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The Best Eating and Exercise Plan for You

The Best Eating and Exercise Plan for You

Recently I’ve gotten a lot of comments from people who disagree with me on what eating and exercise plan is best for them. The reason they disagree is often that they have done something that worked for them that is the complete opposite of what I’m saying. Now you might think that all this would break my spirit, make me crouch into the fetal position, and cry but it doesn’t. That’s because I also get a ton of comments and emails from people who are getting success by following my advice. How can this be? Well, there’s a simple explanation: “We’re all different.” What works well for some individuals may not work for others, and there are many factors that come into play here.

A common trap that all health enthusiasts (even professionals) can fall into is neglecting to mention that their advice may not apply to everyone. I’m a fan of a low carb and real food based diet. I don’t recommend calorie counting, and I am personally against low-fat, vegan, and meal replacement diets. I have a lot of evidence to support my point of view, but evidence isn’t everything, because there are many people who are doing these different things with incredible success.

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While I like a low carb diet, still we are all different and what works for one person may not work for the next. The fact is that most diet plans work if you follow them. That’s the real trick because most diet plans are very difficult to follow.

Low-carb is probably one of the easiest to follow because it reduces hunger which has been confirmed in randomized clinical trials. Randomized controlled trials are the gold standard in the public health and medical science community. However, for some individuals something vastly different might be optimal.

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Alternative Plans that work Extremely well for Some People

There are vegans who do pretty much the opposite of what I preach. I honestly think that this is not a sensible way of life, and that they must be careful to take the right supplements and read some books by vegan doctors, but there are many individuals who do incredibly well on vegan diets.

A lot of people have had success with calorie counting. Somehow they can consciously eat less and less food all the time and lose weight in the long term. These people often claim that this is the right approach for everyone which I wholeheartedly disagree with, but it works for them.

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Then there are meal replacement diets. There are many of these. It is something that I would never recommend, but there are many people who follow them and do great. I am not going to tell these people to stop doing what is working well for them.

If you find something that works for you, do it!  That’s my motto – or at least one of my mottos. I think everyone needs to find a way to eat healthy and exercise that fits with their lifestyle and cultural setting, and that is sustainable for them in the long term.

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Final Words

I think it’s important for anyone who is reading about health and nutrition online to put things into perspective. Ask yourself the following questions: “What kind of website is this?” “Does this apply to my situation?” “Is this suitable for my lifestyle?”

Everyone is unique. Our body types are different; we do varying amounts of exercise; we have different kinds of jobs; we are from different cultures. The best diet plan for you, is the one you can follow and which fits into your lifestyle.

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Last Updated on February 15, 2019

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

Why is goal setting important?

1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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What you truly want and need

Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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