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13 Most Precious Things To Give Your Loved Ones

13 Most Precious Things To Give Your Loved Ones

We’re already experiencing the “-ber” months. Pretty soon, Christmas will be coming and your loved ones will be requesting the gifts and presents that they would like to have.

Why don’t you stand out from the crowd and skip the materialistic gifts for now? These 13 valuable things are priceless — you can’t see them by window shopping, you can’t buy them from any store, and you can only derive them out of the goodness of your own heart.

Which items made the list?

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1. Give them sincere compliments.

Once you’re motivated to see the good in everyone, giving sincere compliments will be a walk in the park for you. Refrain from commenting on external appearances as this can seem shallow and manipulative. Instead, focus on the goodness and the individuality of your loved ones.

2. Share your time with your loved ones.

In a busy world, it’s understandable for you to have a lot on your plate right now. I’m including time as one of the things to give your loved ones as it is considered so valuable: it’s seen as scarce and in-demand, so sharing it with the people you love is generous.

3. Give a healthy dose of compassion.

One of the best (and hardest!) things to give your loved ones is forgiveness. You can only forgive them wholeheartedly if you aim to see things from their perspective and understand their reasons for their decisions. Try to be the bigger person once in a while. You’ll find that your loved one won’t be the only one to benefit from this — you may even learn something new about yourself, too.

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4. Give your smile. Lots of it.

Turn that frown upside down and show your smile to the people you love. Nurture a loving and happy relationship with them. This can help you too, you know: in a study in Psychological Scienceit was discovered that smiling during the course of experiencing brief stress can actually reduce the intensity of your body’s stress response.

Receive smiles and give smiles. Either way, it can make you and your loved one feel good. Smiles are always great things to give your loved ones.

5. Give a healthy amount of your trust.

Trust isn’t something that you can readily give, so the people you’re giving it to must be pretty special. Let them know that you trust them. Make them realize that you’re sharing a fragile part of yourself with them by choosing to trust them instead of resorting to harsh judging.

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6. Give them a boost of empowerment.

Set up a time for you and your loved ones to contribute to the world by attending service activities such as fund-raising and donating events. Allow your loved ones to feel motivated by giving back. Give them the chance to help the world and make it a better place in their own way.

7. Give your love and show it too.

Don’t forget to tell your loved ones just how much you love them. Say it with a kiss, with a hug or with an embrace. Always consider their feelings and let the little things count in your relationship with them.

8. Give an ample amount of acceptance.

Let your loved ones know that you accept them for who they are. Of course, looking out for them will always be your priority, but remember that they’re the only ones who can really figure out what they want in life. Accept unconditionally. Don’t judge.

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9. Give a sprinkle of optimism every day.

Life is too short and too precious to waste your energy on the negative aspects of life. Always let your loved ones know that there will be greater times ahead of them. Urge them to believe and be positive.

10. Give your devoted belief.

Maybe your loved one wants to chase a dream but is too scared and too discouraged to do so. Ease their burden by letting them know that you believe in them. Believe in them enough to delegate something that’s in their realm of specialty. Tell it to them straight and show it in your actions.

11. Give a nurturing ear.

Welcome silence during the conversation and allow your loved ones to vent. Refrain from arguing. Stop thinking of cliché things that you can say. Don’t talk. Just listen.

12. Give your loved ones your undivided presence.

Don’t just give them your time — give them your presence, too! Your presence is one of the most valuable things to give your loved ones. This means being there and living there: being there while reading a book or being there while playing around with your iPhone doesn’t count!

Drop everything else and focus on giving your whole presence to your loved one. Really be there. Really revel in the moment.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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