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How Ellen Degeneres Spreads Happiness Through Her Shows

How Ellen Degeneres Spreads Happiness Through Her Shows

Ellen Degeneres is a name that is known well and is popular amongst individuals of all ages. Why is Ellen Degeneres so popular? Well, for starters, her show spreads tons of happiness to millions and billions of people around the world. She is known for being herself — which is a quality I would like to embrace as well and I find it hard to do.

Let us take a look at why and how Ellen Degeneres spreads happiness through her shows.

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1. Her shows have a message

There is no doubt that all of Ellen’s shows have some deep meaning in them. They aren’t just for promotion purposes for celebrities; Ellen Degeneres becomes her complete and true self in each episode that airs on her channels. Furthermore, she loves to interact with the audience, which makes her much more grounded and approachable than many individuals, which is a lovely, lovely quality to have.

2. She knows how to keep the audience engaged

Ellen Degeneres truly knows how to keep the party rocking and going. Those invited to her party — her audience members — are loved with all of her heart and soul. I learn a lot from watching her shows because I get to see a fun, child-like side of her, which many celebrities hide from the public eye.

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Celebrities tend to make themselves seem mature and serious, but Ellen is quirky and fun, which makes her so different from the rest of those serious folks, that end up boring us. I just love her!

3. Whatever she shows is heartfelt

If Ellen believes in something, then she surely shows it in her show. If that is helping someone out financially or personally, Ellen Degeneres does her best to make a true difference in the lives of people and those who cherish and love her. That is a quality that I love about her. She knows how to relate to people on a personal level. That is something that is priceless about this lady!

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4. She believes everything is possible

There are a few people on the face of this Earth who truly mean what they say, and believe in their words. Ellen Degeneres is one individual who says what she feels like — not because she has to for tv rankings or ratings — but because she has a voice that can reach people all over the world, who love her simply because she is herself.

Wow! She is a true inspiration for ladies across the nation. I know she is my role model. I hope she is yours too!

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5. She is a positively radiant person

There is no doubt that this woman evokes happiness, radiance, and rainbows. I see her smiling all the time and there is something extremely gentle, caring, and genuine about her, that makes me feel happy from the inside. I bet a lot of viewers can relate to this phenomena that she bestows upon us and it is truly a good feeling that she brings about.

Way to go Ellen. Keep that wonderful “feel good” feeling coming; you make us feel great about ourselves.

6. You can see her hard work

After all the struggles she has undergone, Ellen has come a long way. From criticism and cynicism, she has gone through a journey of self-discovery and knowing who she really is on this crazy world! Her hard work is seen through the viewers that love her and praise her and put her on pedestals.

Next time you need inspiration from someone, look no further than this wonderful woman, who has time and again shown all of us that dedication and perseverance triumphs over all else.

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Last Updated on October 22, 2019

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

When someone says, “I can’t do it” . . . I say to myself, “What do you mean you can’t do it?” Maybe you don’t want to do it, but saying you “can’t” do it is a completely different story.

With the right mindset, positive attitude, and a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.

Can’t is a terrible word and it has to be taken out of your vocabulary.

By saying you can’t do something, you’re already doubting yourself, submitting to defeat, and you’re making that barrier around your life tighter.

So today, right now, we are going to remove this word for good.

From now on there is nothing we can’t do.

“Attitude is Tattoo”

Your attitude is everything; it’s your reason, your why and how, your facial expression, emotions, body language, and potentially the end result. How you approach an opportunity, and the result of it, is solely based on you — not your boss or your co-worker or friend.

If you enter a business meeting with a sour attitude, that negative energy can spread like wildfire. People can also feel it — maybe even taste it. This is not an impression you want to leave.

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Now imagine you enter a business meeting with a positive attitude, that whatever happens in here is going to be your result, in your control, not someone else’s. Of course, we can’t always win, but even if the outcome is negative, your attitude and perception can turn it into a positive. The question is: can you do it?

Of course you can, because there is nothing in this world you can’t do.

It’s much better to be known for your positive attitude — your poise, your energy, the reason why things go so well because you are able to maintain such character. A negative attitude is easy. It’s easy to complain, it’s easy to be mad, and it’s even easier to do nothing to change it.

When I say your “attitude is tattoo”, it sounds permanent. Tattoos can be removed, but that’s not the point. Your attitude is like a tattoo because you wear it. People can see it and sometimes, they will judge you on it. If you maintain a negative attitude, then it is permanent until you change it.

Change your attitude and I guarantee the results change as well.

Believe You Can Do It

Do you know why most people say “can’t” and doubt themselves before trying anything?

It’s our lack of self-confidence and fear on many different levels. The one thing we have to purge from ourselves is fear — fear of bad results, fear of change, fear of denial, fear of loss, the fear that makes us worry and lose sleep. Worrying is the same as going outside with an umbrella, waiting for rain to hit it. Stop worrying and move on.

Confidence is fragile: It builds up slowly, but can shatter like glass. Project your confidence and energy into believing in yourself. This is a very important and groundbreaking step — one that is usually the hardest to take. Start telling yourself you can do something, anything, and you will do it the best to your ability. Remove doubt, remove fear, and stick with positive energy.

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Embrace Failure

Do not fear failure. Do not run away from it. Face it, learn from it, grow, and take action. Just remember: You will never know success if you have never failed.

Your confidence will bolster after embracing these facts. You will be immune to demoralizing results, and instead you will find ways to fix it, improve upon it, and make it better than before. You will learn to never say “can’t,” and will realize how many more opportunities you can create by removing that one word.

Don’t let one simple and ugly word plague your confidence. You’re better and stronger than that.

Start Making the Change

But to actually start the process of change is very challenging.

Why is that?

Fear? Time? Don’t know how — or where — to start?

It’s hard because what we’re doing is unlearning what we know. We are used to doing things a certain way, and chances are we’ve been doing them for years.

So here are some ways that I avoid using the word “can’t”, and actually take the steps to put forth the change that I wish to see. I hope you can incorporate these methods into your life.

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Write down What You Want to Change

Write it on post-its, notecards, whatever makes you comfortable — something you will always see. I usually write mine on post-its and put them all over the wall behind my monitor so I always see them.

Tell a Friend and Talk About It

Discussing your goals, what you want to change, is very effective when you say it out loud and tell another person other than yourself. It’s almost like saying, hey, I bet I can do it — watch me.

When you fulfill that goal and tell your friend, it feels rewarding and will motivate you to do it again in a different aspect. Who knows? Maybe your friend adopts the same mindset as you.

Stop Yourself from Saying the Forbidden Word

Sometimes,I can’t control myself in public when I’m with friends, so I have to be careful with the words I use so I don’t embarrass or insult anyone.

Treat the word “can’t” as the worst word you can possibly use. Stop yourself from saying it, mid-sentence if you must, and turn your whole perspective around — you can do it, you will do it, and nothing is impossible!

Repetition, Repetition, Repetition

You think this change will be overnight? No way. This is a practice. Something you’re going to be doing for the rest of your life from now until forever.

As I said earlier, you are unlearning what you know. You know how easy it is to say you can’t do something, so by unlearning this easy practice, you’re self-disciplining yourself to live without boundaries.

Practice this everyday, a little at a time, and before you know it, the word can’t will not be part of your language.

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Do Anything That Can Relieve Your Uncertainty

When I catch myself saying I can’t do something or I don’t know something, looking up information on that action or subject, doing research, educating yourself, relieves that uncertainty.

Sometimes, we think we can’t do something because the whole idea of it seems too large. We skip the small steps in our head and only focus on the end.

Before you say you can’t do something, rewind and slow down a little bit. Focus on what the first step is, then the next. Take it a step at a time, and before you know it you will have done something you previously thought you couldn’t do.

Final Thoughts

You know what you must do. The first step is right now. Once you begin this habit, and really start noticing some change, you’ll realize the door to opportunity is everywhere.

The funny thing is: Those doors have always been there. The evil word that we no longer use put a veil over our eyes because that’s how powerful that word is.

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