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6 Commonalities Shared by Highly Intelligent People

6 Commonalities Shared by Highly Intelligent People

Plato. Newton. Einstein. Hawking. These are some of the most brilliant minds since the dawn of humanity. Despite the fact that each of them lived during different eras of human history, they all had many traits in common. While each of them may have been born with the gift of extreme intelligence, it’s what they did with this gift that cemented their place in the history books. The most intelligent people throughout humanity are known as such for the following reasons.

1. They’re adaptable.

Intelligent people are able to adapt to any given situation they find themselves in. They don’t make excuses when resources are limited; they find a way to accomplish their goals regardless of the roadblocks set up in front of them. For example, Isaac Newton invented calculus in the 1600s; obviously, he didn’t have the help of calculators and computers when doing so. Stephen Hawking has done more from his wheelchair than the majority of us have done with zero limitations placed upon us. No matter what adversity they face, intelligent people get things done.

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2. They know there’s more to know.

The smartest people in the world know there’s always more to learn. They’re never content with knowing what they know, and strive to expand their knowledge every day of their lives. Ironically, the smartest people in the world know they will never know everything, while those who are quite limited in their knowledge actually believe they know all there is to know. The true mark of an intelligent person is the ability to admit that there are other, much smarter people in the world.

3. They remain curious.

Like I said, smart people never stop learning. They’re constantly pondering why things are the way they are, and never quite become satisfied with an answer. Scientific theories are constantly being improved upon, as there’s always more to understand about them, and always ways to use this new knowledge to figure out more about our world. Once the scientists and mathematicians of the world figure out one vital piece of information, they use it to work toward understanding more.

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4. They ask intelligent questions.

Smart people ask smart questions. They don’t ask questions that have just one obvious answer. Rather, they ask open-ended questions that challenge common ideas and make others see things from another perspective. By asking questions which do not have an immediately accessible answer, they force others to think outside the box, and improve the intelligence and capacity for knowledge all around them.

5. They’re skeptical.

Intelligent people take every piece of information they’re told with a grain of salt. You’ve most likely seen articles with seemingly obvious titles such as “Scientists prove overexposure to sun causes skin cancer,” and thought “Well, yea.” However, even though many facts are generally accepted by the general population, scientists are constantly trying to expand their understanding of these common facts, becoming more and more specialized in their knowledge of them. Using the previous example: although it’s generally accepted that too much sun causes skin cancer, a true scientist will want to know exactly how much sun exposure is too much.

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6. They’re open-minded.

Intelligent people are incredibly open to new possibilities and ways of thinking. Although they are skeptical about almost everything, since they are constantly seeking new information they will entertain any idea they come across until they have either proven it right or wrong. This open-mindedness is the the real mother of invention. Intelligent people understand that there’s no such thing as an idea that’s too crazy to work. While others might shun an idea that falls out of their range of understanding, intelligent people will take that idea and make it a reality.

Featured photo credit: Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson Visits NASA Goddard / NASA Goddard Space Flight Center via farm4.staticflickr.com

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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