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Why People Who Create Bucket Lists Achieve More In Life

Why People Who Create Bucket Lists Achieve More In Life

No matter who you are, there is probably something you really really want. Some experience, achievement, or monumental moment that has eluded you up until now.

Your dreams can be converted to reality and a bucket list is one of the ways to help you achieve whatever it is you’ve always wanted. A bucket list is an incredible mental tool to keep your dreams alive as achievements are far more likely.

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Having a vision for your life is perhaps the greatest tool that you can utilize in order to get what you want. What you give is a little bit of your time, what you receive is something extraordinary. Even before you get to live out your dream that you’ve set on your bucket list, your life will change. You’ll be working towards a goal and knowing that it will happen, which brings new excitement and vigor every day. So what are you waiting for?

How A Bucket List Changes The Way You Think

The moment you put your pencil to paper or start typing what you want to achieve, you’re already changing the way you think. You are mentally putting your intentions out there. Chances are, you’ll start to feel excited about the possibility of having or experiencing things you’ve always wanted.

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Knowing what you want and writing it down is the catalyst for great things to come. It will begin to pop into your head at random times of the day as you envision your bucket list and all the dreams that it holds. If you put the list somewhere that you will see it every day, it’s a daily reminder of something great to come.

The bucket list itself embodies what psychologists have learned when it comes to setting goals. Goals motivate you to accomplish things, and a bucket list asks you to be specific about what you want. Psychologists say that being specific about your goals makes you more motivated. A bucket list can be considered to be the critical first step in achieving goals.

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Short Term And Long Term Bucket List Goals

To test out how a bucket list can help you achieve things in life, you may want to start small. When you add small things to your list and see them come to fruition, you become even more inspired. Your belief in the positive effect of your bucket list is huge for achieving those bigger aspirations.

For example, couples that start a bucket list together might create their ideal monthly “super date.” Maybe their date is a romantic dinner at an expensive restaurant or maybe it’s skydiving for two. It brings them closer as they figure out what they would love to do. They start saving or invite friends and family to contribute to their bucket list dream. Sites specifically designed for bucket list experiences make it possible for loved ones to contribute to one’s true passions in life. Experiences you thought weren’t possible because they’re costly are easier than you may think. If your family and friends knew what you had on your bucket list, they could contribute to your dreams on your birthday or at Christmas.

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Developing Your Bucket List

Your bucket list should make life exciting even before you get to live out your dreams. If you know what you want and write it down, you’re a quarter of the way there. If you make it a habit to look at the list and take action with small steps, you have one foot in the door already. If you’re not sure where to start, do an internet search for bucket list tools. Don’t forget that a bucket list is just the beginning when it comes to reaching your goals. Taking action to reach your accomplishments is the second half of your journey.

  • Find a medium to start your bucket list. An online facility or a small pocket book allows you to jot down your dreams as they arise.
  • Really think about what you want. Where do you want to travel? What have you always wanted to see? What monumental thing have you always wanted to accomplish?
  • When you’re building your list, don’t think about what would impress others. This is a common mistake people make while creating their bucket lists. What makes you feel excited? What are you really passionate about? These dreams are yours and the catalog of choice is endless.
  • There are a variety of tools online to assist you, such as various apps and websites. Some platforms allow you to post your bucket list for the public so you can get support from others.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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