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If You Have The Chill Friend, You’re Really Lucky

If You Have The Chill Friend, You’re Really Lucky

Do you have a super relaxed friend who you love to be around?

Do you find yourself regularly thinking about how chill and calm they are?

If this sounds like you, you are a very lucky person.

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If you have found a friend who brings peace and tranquillity to your life whenever you speak to them, let them know how much you appreciate them. If you have found a friend who dislikes drama and fighting, cherish them. If you have found a friend who you can always go to for advice, never let them go.

Your chill friend will change your perspective on life without you even realizing. They will show you no judgement, only love and positive emotions. They will be one of the best friends that you ever have – and here are 10 reasons why.

1. The chill friend doesn’t hold on to little things

It doesn’t matter if you had a disagreement the day before – your chill friend will never hold it against you. They understand that everyone disagrees sometimes, and the friendship is far too important to end over something so silly.

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2. The chill friend is non-judgemental

Often people are overly critical of themselves and others around them, but not your chill friend. They always try to see the best in other people, and they would never judge you for doing something that they disagree with.

3. The chill friend dislikes arguing

The chill friend hates petty arguing – if there is a problem, they will bring it up without any negative emotions. You much prefer the drama-free discussion to a childish fight.

4. The chill friend doesn’t care if there is a change of plans

Your chill friend is always happy to go with the flow – you never have to worry about annoying them with a change of plans.

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5. The chill friend gives you your space

They don’t probe you for extra details about your personal life if you don’t want to talk about it. The chill friend respects your boundaries, and they understand that your life and past isn’t their business. This doesn’t mean they aren’t involved in your life; if you ever needed to talk about something they would always be there to listen.

6. When you are stressed out, you seek advice from your chill friend

If you are having a hard day the first person you contact is your chill friend. They have a way of looking at the world that helps you to calm down and focus on the bigger picture.

7. The chill friend doesn’t like making people feel bad

The chill friend takes no pleasure in saying “I told you so.” They don’t like making people feel bad or upset, and they would much rather feel like they are equal to their friends.

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8. The chill friend never expects the relationship to be a certain way

The chill friend doesn’t have any expectations for your friendship (or you). They are happy to let the relationship happen naturally, without forcing certain things. They understand that the relationship is out of their hands, and the best thing to do is to just go with the flow.

9. The chill friend makes you feel more chilled, too

Spending time with your chill friend has helped you to become a more relaxed and positive person. Whenever you become upset, angry or stressed you think about your friend and it helps you to relax. After all, if they can live life with such a great attitude, why can’t you?

10. The chill friend can’t be replaced

You hope that your friendship with the chill friend will last for a very long time. They are there for you whenever you need them, and you always try to support and love them. You appreciate their presence in your life and you know that you are a better person for knowing them.

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Last Updated on July 15, 2019

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

Some things in life are hard to describe, yet we can recognize them when we see them.

Love is one of those things.

True love comes in many different forms, but here are some that many of us know well.

True love means supporting those who can’t support themselves

supportive couple

    A young man comforts his date in Times Square, New York City. Image by mbtrama

    strong hug

      A young man holds his significant other close to him. Image by Brad Fults

      running help

        A young track competitor helps one of her injured opponents over the finish line. Image from ViralNova.com

        feeding kitten

          A soldier in the Korean War takes time to feed a baby kitten. Image from US Naval Insititute

          It’s having the perfect selfie partner

          mom and daughter selfie

            A mother and her daughter take a selfie together. Image by Andrew Fysh

            girlfriends

              Two young girls pose for the camera. Image by Rolands Lakis

              selfies

                A happy couple takes a picture together. Image by Kayla Heineman

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                selfie

                  Two best friends take a selfie together. Image by Jason Wahido

                  dude selfie

                    Friends take a selfie together. Image by Glenn Scofield Williams

                    It’s all the warm fuzzies

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                      A young man spends time with his dog on a beach. Image by Magdalena Roeseler

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                        A pet owner hugs his dog while on a day trip in San Francisco. Image by Taro the Shiba Inu

                        It means having a friend to photobomb you

                        photobomb

                          A boy makes a funny face as he poses for a picture with his brother. Image by Michael Bentley

                          old man photobomb

                            A man photobombs his wife while their grandson snaps a picture. Image by Frank

                            family photobomb

                              Family members photobomb their relatives’ Thanksgiving day family photo. Image by Beth Scupham

                              boyfriend photobomb

                                A friend photobombs the photographer and their friend, the woman in the foreground of this photo. Image by Lachlan Hardy

                                True love means being there even when life gets unbearably hard

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                                shoulder to cry on

                                  A family watches the Vermont National Guard depart for Afghanistan. Image by The U.S. Army

                                  flood dog

                                    During a monsoon in the Philippines, a boy carries his dog to safety. Image by Romeo Ranoco

                                    A woman is rescued from flood waters by a resident standing on top of her car during heavy rain in Chalandri suburb north of Athens

                                      A man helps a woman out of her vehicle during a flood in Chalandri, Greece. Image by John Kolesidis

                                      lunch

                                        A woman has lunch with her husband every day, even after he’s passed away. Image from ViralNova.com

                                        hug

                                          A woman hugs the mother of 6-year-old Noah Ponzer, who was one of the victims of the Sandy Hook shootings. Image by Spencer Platt

                                          rubble

                                            An Oklahoma couple pauses while trying to salvage belongings from a family member’s home after a tornado. Image by Adrees Latif

                                            sister and brother

                                              A girl puts her arm around her little brother as they wait outside of Sandy Hook Elementary after gunshots are fired. Image by Reuters.

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                                                A woman sits at her husband’s grave the day before their wedding anniversary. Image from NBC news

                                                It means taking the time for long goodbyes

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                                                  A man says goodbye to his son before deploying. Image by Official U.S. Navy Page

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                                                  national guard goodbye

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                                                      And cherishing reunions

                                                      husband home

                                                        A woman hugs her husband as she sees him for the first time since his deployment to Iraq. Image by The U.S. Army

                                                        boyfriend home

                                                          A young  woman hugs her significant other as he returns home for Kuwait. Image by The National Guard

                                                          mother hug

                                                            A mother drops to her knees as she hugs her son on her return home from the Persian Gulf. Image by The National Guard

                                                            True love is letting yourself feel young when they’re around

                                                            elderly women

                                                              Two friends on their smartphones. Image by Robert Neff

                                                              feeling young

                                                                A young couple getting their picture taken. Image by db Photograph

                                                                sprinkler dad

                                                                  A father plays in a sprinkler with his daughter at Millennium Park in Chicago. Image by Ben Forsberg

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                                                                  subway couple

                                                                    A young couple on a subway enjoys sharing time together, while the girlfriend’s father sneaks a photo of them. Image by Gareth Williams

                                                                    wheelchairs

                                                                      A couple holds hands on a fall day. Image by David Amsler

                                                                      It’s letting yourself be silly… just because they’ll enjoy it

                                                                      silly faces

                                                                        A grandfather makes faces at the camera with his granddaughters. Image by Tim Pierce

                                                                        vote for pedro

                                                                          A woman’s father wears a Napoleon Dynamite t-shirt to make his daughter laugh. Image by emdot

                                                                          True love is allowing yourself to show how you really feel

                                                                          date night

                                                                            A young couple kisses in the back of a restaurant in Washington, D.C. Image by Derek Key

                                                                            playing violin

                                                                              Violinist Nancy Dinovo plays at a memorial service for the victims of 9/11. Image by Christopher Morris

                                                                              True love is timeless

                                                                              old friends

                                                                                Friends spending some time together. Image by Cristian Bortes

                                                                                sitting around a fire

                                                                                  A group of friends sits around a campfire eating. Image by New Old Stock

                                                                                  elderly couple

                                                                                    An elderly couple walks down a street together. Image by Matteo Paciotti

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