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15 Pictures Telling Why You Should Still Have Hope For Our World

15 Pictures Telling Why You Should Still Have Hope For Our World

We may easily lose hope for our world and even have weeped for humanity because of the bad news we hear every day or the unfairness we encounter. We may feel disappointed and want to be indifferent to what is happening around us.

But please stop diving into this pessimistic mindset for a while to take a look of the pictures below. The short stories shown in the pictures remind us that there are still many kind-hearted people in this world. It just depends on whether we are careful enough to recognize them.

If you feel touched by these stories and regain your hope for our world, take actions to carry out some good deeds like these unsung heroes. People around you are waiting to be inspired by you!

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                                Last Updated on October 14, 2020

                                Psychologists Say It’s Really Possible To Change Our Personality

                                Psychologists Say It’s Really Possible To Change Our Personality

                                Do you feel that you can become a better person, but your personality is hindering you from doing so?

                                Are you one of those people who is making a conscious effort to change, but no matter how hard you try, you remain a prisoner of your personality traits?

                                Don’t lose hope – it is indeed possible to change your personality!

                                Personality Crisis

                                According to the widely accepted model of personality with over 50 years worth of research and study, there are five dimensions of our personality, known as the “Big Five:”

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                                • Extraversion: People with high levels of this personality dimension are much more outgoing and tend to be more comfortable in social situations compared to others.
                                • Agreeableness: Your level in this dimension determines whether you are more cooperative with other people or competitive (even to the point of being manipulative) with other people.
                                • Conscientiousness: Thoughtful people who have high levels of this trait dimension are much more detail-oriented and driven.
                                • Neuroticism: Moodiness and the propensity for sadness are associated with people who possess excessive amounts of this personality dimension.
                                • Openness: Imaginative and insightful people are very receptive to change and new experiences, whereas those who are not are much more stubborn and reluctant to try out new things.

                                These personality dimensions are further shaped by our genetics and our upbringing, the latter of which also involves our living environment and culture. These factors ultimately help shape your personality as you grow up, some of which could lead to personality disorders.

                                However, your personality is never fully set in stone. In fact, it is not uncommon for adults to tweak their personalities as they prepare themselves for new challenges and life situations. For example, stubborn partners will find themselves making an effort to become more cooperative with their loved ones if they want their relationship to work. While these instances may not necessarily lead to positive results, it is evidence enough that changing your personality is not impossible.

                                The question that begs to be asked is this:

                                How Much Effort Are People Willing to Put in to Make That Change?

                                According to a recent study at the University of Illinois, only 13% of respondents were satisfied with their personalities – most of them wanted to change for the better. However, instead of encouraging these people to get help from experts or take courses, R. Chris Fraley and Nathan Hudson conducted different tests instead to see if the respondents can quantify their personalities to make the necessary changes. The results of the test were published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, which you can view here.

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                                The first experiment involved an introductory psychology class, who were educated about the Big Five personality dimensions and asked to grade their personalities by filling out a rating form. They were then asked if they wanted something to change in their personality over the 16-week period of this study. To do this, they needed to find a way to change their undesirable personality traits using goals and metrics to track their progress.

                                Among the 135 participants, half joined the “change plan” condition, in which they were given writing assignments over the same period to assess the changes they need to make for their personalities. Every week, they were also required to complete additional writing assignments to evaluate their progress further. The other half were not asked to write – instead, they were placed in a controlled setting and were provided feedback about their development.

                                The second experiment involved roughly the same number of participants. The only variable that Fraley and Hudson changed is that, instead of focusing on personality traits, they targeted daily behavior related to the traits that defined their personalities.

                                The result of both experiments demonstrates the capacity for people to make breakthroughs with their personalities. Participants were able to make strides by getting better scores on personality traits that they wanted to improve. However, the comprehensive change plans only had a modest impact on the actual changes in personality. Also, the 16-week period for the study was not enough for the participants to make the drastic changes one might expect.

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                                Steps to a Better You

                                Now that you are aware that you can still change your personality, below are some proactive steps that you can take so you can make the change as early as possible.

                                1. Do not let “labels” define you

                                You are not a shy and timid person. Nor are you a cold and callous one. You are simply a person full of potential to change and become a better version of yourself every day. You can be anything, as long as you put your mind to it.

                                2. Do good deeds

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                                Getting rid of a terrible personality can start with doing something good. A study published in Motivation and Emotion suggests that engaging in acts of kindness allows you to overcome anxiety. Letting the focus from yourself shift to others leads to more opportunities for social engagement.

                                3. Just wait

                                If you cannot force change, then let it come to you. According to a study conducted at the University of Manchester and the London School of Economics, change that naturally takes place is not out of the question. The more you undergo transformative experiences in life as you grow older, the more chances that changes in your personality take place.

                                At the end of the day, change is inevitable. As mentioned above, our personalities are shaped by our experiences in life. By exposing ourselves to positive experiences that we can live by and keeping an open mind for our own identities, there is no doubt that change for the better is indeed possible.

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