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13 Signs You’re an Introvert, but Also a Little Bit Outgoing

13 Signs You’re an Introvert, but Also a Little Bit Outgoing

We, as introverts who are little more outgoing, find it difficult to adjust to a lot of situations. I made discovery about who I was growing up and through this burden, I have become more introspective, selective and reflective. Here are some things about us you need to know.

1. You find it difficult to adjust to conventional systems.

A good part of our society caters for the extrovert, from our office spaces to hang out spots. Although you try to appear suitable for your environment you still feel awkward in large social settings. As an outgoing introvert, your focus is not matched for traditional settings because you will probably hate it.

2. You take your time to be warmed up around people.

You wouldn’t tell your story within the first hour of meeting someone new at a party. Although you desire to be an object of attention, you take your time to unleash yourself to people you are meeting for the first time. Furthermore, you would prefer things are more controlled in such a gathering before you start socializing.

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3. You are more attracted to introverts than extroverts.

Although you are a more outgoing introvert, you are still drawn to people who have the same attitudes and perspectives as you do. According to a few studies, introverts depend on their environment to gather energy and if the environment is not well suited with the right individuals or factors, you suddenly love to retreat.

4. You like to have fun and go out, but it should only be with your inner circle of friends.

Extroverts love to take full advantage of new environments or social gatherings. But introverts who are outgoing want their social gatherings to be special and have a more bonding appeal. That is why they would prefer to perform outdoor activities only with their inner circle of friends.

5. You prefer a balance of socializing, yet wanting to be alone.

As much as you want to go out to that new party, you would also want to be indoors with a cup of coffee or tea and being alone with yourself. Outgoing introverts try to weave a balance between both worlds of being with people and being with themselves.

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6. Your energy level is determined by your environment.

Getting to a party and warming up works well for you. But how long you stay in such an environment is dependent on the people you meet and how they could help you recharge that energy level you came to the party with. However since in such occasions you are usually surrounded with extroverts who are great at draining your social batteries, you quickly withdraw to your own solitude.

7. You love engaging in deep conversations.

Being an outgoing introvert doesn’t restrain you from trying to get the best out of your environment. You despise small talk and you are more into philosophy and great ideas. You socialize only with people who can make the best out of conversations and entertain you intellectually.

8. You focus your attention on people when you are with them.

Most times you are avoiding people and retreating to yourself. But anytime you grace a meeting with people you have not been with for so long your attention is totally on them. People may consider you to be flirty or overly sensitive but you like to get the best out of an environment when it engages you.

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9. You are not very comfortable with your first dates.

You are catchy during your first conversations and engagements with the opposite sex or a romantic interest, yet days after, you want to be left alone and want to distance yourself from such a person.

10. You have a mysterious spark.

Most times, people consider you to be unusual as you are unpredictable, but this is not intentional on your part as you do not consider your social life to be a focus.

11. You find it difficult to explain who you are.

You really cannot explain if you are social or antisocial or if you are introvert or an extrovert. You can’t explain where you belong since you have elements from both worlds. When you explain to people that you are really shy, people find this difficult to grasp.

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12. You enjoy traveling alone.

Traveling doesn’t have to be with a gang for you, yet you are excited that through the journey you will meet new people and gain new experiences.

13. You are deeply concerned about your state of being.

Truth be told your life is a conundrum and it hurts not knowing how to deal with the social and anti-social thing. You are deeply worried when you read this post or when you discover that all this while you have actually being angled as an outgoing introvert.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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