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Last Updated on February 27, 2018

It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

It Is Actually Easier Than You Think It Is To Fall In Love With A Stranger

Do you want to know a secret? Many people are in the wrong relationship because they missed out on having their ideal lover. Why did they miss out on this? They couldn’t do or take actions that would have fostered their relationship and made it stronger.  To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This by Mandy Len Catron stresses on the fact that there are things one could do to be in love with a total stranger or a familiar person. Before the experiment and result by Arthur Aron, only a few would believe that two strangers could be in love by mere manipulation of psychological phenomenon.

Foster your intimacy with questions

Wham! You just met someone a few hours ago, and you can’t tell what happened that makes you feel like you’ve known him/her for ages. We all have been there; a scenario where you engage in a conversation with a stranger, and you feel it shouldn’t end.

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With this article’ you can quickly understand how the human mind works in line with psychology, and how to get your thoughts to manifestation. It could be quite an unrestful moment to sit with someone you would love to become closer to you, but couldn’t say a word. That shouldn’t be the story. You need to read this article to learn how to spice up every moment, tell your story, and let that friend tell his/hers, and before you spell jack, you are already lovers.

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I hardly get inspired, moved or motivated to take actions when I read some articles. However, Catron’s work got me astonished. While many would think it’s not that easy, I can tell that if anyone follows the principle of communicating with questions, they would quickly overwhelm their possible lovers.

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This article, explains in details, how the principle worked for her and the stranger she used to see sometimes. Just about 90 minutes of staying together; wham! They are already in love. Surprisingly; the ‘question method’ has caused two strangers to fall in love and get married within six months. Yes, I can tell this works!

What are you waiting for? Of course, it’s high time you knew how to make things fall into place for you! It’s easy and has been discussed in this article comprehensively. To read the full article, click here.

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The Gentle Art of Saying No

The Gentle Art of Saying No

No!

It’s a simple fact that you can never be productive if you take on too many commitments — you simply spread yourself too thin and will not be able to get anything done, at least not well or on time.

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But requests for your time are coming in all the time — through phone, email, IM or in person. To stay productive, and minimize stress, you have to learn the Gentle Art of Saying No — an art that many people have problems with.

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What’s so hard about saying no? Well, to start with, it can hurt, anger or disappoint the person you’re saying “no” to, and that’s not usually a fun task. Second, if you hope to work with that person in the future, you’ll want to continue to have a good relationship with that person, and saying “no” in the wrong way can jeopardize that.

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But it doesn’t have to be difficult or hard on your relationship. Here are the Top 10 tips for learning the Gentle Art of Saying No:

  1. Value your time. Know your commitments, and how valuable your precious time is. Then, when someone asks you to dedicate some of your time to a new commitment, you’ll know that you simply cannot do it. And tell them that: “I just can’t right now … my plate is overloaded as it is.”
  2. Know your priorities. Even if you do have some extra time (which for many of us is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time? For myself, I know that more commitments means less time with my wife and kids, who are more important to me than anything.
  3. Practice saying no. Practice makes perfect. Saying “no” as often as you can is a great way to get better at it and more comfortable with saying the word. And sometimes, repeating the word is the only way to get a message through to extremely persistent people. When they keep insisting, just keep saying no. Eventually, they’ll get the message.
  4. Don’t apologize. A common way to start out is “I’m sorry but …” as people think that it sounds more polite. While politeness is important, apologizing just makes it sound weaker. You need to be firm, and unapologetic about guarding your time.
  5. Stop being nice. Again, it’s important to be polite, but being nice by saying yes all the time only hurts you. When you make it easy for people to grab your time (or money), they will continue to do it. But if you erect a wall, they will look for easier targets. Show them that your time is well guarded by being firm and turning down as many requests (that are not on your top priority list) as possible.
  6. Say no to your boss. Sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss — they’re our boss, right? And if we say “no” then we look like we can’t handle the work — at least, that’s the common reasoning. But in fact, it’s the opposite — explain to your boss that by taking on too many commitments, you are weakening your productivity and jeopardizing your existing commitments. If your boss insists that you take on the project, go over your project or task list and ask him/her to re-prioritize, explaining that there’s only so much you can take on at one time.
  7. Pre-empting. It’s often much easier to pre-empt requests than to say “no” to them after the request has been made. If you know that requests are likely to be made, perhaps in a meeting, just say to everyone as soon as you come into the meeting, “Look guys, just to let you know, my week is booked full with some urgent projects and I won’t be able to take on any new requests.”
  8. Get back to you. Instead of providing an answer then and there, it’s often better to tell the person you’ll give their request some thought and get back to them. This will allow you to give it some consideration, and check your commitments and priorities. Then, if you can’t take on the request, simply tell them: “After giving this some thought, and checking my commitments, I won’t be able to accommodate the request at this time.” At least you gave it some consideration.
  9. Maybe later. If this is an option that you’d like to keep open, instead of just shutting the door on the person, it’s often better to just say, “This sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I just don’t have the time at the moment. Perhaps you could check back with me in [give a time frame].” Next time, when they check back with you, you might have some free time on your hands.
  10. It’s not you, it’s me. This classic dating rejection can work in other situations. Don’t be insincere about it, though. Often the person or project is a good one, but it’s just not right for you, at least not at this time. Simply say so — you can compliment the idea, the project, the person, the organization … but say that it’s not the right fit, or it’s not what you’re looking for at this time. Only say this if it’s true — people can sense insincerity.

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