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Small Steps to Success

Small Steps to Success

Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself.

Well, there is a big reason why this quotation is on the top. As you probably have guessed, that there is NO SHORTCUT for success, if you want to become a great person or to achieve success or to be a shining star or to become a diamond in the world full of rocks…and so on and so forth.

Wait a minute, these things seem IMPOSSIBLE, and if you want to achieve the impossible, then you have to do the impossible.

A True Story

Let me tell you a story of two good friends. They both grew up in quite normal and ordinary circumstances. Both were not very much privileged. Both went out to search for a job and faced disappointment over and over again.

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One person misunderstood the situation completely, thinking that there are no jobs out there so he just gave up. Then in this moment of desperation, he started to spend his time in the solitude, being cut off from the world and started talking to his other negative friends. So with the passage of time, he became depressed, bitter, and angry with others. His relations were being crippling apart, his soul was now tormented.

His friend, this other guy who kept looking for the job, applied in every institution possible, hoping that there’s a way, hoping that somewhere out there there’s an opportunity waiting for me.

“All I have to do is keep looking.”

But soon he realized that he was making no progress, so he came to an institution and said, “If you can’t hire me then be it, I know you can use my talents. Just allow me to work in your office, don’t give me anything. I just want to be busy.”

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Sometime later, a top manager quit. Guess who they selected for the position: this other guy.

Difference Between THE OUTSIDE and THE INSIDE World

Now what was the difference between the two guys, THE OUTSIDE and THE INSIDE.

THE OUTSIDE was telling them that there is nothing for them in the world, but THE INSIDE, their believes mattered. One person quit and the other one kept working, he kept moving forward forward. Because he believed:

“There is no such thing as a painless lesson. They just don’t exist. Sacrifices are necessary. You can’t gain anything without losing something first although if you can endure that pain and walk away from it, you’ll find that you now have a heart, strong enough to overcome any obstacle.”

Now all of us are like either of these two person. Successful people do simple things that make them so great. All they do is simple, they KEEP MOVING FORWARD no matter how hard THE OUTSIDE world is.

We all have great inner power. The power is self-faith. There is really an attitude to winning. You have to see yourself winning before you win. And you have to be hungry, you have to want to conquer.” — ARNOLD

After reading this, we are now very pumped up and motivated, we believe we can do anything. But what will happen after an hour or a day or a week? You will run out of this motivation, your fuel for life will be empty. So what will you do then?

The answer to this question is quite simple:

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“If you want to achieve greatness then you must first know what greatness is. Greatness is just a lot of small things that done well. If you want to achieve this, then you have to start simple, because the simple the better.”

No matter what happens in your life: don’t give up, don’t give in. There is always an answer to everything. Just take small steps on your way to success.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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