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4 Ways To Spend Quality Time With Your Friends

4 Ways To Spend Quality Time With Your Friends

As we grow up, our world changes. We become too busy to allocate time for our friends as our responsibilities begin to pile up. Our best friends become our distant friends and our distant friends become a faint memory. Life moves on while our memories of our friends begin to fade away.

Reminiscing becomes painful. However, there’s a way to avoid the pain in this scenario. Quality time with your mates will keep your friendships as solid as the Sex and The City foursome. A once-in-a blue-moon gathering could put a wide smile on everyone’s faces.

Make time for a day where responsibilities are less relevant than friendship. Have some group fun and maintain your friendships throughout the years. Here are a few ways to spend some quality time with your friends group.

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1. Catch up on your favourite TV series together

This is one of the activities my friends and I use to stick together through our busy lives. Initially, this practice started with Sex and the City episodes. We used to gather with hot chocolate (these days we prefer wine), and watch the latest episode together. We would indulge in our weekly gossip and chat together about everything that happened since we were last together.

These days, as we’ve all started travelling and moving to different countries, we keep our dates on Skype. Game of Thrones is our new Sex and the City. We pick a time and avoid spoilers so that we can watch that one-hour episode together. It brings us back to our childhood and has kept our friendships going strong until this very day.

2. Plan vacations together

No matter if your best friends were people you met in college, at work, or during your school days, keeping each other updated keeps the friendship growing. This is what keeps your bonds strong over time. However, it can be tough to maintain these updates when you get caught up in daily life.

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The next time you’re looking forward to a break, planning a trip with your old friends will give you the chance to bond and give you a well-deserved break. The best way is to plan a trip in nature or to a country that you’ve never visited. You will have an adventure together and an amazing story to remember.

3. Remember birthdays  

Have you been in the situation where you forget the most important days, most of them usually being birthdays? Some of us would be lost without our Facebook reminders. For many, birthdays are full of expectations. Simple wishes and calls can brings tears to one’s eyes.

Therefore, take up the habit of writing or programming birthdays in your calendar. Note the dates of the birthdays as well as keep track of them through your mobile phone or Google calendars. This will help you make surprise calls or even small surprise gestures during friends’ birthdays. This will prove to them that they are very important in your life.

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4. Play sports together

A healthy body equals a healthy mind. Therefore, as we age, we must focus on our health. Workouts become an important part of our lives and keeping fit becomes a routine instead of an obligation. Why not include your friends? Playing sports with your friends could prove to be a great way to communicate and bond with them. In many ways, it can also boost your competitive spirit, motivating you to work harder and better.

Friendly competition is always the best way to keep your friends together. These activities could be either a game of golf or a 2-hour workout session in the gym. For some, it could be a nice relaxing day of yoga or dancing. It eventually becomes a weekly moment you look forward to and a chance to catch up and unwind while doing something productive.

If this list triggers you to pick up your phone or write an email to a long-lost friend, then don’t hesitate. You never know — yours might be the voice they need to hear today. It could be the start of something new and amazing.

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Featured photo credit: Ian Schneider via unsplash.com

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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