an honest feedback, even when it’s hard to shallow, and they can trust you to keep your promises.

This trust is one of the central pillars of a strong relationship, both in your personal and your professional life. So, as challenging as it can be sometimes, always try to have integrity.

Be honest with the people around you, even when this will initially hurt them. It’s more important for them to trust you than to not feel hurt. And always do what you promised. Even better, think twice before you promise anything, and only promise what you really can and you are willing to do.

5. Be There for Others

Another central pillar of strong relationships is support. Connections between people grow sturdy if they can rely on each other for support when it’s needed, whether that support means a few kind words or several massive actions.

Of course, you can’t be there for everybody, all the time. Your time, energy and other resources are limited. But what you can do is identify the genuinely important people in your life and then seek to be there as much as possible, at least for them.

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Your support will help them practically, and it will comfort them emotionally; which makes one hell of a difference in a relationship.

The Bottom Line

With the right mindset and the right behavior, you can strengthen a wide range of relationships in your life and advance them as far as they can be advanced.

And with strong relationships, not only that you feel more fulfilled, but you feel more connected to the entire world. You feel that your life has real value, you have more fun and you live in the moment. An entire world of opportunities opens up in front of you.

Then your task is to simply walk through the open doors.

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