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The Most Valuable Asset In Our Lives That Most People Overlook

The Most Valuable Asset In Our Lives That Most People Overlook

How closely have you been looking at your own health? Human beings have an innate ability to tell themselves little white lies, to listen to the noise inside their minds rather than the quieter voice deep within. We choose not to listen when we have our fourth or fifth beer. We look away from our waistlines when ordering fast food.

But what is the cost of overlooking our health? And to what degree should we really be treating our bodies as temples if we also want to have fun? What we are missing is the understanding of how good we feel when our health is in order, and how much it resonates with every single aspect of our lives. When we feel good, we look good. When our inner health is in alignment, our minds are healthy too. We are open to the positives in life, and we are ready for the challenges.

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When we are young, it is all too easy to feel invincible and to think that we will always be free of care when it comes to our health. But those who are smart will pay attention to their bodies and reap the benefits in later years.

You get out what you put in

Chinese herbalist Chung Lin once said that we shouldn’t treat the things we ingest as “good” or “bad,” merely as “strong” or “weak.” Things such as alcohol or fatty foods are considered strong, so we should only have a little. Fruit and veg are considered weak, so we can consume more.

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The lack of processed food, chemicals, pollution, and other environmental factors was sufficiently lower some decades ago. When humans had less exposure to these things, it mattered less that they smoked or drank. The food was what we now call organic and the air was cleaner. In general, even if a person did smoke, it was not adding to an already-polluted system.

Nowadays, there are so many preservatives and chemicals in everything that we have to actively search to lead an organic and unprocessed existence. Body types vary and some people can tolerate much more abuse to their system than others. Some people have healthier organs to begin with. Yet on a whole, the person who realises early that they need to take care of their body and be conscious of what goes into it is the person who will get the most out of life.

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Rock Stars vs Health Stars

“Live fast, die young,” was the motto — is the motto — of many young stars. Youth is wasted on the young, so they say. So who are some good examples of people who have seen the error of their ways, perhaps in the nick of time?

Movie star and singer Jennifer Hudson lost 80 pounds after joining Weight Watchers and dramatically reducing her food intake. “I throw the pancakes across the room!” she confessed to Yahoo! Style, regarding her way of approaching things that aren’t good for her. “I don’t let the food intimidate me. If it’s too much, I just get rid of it, but I make sure to watch what I put in my body.”

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Singer Lana Del Rey was an alcoholic at the age of 14 but managed to clean up her act and become sober by the age of 18, enabling a maturity beyond her years and a successful career that has persisted into her 30s. “I was a big drinker at the time,” says Del Rey. “I would drink every day. I would drink alone. I thought the whole concept was so fucking cool. A great deal of what I wrote on ‘Born To Die’ is about these wilderness years.”

Nutrition is a form of education, and we should always be encouraged to listen to our bodies and what they are telling us. Living fast and dying young may seem glamorous in the throes of youth, but it’s those who understand what’s important and prioritize health that get the most out of life in the end.

Helpful Tips!

  • Try to eat fruit and vegetables with every meal, or try mostly veg on your plate.
  • Learn about nutrients and what foods are good for you.
  • Exercise a little bit every day.
  • Find things that make you laugh.
  • Exercise positivity — be mindful of negative thoughts.
  • Keep “strong” foods to a minimum.
  • Find your healthy balance between what you love to do and what is good for you.
  • Listen to your body and what makes it feel good!

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Last Updated on December 2, 2019

10 Powerful Ways to Stop Worrying and Start Living Today

10 Powerful Ways to Stop Worrying and Start Living Today

Plato knew that the body and mind are intimately linked. And in the late 1800s, the Mayo brothers, famous physicians, estimated that over half of all hospital beds are filled with people suffering from frustration, anxiety, worry and despair. Causes of worry are everywhere, in our relationships and our jobs, so it’s key we find ways to take charge of the stress.

In his classic book How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, Dale Carnegie offers tools to ditch excessive worrying that help you make a worry-free environment for your private and professional life.

These are the top 10 tips to grab worry by the horns and wrestle it to the ground:

1. Make Your Decision and Never Look Back

Have you ever made a decision in life only to second-guess it afterwards? Of course you have! It’s hard not to wonder whether you’ve done the right thing and whether there might still be time to take another path.

But keep this in mind: you’ve already made your decision, so act decisively on it and dismiss all your anxiety about it.

Don’t stop to hesitate, to reconsider, or to retrace your steps. Once you’ve chosen a course of action, stick to it and never waver.

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2. Live for Today, Package Things up in “Day-Tight Compartments”

You know that feeling: tossing, turning and worrying over something that happened or something that might, well into the wee hours. To avoid this pointless worrying, you need “day-tight compartments”. Much as a ship has different watertight compartments, your own “day-tight” ones are a way to limit your attention to the present day.

The rule is simple: whatever happened in the past or might happen in the future must not intrude upon today. Everything else has to wait its turn for tomorrow’s box or stay stuck in the past.

3. Embrace the Worst-Case Scenario and Strategize to Offset It

If you’re worried about something, ask yourself: “What’s the worst thing that could happen?” Could you lose your job? Be jailed? Get killed?

Whatever the “worst” might be, it’s probably not so world-ending. You could probably even bounce back from it!

If, for example, you lose your job, you could always find another. Once you accept the worst-case scenario and get thinking about contingency plans, you’ll feel calmer.

4. Put a Lid on Your Worrying

Sometimes we stress endlessly about negative experiences when just walking away from them would serve us far better.

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To make squashing that worry easier, try this strategy, straight from stock traders: it’s called the “stop-loss” order, where shares are bought at a certain price, and then their price development is observed. If things go badly and the share price hits a certain point, they are sold off immediately. This stops the loss from increasing further.

In the same manner, you can put a stop-loss order on things that cause you stress and grief.

5. Fake It ‘Til You Make It – Happiness, That Is

We can’t directly influence how we feel, but we can nudge ourselves to change through how we think and act.

If you’re feeling sad or low, slap a big grin on your face and whistle a chipper tune. You’ll find it impossible to be blue when acting cheerful. But you don’t necessarily need to act outwardly happy; you can simply think happier thoughts instead.

Marcus Aurelius summed it up aptly:

“Our life is what our thoughts make it.”

6. Give for the Joy of Giving

When we perform acts of kindness, we often do so with the expectation of gratitude. But harboring such expectations will probably leave you disappointed.

One person well aware of this fact was the lawyer Samuel Leibowitz. Over the course of his career, Leibowitz saved 78 people from going to the electric chair. Guess how many thanked him? None.

So stop expecting gratitude when you’re kind to someone. Instead, take joy from the act yourself.

7. Dump Envy – Enjoy Being Uniquely You

Your genes are completely unique. Even if someone had the same parents as you, the likelihood of someone identical to you being born is just one in 300,000 billion.

Despite this amazing fact, many of us long to be someone else, thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. But living your life this way is pointless. Embrace your uniqueness and get comfortable with who you really are: How to Be True to Yourself and Live the Life You Want

8. Haters Will Hate — It Just Means You’re Doing It Right

When you’re criticized, it often means you’re accomplishing something noteworthy. In fact, let’s take it a step further and consider this: the more you’re criticized, the more influential and important a person you likely are.

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So the next time somebody talks you down, don’t let it get to you. Take it as a compliment!

9. Chill Out! Learn to Rest Before You Get Tired

Scientists agree that emotions are the most common cause of fatigue. And it works the other way around, too: fatigue produces more worries and negative emotions.

It should be clear, therefore, that you’ve got to relax regularly before you feel tired. Otherwise, worries and fatigue will accumulate on top of each other.

It’s impossible to worry when you are relaxed, and regular rest helps you maintain your ability to work effectively.

10. Get Organized and Enjoy Your Work

There are few greater sources of misery in life than having to work, day in, day out, in a job you despise. It would make sense then that you shouldn’t pick a job you hate, or even just dislike doing.

But say you already have a job. How can you make it more enjoyable and worry-free? One way is to stay organized: a desk full of unanswered mails and memos is sure to breed worries.

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Better yet, rethink about the job you’re doing: What to Do When You Hate Your Job but Want a Successful Career

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