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11 Struggles Only Teachers Can Relate To

11 Struggles Only Teachers Can Relate To

It is difficult to fathom the struggles of a teacher because being one does come with a lot of commitments. Beyond that they have to deal with constant scrutiny from their friends and families. There is also the societal stigma that is attached to being a teacher. Here are 11 struggles teachers can relate to

1. We have to deal with parents who think they have the perfect kids

Yes we have to be babysitters to kids whose parents think they are wonderful, perfect and can never do any wrong. We have to deal with these kids who are willing to break us down emotionally with their different ploys and tricks.

2. We are always made fun at by the students we teach

We should be in an esteemed position and revered. But well there is always the struggle of being nicknamed or mocked by our own students.

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3. We have to deal with people who think our job is easy

People who are not teachers may feel that our job description may not mean much after all. They feel safe to assume that our job is menial and does not really require much expertise and skills. Sometimes they even go further to telling us how to do our jobs.

4. We are underpaid

It is difficult to be motivated by our paycheck. We could be motivated by passion and desire. But definitely it is hard to contend with the fact that we are not only undervalued we are also underpaid for doing what makes so much difference in our society.

5. We are never done with grading papers

There is always so much work to be done, that we have to take some of it home. Literally there is never an end to grading papers. As a teacher, you should know that there will always be a pile of papers to be graded.

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6. We have to teach different students the same way

Students have different needs and learning styles. One method cannot serve all of them the same way. You cannot expect a doctor to give every patient they encounter the same medicine to fix their problems. Yet we have to deal with the core of our profession – teach different students the exact same way and hope they make something relevant out of it.

7. We have to be methodical in the way we discipline our students

If our job description was only focused on teaching students alone, it would not have been so much work. Still we also have to discipline kids who are not responding to what we teach them or who are just miscreants. It is tough doing this since we have to be methodical in how we discipline these kids.

8. We miss social activities because we are hung up with work

Sometimes we simply have to skip hanging out with our friends and family because we are so tied up with work that is related to teaching.

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9. We are met with exhaustion every now and then

While there may be other jobs that are more tedious than being a teacher, we are faced with the indescribable exhaustion that hits our body, mind and heart every day, every week and every month.

10. We are constantly critiqued for our job

If a child is not doing well in class then it is our fault. If he is not responsible enough with his/her assignments then it is our fault. We take a lot of the blame on not only the academic development of our students, but also their social development also.

11. We have to repeat the same routine over and over again

There is that mental exhaustion of helping students understand what they are being taught by you. You sometimes have to repeat the process over and over again until you are sure that they have understood what you are teaching them.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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