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3 Free Apps To Make Friends As An Expat

3 Free Apps To Make Friends As An Expat

Moving to a new country can seem like an awkward dance that never ends. Between finding housing, a job, and learning a new language (if you’re one of the unfortunates), it may feel that even achieving the basic comforts is a fairytale far from reach. It’s not just about relocating; it’s enough to travel for a month on foreign land, even a week, to long for human contact that is beyond your hotel’s receptionist. Not to mention those of us who are just plain lonely in their hometown!

When it comes to making friends as an expat, the obstacles become even more apparent. You’ll imagine that the city is filled with impossible cliques, pre-established friendships and everyday barriers blocking your path to new relationships. However, there are platforms that can make the integration process just a bit smoother. These are the apps, designed just for you, that will lead you toward friendship and meaningful bonds no matter where you are in the world.

Meetup

Meetup combines old-school methods of socializing with the ever growing technology sector. This app understands that the easiest way to make friends is by joining an established event and meeting like-minded people who are also on the hunt for new friends.

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Meetup gives expats an easy way to seamlessly immerse themselves in a new culture and solidify ‘a group’ along the way. Meetup operates in cities all around the world, with events ranging from hiking-oriented groups to meetups for techies.

Personally, I’ve attended dozens of meetups in London and in Tel Aviv. The experience is great, It’s just so easy to schedule, organize, meet and even speak at your own meetup. You get to piggyback the Meetup community and it saves you a lot of “advertising” your own event on your social profiles.

Butter

Want to make friends without the obligation of meeting up? Enter Butter, an app for making friends faster, but focused on connecting people from around the world. With its advanced chatting features, Butter allows you to talk to thousands of expats, travelers or residents from across the globe. If ever you are feeling lonely or homesick, Butter is the best community for sharing the observations and problems faced when living abroad.

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With arranged icebreakers such as “photo questions”, where users upload images with accompanying questions attached, connecting with other expats is a smooth and fun experience. Butter is not a single one-on-one chat, but an interactive experience with people in your area or other expats from around the world.

Friendable

Friendable is an app that attempts to recreate the warm and cozy feeling of BFF with already-established friends and total strangers. This app is perfect for expats trying to find their way around a new town with a friendly group of friendship seekers.

You can arrange group gatherings or more intimate meetups using local businesses such as coffee shops and pubs as social touch-points. You’ll also have the ability to chat before you meet in person, so you can discover similar interests and make plans that suit everyone.

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The 21th century is a cold, overloaded and high-tech-style era. People no longer roam the street acting nice and greeting everyone hello. While there is a lot of criticism of where technology has taken this all thing, there’s a lot of good to it too.

Thankfully, these apps provide ways of making new friends, whether it’s online or in person. With an abundance of resources, making lasting relationships in the new place you’ve settled is made simple and fun. Who knows what will they come up with next?

Do you have any favorite App you use to meet new people? Let us know in the comments.

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Last Updated on February 15, 2019

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

Why is goal setting important?

1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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What you truly want and need

Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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