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Girl With Cancer Sends A Powerful Message That Redefines Beauty

Girl With Cancer Sends A Powerful Message That Redefines Beauty

Within the plethora of Instagram flawless beauties that make ordinary young girls feel even more insecure about their looks, a new kind of princess is taking the world by a storm, not just with her looks, giving us a lesson on beauty — and life for that matter. Her name is Andrea Sierra Salazar and she is a 17-year-old high school student from Texas, a model, and a cancer patient. None of these things defines her as a person. Why? Because she decided so.

The struggle

The diagnosis of stage 2 nodular sclerosis Hodgkin lymphoma came suddenly, causing Andrea’s life to take another turn. With a great support system and encouragement from her mum, Andrea has managed to regain her confidence and continue to pursue a modelling hobby with a fresh perspective on what constitutes beauty.

For centuries, long and full hair has been one of the never-changing symbols of female beauty, causing those not blessed with it to suffer from feeling not good enough and to undergo all sorts of ridiculous treatments in order to reach this must-have standard. Ironically enough, more than serving as a tool for self-acceptance, hair (the longer the better) has been used by young girls as a hideaway of a sort, from the harsh looks and judgment of a false-beauty-standard society.

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And just when you start thinking that the world has gone too far, idealizing impossible-to-reach norms of beauty and causing the majority of young girls start blindly conforming to it, a truly inspiring and beautiful soul comes to the forefront to make us question it all.

a cancer girl redefines beauty

    The defining moment

    The self-realization moment didn’t happen overnight for Andrea. Hair loss affected her confidence greatly, yet she managed to smooth the transition with playful wigs that accompanied each styling and look.

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    “When my hair started to fall out I would look in the mirror and I wouldn’t feel that confident about myself,” Andrea said.

    Luckily for all the young girls out there, being cancer patients or not, Andrea has gradually learned one of the most important life truths that “It’s not only about my outside beauty, it’s about the inside.”

    Her photoshoot without a wig went viral as it revealed something more than just Andrea’s amazing physical beauty — it showed the exceptional magnificence of a human soul to show bravery in not withholding its vulnerability, and that’s where the true beauty begins.

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    a girl with cancer sent a powerful message that redefines beauty

      A new kind of princess

      The reason that this story continues to touch so many hearts all around the world is because it conveys such a powerful message about turning something as ugly as cancer into something as wonderful as helping others to accept and love themselves no matter what. It started as a mission to empower other cancer patients at the hospital she was at to regain their confidence, to now reaching millions of people and truly redefining beautiful.

      “I want them to know that your hair or your physical attributes doesn’t define who you are – what really matters is your inner beauty, the way you treat others, and if you’re a kind person, that shows through.”

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      The powerful message this girl sends goes far beyond redefining the standards of beauty. It speaks of the ability of the soul to transcend all physical obstacles and shine through illusory appearance. She teaches us to not give up on our dreams even when times get rough. A true princess of today, Andrea inspires our looks-obsessed society to look for beauty beyond the exterior, and her story will surely make you think twice the next time you allow your bad hair day to get you down.

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      Last Updated on December 2, 2018

      7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

      7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

      When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

      You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

      1. Connecting them with each other

      Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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      It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

      2. Connect with their emotions

      Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

      For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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      3. Keep going back to the beginning

      Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

      On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

      4. Link to your audience’s motivation

      After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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      Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

      5. Entertain them

      While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

      Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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      6. Appeal to loyalty

      Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

      In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

      7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

      Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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