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13 Quotes About Confidence That Will Encourage You to Accept Yourself

13 Quotes About Confidence That Will Encourage You to Accept Yourself

Confidence is a skill that can be learned just like anything else. If you struggle with doubt, check out these thirteen quotes about confidence for encouraging words that will help you accept yourself.

“I laugh at myself. I don’t take myself completely seriously. I think that’s another quality that people have to hold on to… you have to laugh, especially at yourself.” ― Madonna

Confident people don’t take things too seriously. They know stressing out about every embarrassing moment or minor mistake is counterproductive, so they try to find the humor in the situation.

“You will never gain anyone’s approval by begging for it. When you stand confident in your own worth, respect follows.”
― Mandy Hale

Confident people won’t change who they are to fit somebody else’s mold. They understand that people-pleasing is an exercise in futility, because they will never be able to make everybody happy.

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“Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.”
― C. JoyBell C.

Confident people aren’t afraid to confront their fears. They strive to reach beyond what is comfortable, because true transformation cannot occur without a willingness to push yourself.

“Beauty is about being comfortable in your own skin. It’s about knowing and accepting who you are.” ― Ellen DeGeneres

Confident people don’t compare themselves to others. They accept their body as it is and embrace their authentic personality without apology.

“You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt

Confident people aren’t obsessed with what other people think. They know it’s silly to be self-conscious, given the fact that most people are far too busy dealing with their own issues to care about what everybody else is doing.

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“Just believe in yourself. Even if you don’t, pretend that you do and, at some point, you will.” ― Venus Williams

Confident people weren’t born with high self-esteem. They probably had to struggle with personal demons like self-doubt or a poor body image before they learned to accept themselves.

“Don’t waste your energy trying to change opinions. Do your thing, and don’t care if they like it.”  ― Tina Fey

Confident people won’t mince their words just because somebody might be offended. They present their ideas without filter, because they know it is better to have a few friends who accept you as you are than a lot of friends who can’t handle the truth.

“Success is most often achieved by those who don’t know that failure is inevitable.” ― Coco Chanel

Confident people don’t believe “failure” is a scary thing to be avoided. They stay encouraged by reminding themselves that mistakes are nothing more than learning opportunities in disguise.

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“I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it.” — Maya Angelou

Confident people aren’t ruled by their circumstances. They know they can’t control every thing that happens to them, but they take personal responsibility by striving to react in a positive manner.

“Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.” ― Marilyn Monroe

Confident people don’t believe in hero worship. They might have positive role-models they look up to and learn from, but they have no interest in being a copy-cat.

“The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”― Sylvia Plath

Confident people couldn’t achieve much if they didn’t believe in themselves. They remind themselves that doubt is just a nagging voice in their head, and discard negative thoughts that don’t serve their passion or purpose.

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“You can’t move mountains by whispering at them.” ― Pink

Confident people aren’t willing to stay silent when they see injustice in the world. They draw attention to issues they care about by speaking with conviction, no matter what “society” has to say about it.

“Never dull your shine for somebody else.”― Tyra Banks

Confident people won’t shrink themselves for the sake of others. They refuse to let negative people steal their power, because they know they deserve a happy and fulfilling life.

Featured photo credit: Urban Grafitti Portrait/Trenten Kelley via flickr.com

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Science Says People Who Talk To Themselves Are Geniuses

Science Says People Who Talk To Themselves Are Geniuses

I talk a lot to myself. It helps me to keep my concentration on the activity on hand, makes me focus more on my studies, and gives me some pretty brilliant ideas while chattering to myself; more importantly, I produce better works. For example, right now, as I am typing, I am constantly mumbling to myself. Do you talk to yourself? Don’t get embarrassed admitting it because science has discovered that those who talk to themselves are actually geniuses… and not crazy!

Research Background

Psychologist-researcher Gary Lupyan conducted an experiment where 20 volunteers were shown objects, in a supermarket, and were asked to remember them. Half of them were told to repeat the objects, for example, banana, and the other half remained silent. In the end, the result shown that self-directed speech aided people to find the objects faster, by 50 to 100 milliseconds, compared to the silent ones.

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“I’ll often mutter to myself when searching for something in the refrigerator or the supermarket shelves,” said Gary Lupyan.

This personal experience actually made him conduct this experiment. Lupyan, together with another psychologist, Daniel Swigley, came up with the outcomes that those to talk to oneself are geniuses. Here are the reasons:

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It stimulates your memory

When you are talking to yourself, your sensory mechanism gets activated. It gets easier on your memory since you can visualize the word, and you can act accordingly.[1]

It helps stay focused

When you are saying it loud, you stay focused on your task,[2] and it helps you recognise that stuff immediately. Of course, this only helps if you know what the object you are searching looks like. For example, a banana is yellow in colour, and you know how a banana looks like. So when you are saying it loud, your brain immediately pictures the image on your mind. But if you don’t know what banana looks like, then there is no effect of saying it loud.

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It helps you clarify your thoughts

Every one of us tends to have various types of thoughts. Most make sense, while the others don’t. Suppose you are furious at someone and you feel like killing that person. Now for this issue you won’t run to a therapist, will you? No, what you do is lock yourself in a room and mutter to yourself. You are letting go off the anger by talking to yourself, the pros and cons of killing that person, and eventually you calm down. This is a silly thought that you have and are unable to share it with any other person. Psychologist Linda Sapadin said,[3]

“It helps you clarify your thoughts, tend to what’s important and firm up any decisions you are contemplating.”

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