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Last Updated on February 27, 2018

It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

Do you want to know a secret? Many people are in the wrong relationship because they missed out on having their ideal lover. Why did they miss out on this? They couldn’t do or take actions that would have fostered their relationship and made it stronger.  To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This by Mandy Len Catron stresses on the fact that there are things one could do to be in love with a total stranger or a familiar person. Before the experiment and result by Arthur Aron, only a few would believe that two strangers could be in love by mere manipulation of psychological phenomenon.

Foster your intimacy with questions

Wham! You just met someone a few hours ago, and you can’t tell what happened that makes you feel like you’ve known him/her for ages. We all have been there; a scenario where you engage in a conversation with a stranger, and you feel it shouldn’t end.

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With this article’ you can quickly understand how the human mind works in line with psychology, and how to get your thoughts to manifestation. It could be quite an unrestful moment to sit with someone you would love to become closer to you, but couldn’t say a word. That shouldn’t be the story. You need to read this article to learn how to spice up every moment, tell your story, and let that friend tell his/hers, and before you spell jack, you are already lovers.

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I hardly get inspired, moved or motivated to take actions when I read some articles. However, Catron’s work got me astonished. While many would think it’s not that easy, I can tell that if anyone follows the principle of communicating with questions, they would quickly overwhelm their possible lovers.

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This article, explains in details, how the principle worked for her and the stranger she used to see sometimes. Just about 90 minutes of staying together; wham! They are already in love. Surprisingly; the ‘question method’ has caused two strangers to fall in love and get married within six months. Yes, I can tell this works!

What are you waiting for? Of course, it’s high time you knew how to make things fall into place for you! It’s easy and has been discussed in this article comprehensively. To read the full article, click here.

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Anna is a communication expert and a life enthusiast. She's the editor of Lifehack and loves to write about love, life, and passion.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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