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How to Not Overstay In Your Current Job

How to Not Overstay In Your Current Job

Your current job may be the best in the world, or so it seems to you. Nevertheless, after some time many jobs become redundant and too predictable. Without challenges, your intellectual growth stalls, which is not at all desirable. That said, it is important that you know when to move on before you get too comfortable in your current job. This post will talk about that.

Read the signs

Do you feel no motivation at all to go to work? Have you experienced a increasing frustration when sitting to do office work? Do you feel there is no value attached to what you do? These may be the first signs that you should start thinking about letting go of your current employment and moving on to a new one.

However, only employees who do self-introspection and continuous self-assessment are able to tell when their job stops aligning with their long-term goals. If these two are not aligned, it’s either time to talk to your manager, or simply make the switch.

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Employees who do not reflect on a regular basis in which direction their career is going are at risk of running out of steam, feeling tired and leaving very soon. These professionals do not even realize that they are unhappy about their work until either someone points it out to them or they face an unpleasant incident at work.

Even when they do recognize the futility of their stay at their current workplace, they find it hard to make the change. They will either simply gripe about the whole situation or pretend nothing is wrong at all. That is a grueling situation to be in.

 How to move on

Moving on in life is the hardest thing to do, whether it is in relationships or in jobs. In the professional arena particularly, it is tough to say goodbye to people you have known for a long time and an environment you have become comfortable in. So how do you go about achieving this tough objective?

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Start preparing for war

Preparation is the key to feeling confident and positive in life. The more prepared you are the better you will feel about yourself. Those who constantly upgrade themselves with the latest skills feel less threatened and insecure when it comes to changing jobs. They know that they are always at the top of their game and this boosts their confidence.

If you have made up your mind about finding a new job for yourself, do not waste a single moment.  From the time you make up your mind till the time you find a new job, every moment should be spent wisely towards the pursuit of this objective.

Prepare as if you have to fight a war, for once you start giving to interviews you will find yourself in a battlefield with recruiters shooting questions from all around. Read as much as you can, gain new skills, and find voluntary work to practice those skills. Attend industry seminars, network with professionals outside your company and spread the word to them that you are looking.

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Do not negotiate

Once your manager gets the hint that you are looking, he will try to negotiate with you. He/she might suddenly realize your importance to the company, to the team and to him/her as an individual.

If you are really fed up at your current office, even a pay raise cannot help you regain that enthusiasm for long. Therefore, if you start negotiating with the manager your terms needed to stay, most likely you will be setting up yourself for a trap—staying longer at a job you don’t love. It’s alright to be firm while rejecting negotiating. Your biggest responsibility is yourself, and everybody, even your manager knows it.

Make the jump but don’t burn bridges

All said and done, once you get selected for a job at a different company, it’s time to take a pause and revel in the success of your hard work. You had been waiting for this moment for a long time.

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As you finally leave the current job for a new one, it’s time to say goodbye to your current employer, manager and teammates on good terms. However, always remember to never burn bridges with your now former employer as this will not reflect well on you as a person or as an employee. The world is a small place and you never know where and under what circumstances you might bump into your former manager or boss.

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Last Updated on August 20, 2018

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Do you know that feeling? The one where you have to wake up to go to your boring 9-5 job to work with the same boring colleagues who don’t appreciate what you do.

I do, and that’s why I’ve decided to quit my job and follow my passion. This, however, requires a solid plan and some guts.

The one who perseveres doesn’t always win. Sometimes life has more to offer when you quit your current job. Yes, I know. It’s overwhelming and scary.

People who quit are often seen as ‘losers’. They say: “You should finish what you’ve started”.

I know like no other that quitting your job can be very stressful. A dozen questions come up when you’re thinking about quitting your job, most starting with: What if?

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“What if I don’t find a job I love and regret quitting my current job?”
“What if I can’t find another job and I get in debt because I can’t pay my bills?”
“What if my family and friends judge me and disapprove of the decisions I make?”
“What if I quit my job to pursue my dream, but I fail?

After all, if you admit to the truth of your surroundings, you’re forced to acknowledge that you’ve made a wrong decision by choosing your current job. But don’t forget that quitting certain things in life can be the path to your success!

One of my favorite quotes by Henry Ford:

If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.

Everything takes energy

Everything you do in life takes energy. It takes energy to participate in your weekly activities. It takes energy to commute to work every day. It takes energy to organize your sister’s big wedding.

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Each of the responsibilities we have take a little bit of our energy. We only have a certain amount of energy a day, so we have to spend it wisely.  Same goes for our time. The only things we can’t buy in this world are time and energy. Yes, you could buy an energy drink, but will it feel the same as eight hours of sleep? Will it be as healthy?

The more stress there is in your life, the less focus you have. This will weaken your results.

Find something that is worth doing

Do you have to quit every time the going gets touch? Absolutely not! You should quit when you’ve put everything you’ve got into something, but don’t see a bright future in it.

When you do something you love and that has purpose in your life, you should push through and give everything you have.

I find star athletes very inspiring. They don’t quit till they step on that stage to receive their hard earned gold medal. From the start, they know how much work its going to take and what they have to sacrifice.

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When you do something you’re really passionate about, you’re not in a downward spiral. Before you even start you can already see the finish line. The more focus you have for something, the faster you’ll reach the finish.

It is definitely possible to spend your valuable time on something you love and earn money doing it. You just have to find out how — by doing enough research.

Other excuses I often hear are:

“But I have my wife and kids, who is going to pay the bills?”
“I don’t have time for that, I’m too busy with… stuff” (Like watching TV for 2 hours every day.)
“At least I get the same paycheck every month if I work for a boss.”
“Quitting my job is too much risk with this crisis.”

I understand those points. But if you’ve never tried it, you’ll never know how it could be. The fear of failure keeps people from stepping out of their comfort zone.

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I’ve heard many people say, “I work to let my children make their dream come true”. I think they should rephrase that sentence to: “I pursue my dreams — to inspire and show my children anything is possible.” 

Conclusion

Think carefully about what you spend your time on. Don’t waste it on things that don’t brighten your future. Instead, search for opportunities. And come up with a solid plan before you take any impulsive actions.

Only good things happen outside of your comfort zone.

Do you dare to quit your job for more success in life?

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