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The Best Things in Life Are Free: 8 Amazing Plans For This Weekend

The Best Things in Life Are Free: 8 Amazing Plans For This Weekend

Sometimes it can feel like you need to spend money to have fun on the weekends. Most popular plans, like going to a restaurant or a bar, cost money, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have lots of fun with your friends without spending money. There are plenty of different ways that you can have a great time with your friends this weekend without spending a dime. If you want to do something fun this weekend but you can’t afford to spend, try one of these awesome free activities.

1. Throw a Game Tournament

Dig out your old board games and play a few rounds of Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit with your friends. You can make snacks and drinks and play all of your favorite board games together. Split into groups and compete against each other as teams for a night of competitive fun! If you don’t really like board games, throw a video game tournament. Either way the night will probably get heated and competitive.

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2. Host an Iron Chef Night

Invite your friends or family over for an Iron Chef cook-off. Ask your friend to only bring ingredients from their fridge, and you can both try to make a meal out of items that you already had! Note: While this is a hilariously fun way to spend a weekend night with your friends, there is no guarantee that either of the meals will be edible.

3. Throw a Swap Party

Throw a swap party and invite as many of your friends as you can. Ask them to bring boxes of old DVDS, CDs, clothes and board games to swap. This is a great way to spend time with your friends – and you will even get a few free second-hand items! It is also a useful way to de-clutter your home and wardrobe. Be sure to donate all of the leftover items to charity and help those in need. This is a win-win situation.

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4. Arrange a City Scavenger Hunt

Who says scavenger hunts are just for children? You can arrange your own city-wide scavenger hunt with your friends, where you search for different things in your city. You could theme your scavenger hunt around visiting historical places in your city or places that you and your friends have shared memories. Split into two teams and start searching for the perfect scavenger hunt spots!

5. Have a Spa Day

You can easily throw your own relaxing spa day at home without spending any money. Invite your friends around and light some candles, put on a relaxing CD, and start to pamper yourself! You can lounge in the hot tub, paint each other’s nails and give each other facials.
Instead of spending money on pre-packaged face masks, make your own at home with items you already have in your cupboards. Check out face masks that you can make at home here.

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6. Have an Indoor Picnic

If the weather is cold but you want to see your friends, throw an indoor picnic. Simply clear a space on your living room floor and put down a few blankets and bring through a picnic basket. You can ask your guests to bring around food and drinks too – and you can sit and eat for as long as you want without worrying about the weather changing!

7. Start a Club

Explore one of your passions by starting a club at home, and advertising the club on social media and through word of mouth. You can start any kind of club, from a book club to a film club! Meeting on the weekend tends to be convenient for a lot of people since most people don’ t have work or school obligations.

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8. Throw a Costume Party

Everyone loves a party – and they can be free. Instead of serving alcohol, serve drinks that you already have in the house and ask guest to bring nibbles. The party doesn’t have to be themed; just ask guests to turn up in their favorite costumes! You can play board games, chat and watch movies.

Featured photo credit: Santiago Nicolau via flickr.com

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Last Updated on October 22, 2019

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

When someone says, “I can’t do it” . . . I say to myself, “What do you mean you can’t do it?” Maybe you don’t want to do it, but saying you “can’t” do it is a completely different story.

With the right mindset, positive attitude, and a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.

Can’t is a terrible word and it has to be taken out of your vocabulary.

By saying you can’t do something, you’re already doubting yourself, submitting to defeat, and you’re making that barrier around your life tighter.

So today, right now, we are going to remove this word for good.

From now on there is nothing we can’t do.

“Attitude is Tattoo”

Your attitude is everything; it’s your reason, your why and how, your facial expression, emotions, body language, and potentially the end result. How you approach an opportunity, and the result of it, is solely based on you — not your boss or your co-worker or friend.

If you enter a business meeting with a sour attitude, that negative energy can spread like wildfire. People can also feel it — maybe even taste it. This is not an impression you want to leave.

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Now imagine you enter a business meeting with a positive attitude, that whatever happens in here is going to be your result, in your control, not someone else’s. Of course, we can’t always win, but even if the outcome is negative, your attitude and perception can turn it into a positive. The question is: can you do it?

Of course you can, because there is nothing in this world you can’t do.

It’s much better to be known for your positive attitude — your poise, your energy, the reason why things go so well because you are able to maintain such character. A negative attitude is easy. It’s easy to complain, it’s easy to be mad, and it’s even easier to do nothing to change it.

When I say your “attitude is tattoo”, it sounds permanent. Tattoos can be removed, but that’s not the point. Your attitude is like a tattoo because you wear it. People can see it and sometimes, they will judge you on it. If you maintain a negative attitude, then it is permanent until you change it.

Change your attitude and I guarantee the results change as well.

Believe You Can Do It

Do you know why most people say “can’t” and doubt themselves before trying anything?

It’s our lack of self-confidence and fear on many different levels. The one thing we have to purge from ourselves is fear — fear of bad results, fear of change, fear of denial, fear of loss, the fear that makes us worry and lose sleep. Worrying is the same as going outside with an umbrella, waiting for rain to hit it. Stop worrying and move on.

Confidence is fragile: It builds up slowly, but can shatter like glass. Project your confidence and energy into believing in yourself. This is a very important and groundbreaking step — one that is usually the hardest to take. Start telling yourself you can do something, anything, and you will do it the best to your ability. Remove doubt, remove fear, and stick with positive energy.

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Embrace Failure

Do not fear failure. Do not run away from it. Face it, learn from it, grow, and take action. Just remember: You will never know success if you have never failed.

Your confidence will bolster after embracing these facts. You will be immune to demoralizing results, and instead you will find ways to fix it, improve upon it, and make it better than before. You will learn to never say “can’t,” and will realize how many more opportunities you can create by removing that one word.

Don’t let one simple and ugly word plague your confidence. You’re better and stronger than that.

Start Making the Change

But to actually start the process of change is very challenging.

Why is that?

Fear? Time? Don’t know how — or where — to start?

It’s hard because what we’re doing is unlearning what we know. We are used to doing things a certain way, and chances are we’ve been doing them for years.

So here are some ways that I avoid using the word “can’t”, and actually take the steps to put forth the change that I wish to see. I hope you can incorporate these methods into your life.

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Write down What You Want to Change

Write it on post-its, notecards, whatever makes you comfortable — something you will always see. I usually write mine on post-its and put them all over the wall behind my monitor so I always see them.

Tell a Friend and Talk About It

Discussing your goals, what you want to change, is very effective when you say it out loud and tell another person other than yourself. It’s almost like saying, hey, I bet I can do it — watch me.

When you fulfill that goal and tell your friend, it feels rewarding and will motivate you to do it again in a different aspect. Who knows? Maybe your friend adopts the same mindset as you.

Stop Yourself from Saying the Forbidden Word

Sometimes,I can’t control myself in public when I’m with friends, so I have to be careful with the words I use so I don’t embarrass or insult anyone.

Treat the word “can’t” as the worst word you can possibly use. Stop yourself from saying it, mid-sentence if you must, and turn your whole perspective around — you can do it, you will do it, and nothing is impossible!

Repetition, Repetition, Repetition

You think this change will be overnight? No way. This is a practice. Something you’re going to be doing for the rest of your life from now until forever.

As I said earlier, you are unlearning what you know. You know how easy it is to say you can’t do something, so by unlearning this easy practice, you’re self-disciplining yourself to live without boundaries.

Practice this everyday, a little at a time, and before you know it, the word can’t will not be part of your language.

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Do Anything That Can Relieve Your Uncertainty

When I catch myself saying I can’t do something or I don’t know something, looking up information on that action or subject, doing research, educating yourself, relieves that uncertainty.

Sometimes, we think we can’t do something because the whole idea of it seems too large. We skip the small steps in our head and only focus on the end.

Before you say you can’t do something, rewind and slow down a little bit. Focus on what the first step is, then the next. Take it a step at a time, and before you know it you will have done something you previously thought you couldn’t do.

Final Thoughts

You know what you must do. The first step is right now. Once you begin this habit, and really start noticing some change, you’ll realize the door to opportunity is everywhere.

The funny thing is: Those doors have always been there. The evil word that we no longer use put a veil over our eyes because that’s how powerful that word is.

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