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The Multifaceted Benefits of Keeping a Mindfulness Journal

The Multifaceted Benefits of Keeping a Mindfulness Journal

We’ve been hearing more and more about the importance of mindfulness from mental health experts and spiritual guides around the world. From Western psychologists to Eastern monks, the benefits of practicing mindfulness have been touted as revolutionary. But when it comes to the specifics, many people still don’t understand mindfulness or how it can be practiced on a daily basis. Thus the introduction of a mindfulness journal is the perfect way to bring this concept down to earth.

Catharsis

Why are so many writers in love with their craft? It turns out, writing is not just useful in certain circles, but for anyone who adopts the habit. Dr. James Pennebaker, a researcher, and author of Writing to Heal, found that writing has a tremendous healing component that most people are unaware of. By writing about traumatic and emotional experiences, humans are better able to organize fragmented memories, accept the past, and release negative thoughts. Thus, keeping a mindfulness journal can serve as a cathartic practice of releasing the emotional baggage of the day.

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Gratitude

Another positive outcome of keeping a mindfulness journal is that you can recount the good things instead of taking them for granted. Especially for those with busy and hectic lives, it can be extremely difficult to truly absorb and celebrate the positive aspects of life. We have several positive experiences on a daily basis, yet most of them are forgotten immediately. Researchers have found that writing about what you’re grateful for is linked to better sleep, lower anxiety levels, and even higher satisfaction in romantic relationships.

Decision-making

Poet and activist Kelly Harris once said, “I truly believe we don’t know how we feel until we write it down.” While she probably did not research this topic, her findings have been matched by the researchers at the University of Michigan. They found that writing out various options helped people explore alternatives they otherwise may not have considered. They also found that those who wrote to make their decisions were less biased and more confident that they’d made the right choice. So if you are looking for clarity and assurance, writing about tough decisions can help you draw conclusions.

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Rewiring

Perhaps the most impressive benefit of keeping a mindfulness journal is its ability to influence your brain. Studies have found literal differences in the brains of those who meditate and those who don’t. Because writing and other artistic activities can put you in a meditative or “theta” brainwave state, journaling can help rewire your brain. A calmer brain means less reactivity when placed in stressful situations, and an improved ability to make good decisions under pressure. You may not even notice these subtle benefits over time. However, others are likely to notice a calmer, more balanced version of you, as you navigate through your day.

Keeping Track

We all have goals. Unfortunately, attaining them is not always what is happening in the real world. Procrastination and a general uncertainty about how to get started keep many people from making progress. Instead of occasionally thinking about your goals as if they are distant pipe dreams, you can keep track of them very closely through journaling. Journaling allows you to make your goals a part of your everyday life, bringing small steps into your reality. After consciously thinking and writing about your goals each day for a year, you may find that you’ve learned, changed, and accomplished many of the tasks that will get you there. Without a journal, working towards goals may remain a muddled and intangible process.

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Assigning Meaning

“What happens to us is not as important as the meaning we assign to it,” says mentor, Michael Hyatt. Oftentimes, we’re not even aware of why we have certain feelings or experiences throughout the day. You might feel overwhelmed, depressed, or angry as a default response to your environment. It may seem that these recurring feelings arise from small nuisances, like a task at work or a friend making a comment. But recurring feelings always come from a deeper belief, otherwise, you would not experience those small nuisances in such a negative way. Journaling helps you unearth what certain events and situations really mean to you. You may find that these interpretations are extremely subjective and not always accurate, making your negative feelings entirely unnecessary.

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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