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7 Signs That You’re Making Your Children Narcissistic

7 Signs That You’re Making Your Children Narcissistic

Narcissism is defined as the excessive interest in oneself and one’s physical appearance. Vanity, self-love, self-admiration, self-absorption, self-obsession, conceit, self-centeredness. Many think that the number of narcissistic children in western civilization is rising. I have created this handy dandy list for you to reference and see if certain things you are doing on the parenting front could be contributing to your child becoming narcissistic. Using this list I was able to even find some points where I may be going slightly astray (and we know how perfect I am!) Without further ado here is my list of 7 signs that you’re making your child(ren) Narcissistic.

You lead your child to believe they are infallible.

This can be done by over praising. Putting your child on a pedestal is easy to do because you created them, but acknowledging faults is human. It’s a healthy thing to be able to see that everyone has weaknesses.

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You compare your child to other kids and tell them how they measure up.

Around age 7 or 8 kids start to compare themselves to others. It’s important that you aren’t putting undue pressure on them to be better then their peers at everything. Don’t compare to Mikey and tell them where he comes up short.

You view affection as something to be earned and therefore show little warmth.

This could be difficult to recognize in yourself I suppose, but if you are only hugging after a job well done or for specifics tasks completed. There is a difference in affection and appreciation versus making your child feel like they are better than others. You can love your child and think they hang the moon, but you don’t have to put down or take anything away from anyone else to do that.

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You model behaviors such as inability to hear criticism.

We all know that one adult who can’t bear to hear that they are wrong. That can’t take any type of reply to their ideas or opinions other than “yep,” Don’t be that adult. You are better than that, and your child needs you to be better than that.

You Excessively Brag and Make Excuses for Your Child

Can we be honest here? You should be proud of your kid. Your kid probably does something fantastic stuff that mine can’t do. However it’s ok too if your child messes up. In fact it’s better if they mess up while they are children, so they learn to handle that. If you make excuses for their behaviors instead of showing them how to deal with not being perfect- you are missing out a learning opportunity for the child. And as it turns out you may be raising a narcissist.

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You Speak Badly of Anyone That is “Different” in Front of Your Child

This one is trickier and trickier it seems. In a time when we are so enlightened it seems that everyone feels shamed for their views. There is a difference in pointing out how you disagree with a religion/belief system and trying to prove you are superior to it. Expressing superiority in regards to age/race/gender/sexual preference – gosh, just please don’t do that. Let’s be past that in this generation, okay?

You Recognize Narcissistic Traits in Yourself and Don’t Take Steps To Get Better

There is a hereditary component to narcissism. There are personality traits that is a person is born with. However if you feel like you have some traits that fall into the Narcissistic column and you don’t get some help before having a kid… it may be time to re-evaluate now. Some day when you are in the old folks’ home and your grown-up child is too wrapped up in him/herself to visit you, you will possibly regret not taking some time to work on these things now.

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If you are interested in more information on this that is less opinion and more scientific please go to this link to find what the Washington Post wrote about the subject. I found it extremely interesting and well written.

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Published on September 4, 2018

19 Youtube Children’s Videos That Will Help Make Your Kid Smarter

19 Youtube Children’s Videos That Will Help Make Your Kid Smarter

There’s no reason why education should be a bore for kids. Thanks to the wonders of YouTube, they can now find fun, informative, and important videos that can make them smarter one clip at a time.

Here are 19 Youtube children’s videos to send your kids off into an exciting world of new possibilities:

1. How big is the ocean? TED-Ed

TED’s educational channel is perfect for kids. With its fun animations and interesting topics, along with its accessible, means there are some big and complex topics reduced into understandable content. It makes learning fun!

2. All about nouns – Free School

Getting to grips with grammar can be hard work. Even authors, journalists, and academics can make elementary errors from time to time.

The earlier you start, the better, but these Free School videos teach the basics of grammar in vibrant fashion.

3. Bach’s Partita in E Major – Smalin

Stephen Malinsowki’s channel takes classical music into the 21st century. With his animated videos, the world’s most famous compositions get transformed into visual treats thanks to his efforts.

For more about his videos, check out 16 inspiring classic music videos.

4. First Circumnavigation of the Earth – Simple History

Here’s an epic history lesson – who were the first humans to circumnavigate the globe? It was Ferdinand Magellan (sort of), although this complex story of bravery and suffering is an incredible story to add to any child’s knowledge of world history.

The channel offers plenty more like this, too, and simplifies difficult topics.

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5. Can we “de-extinct” animals? – The Brain Scoop

The Brain Scoop channel takes a look at many creepy crawlies, plus big questions of our day. This includes whether we can, Jurassic Park style, bring back woolly mammoths and/or mastodons.

6. Otter cubs get a swimming lesson – BBC Earth

The BBC is famous for its wildlife documentaries. On BBC Earth’s YouTube channel, you’ll find a large amount of videos of the world’s animals at large.

Below are some otter cubs finding out how to swim – one of many educational videos about animals.

7. Elmo riding a tricycle – Sesame Street

It’s been around for decades, it’s affected many people across the world (even I used to watch it as a young one back in the late 1980s), and it’s on YouTube!

The channel has the sort of fun material you’d expect, with this video offering a welcome confidence boost for anyone about to learn how to ride a bike.

8. Jack Back Wants to See Your Weird – SoulPancake

Weird is wonderful. And Jack Black wants you to embrace your daft side.

The SoulPancake channel dares kids to think outside the box, as well as embrace their wacky side. Ideal for any young minds looking to unleash their inner creativity.

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9. Lisa Winter, Robot Builder – Amy Poehler’s Smart Girls

This is Amy Poehler’s channel that takes a look at inspirational women from around the world.

Here we have Lisa Winter, who builds robots. It’s a great channel if your daughter is looking to challenge herself, or find an exciting new hobby.

10. What happens if you eat mold? – SciShow

We’ve probably all thought about what happens if you eat mold. Now we know, thanks too the SciShow.

This channel takes a fun look at science and dares to answer some of the big questions of our world (as well as some of the smaller ones).

11. What’s the hottest hot and coldest cold? – It’s Okay To Be Smart

Any budding scientists will find this channel helpful. Here we have the answer to the hottest hot and the coldest cold, which anyone can use to enlighten those around them!

For kids, it’s physics made easy thanks to a fun channel that also uses some excellent animation.

12. iPhone in molten aluminium – The Backyard Scientist

This backyard scientist gets up to all manner of unusual experiments.

Here he’s doing the unthinkable – immersing an iPhone into molten aluminium. What do you think will happen?

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13. 3D pen wall art – Make Anything

A 3D printing and design channel! With this clip, kids can find some artistic inspiration.

A search through the rest of the channel will also be enough for any young mind to find a new project or two.

14. Mesopotamian ghostbusting with Irving Finkel – British Museum

Here’s a handy history lesson for inquisitive young minds. Learn about ancient Mesopotamia with Irving Finkel, a philologist and Assyriologist for the British Museum.

As this video from the museum’s official channel points out, Irv ain’t afraid of no ghost.

15. What Do We Do All Day?

This lovely little mini-science experiment will help your kids create an ocean in a bottle. I’m 33 and I want to make one of these things, so I should imagine any younger individual would be positively thrilled to make one of these.

What Do We Do All Day’s channel offers up many other gems such as this, too.

16. Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again – Kermode and Mayo

The BBC’s flagship film review show is an absolute joy – it has an army of fans across the world.

Asides from being funny and entertaining, film critics Dr. Mark Kermode’s impassioned reviews are educational and progressive.

Perfect listening for anyone getting to appreciate film criticism.

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17. Rare double asteroid revealed – NASA

NASA’s channel is full of other worldly wonders such as this rare double asteroid reveal. Along with its many live streams from the Earth’s orbit, it’s a fascinating and essential channel for any young mind to be following.

18. What has NASA’s Juno discovered around Jupiter? – Astrum

Astrum is a bit like NASA’s channel, but more detailed. It takes a close look at some of our planets, for instance, like with the ever-fascinating Jupiter.

If you have any budding astronauts in your family, this is another essential channel.

19. Best creative home hacks anyone can do – HooplaKidz

Last but not least, here we have some arts and crafts.

Would your kid like one of these cute cushions in your home? Would they also want to create it themselves?

Then this is the right video and channel for you. Find out the basics for some fun crafts and liven up your home with a few friendly new knickknacks.

There you go, 19 Youtube children’s videos that will help your kids learn new stuff in a fun way! Of course, with a bit of your guidance while watching these videos together, you’re having some really good quality time with your kids too!

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