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It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

Do you want to know a secret? Many people are in the wrong relationship because they missed out on having their ideal lover. Why did they miss out on this? They couldn’t do or take actions that would have fostered their relationship and made it stronger.  To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This by Mandy Len Catron stresses on the fact that there are things one could do to be in love with a total stranger or a familiar person. Before the experiment and result by Arthur Aron, only a few would believe that two strangers could be in love by mere manipulation of psychological phenomenon.

Foster your intimacy with questions

Wham! You just met someone a few hours ago, and you can’t tell what happened that makes you feel like you’ve known him/her for ages. We all have been there; a scenario where you engage in a conversation with a stranger, and you feel it shouldn’t end.

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With this article’ you can quickly understand how the human mind works in line with psychology, and how to get your thoughts to manifestation. It could be quite an unrestful moment to sit with someone you would love to become closer to you, but couldn’t say a word. That shouldn’t be the story. You need to read this article to learn how to spice up every moment, tell your story, and let that friend tell his/hers, and before you spell jack, you are already lovers.

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I hardly get inspired, moved or motivated to take actions when I read some articles. However, Catron’s work got me astonished. While many would think it’s not that easy, I can tell that if anyone follows the principle of communicating with questions, they would quickly overwhelm their possible lovers.

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This article, explains in details, how the principle worked for her and the stranger she used to see sometimes. Just about 90 minutes of staying together; wham! They are already in love. Surprisingly; the ‘question method’ has caused two strangers to fall in love and get married within six months. Yes, I can tell this works!

What are you waiting for? Of course, it’s high time you knew how to make things fall into place for you! It’s easy and has been discussed in this article comprehensively. To read the full article, click here.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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