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Signs That You’ve Met the Unicorn Girl but You Don’t Even Know It

Signs That You’ve Met the Unicorn Girl but You Don’t Even Know It

Ever heard somebody talking about the mystical unicorn girl? Ever wonder what that means? Well, a unicorn girl is that perfect someone who always seems to be just out of reach, out of your league, and unattainable. In short, she is your soulmate and you should stop at nothing to have her in your life.

Because your unicorn girl is only yours, she is unique. Her uniqueness means that her specific traits cannot be listed, she cannot be defined. Remember, a unicorn girl is no cookie-cutter replica of anyone else. Everyone has his or her own unicorn girl or boy and it can be hard to track them down.

For all you know, you’ve already met your unicorn girl. Not sure? Keep reading. We’re going to lay out some of the signs that you may have already met your special someone and you just don’t realize it yet.

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Trust us, you don’t want to go through your whole life wondering if you missed out on the opportunity to be with the perfect life partner. Can you imagine marrying the wrong person because you didn’t know how to spot your unicorn girl when she was right before your eyes? Don’t let that happen to you. Don’t let your life become full of “what could have been” doubts.

Signs You’ve Already Met the Unicorn Girl

Start thinking about some of your current relationships as you read over the signs. Anybody stick out to you?

1. The two of you can sit comfortably in silence.

You don’t feel the need to fill those awkward silences because there aren’t any. You are comfortable in each other’s company and that is all that matters.

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2. You don’t feel pressured to impress your unicorn girl.

You are who you are and that includes your weaknesses. Your unicorn girl makes you feel comfortable enough to open up and share even the truths you have always tried to hard to hide from everyone else.

3. You can laugh at each other, at your jokes, and at the silly things you do.

Your unicorn girl makes you laugh even when you’re feeling down.

4. When the two of you argue or have a difference of opinion, you can let it go.

You know which things are important and which things aren’t worth dwelling on. Maybe your unicorn girl doesn’t like it when you leave the dirty dishes on the counter, but she’d rather enjoy the evening with you than make a big deal about it.

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5. Your unicorn girl listens to you carefully.

She listens to you when you ramble on about random things, like your favorite candy. The next time you see her for movie night or a study session, she brings the candy she knows you love.

6. You smile more often because of your unicorn girl.

Having a bad day? Suddenly doesn’t seem so bad when you see her, right? When something happens to you, good or bad, she’s the first person you want to tell.

7. Your unicorn girl wants to know how you feel.

She doesn’t just ask to make small talk. Nope. She actually cares about your day, about your opinion on different topics, and about your general feelings and thoughts. And you like to tell her how you feel and, of course, you like to know about her thoughts and feelings as well.

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8. She’s met your friends and she’s nice to them.

All of them. Even the ones who interrupt every 3 words and chew with their mouth open. She tries to get to know them and she does it for you.

9. Your unicorn girl helps you be a better version of yourself.

She pushes you to the limit without trying to add stress to your day. That’s because she sees you for who you really are and knows what you’re capable of doing.

10. You think of her every waking second.

You wonder how she slept, if she’s having a good day, if she stopped for her favorite coffee in the morning, and if she’s going to text you during lunch hour. Not a moment goes by that your unicorn girl isn’t on your mind.

Any of these sound familiar? If so, you’re one of the luckiest people in the world. Don’t let that unicorn girl slip away.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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