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20 Inspiring Quotes From Animated Movies

20 Inspiring Quotes From Animated Movies

What do you see when you watch films? Nothing but your own hopes, dreams, and fears played out on the big screen. We humans reflect on our world through symbolic stories of our life. Simply put, stories are metaphors for our lives.

Here is a list of 20 inspiring quotes from animated movies that I adore. Anything you imagine can be conceived in animated movies. They’re vivid, rich, and filled with lively characters offering us profound wisdom in the most subtle ways. They’re not just for children, but for adults too. And if we pay close attention to them, we may just find the answers to life that we’ve been searching for.

1. Nobody is entitled to anything. Anyone can become an artist; you just have to make a choice.

Not everyone can become a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere. – Anton Ego, Ratatouille

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    2.True friendship is rare. Cultivate it to the core.

    There is no greater gift than friendship. – Santa Claus, The Polar Express

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      3. Change is within. If thought is the cause, effect is the outcome.

      Look inside yourself Simba. You are more than what you have become. – Mufasa, The Lion King

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        4. Invest in identity capital and build it. It adds value to who you are.

        Your identity is your most valuable possession. Protect it. – Elastigirl, The Incredibles

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          5. Success is subjective – don’t get carried away. Have your own definition of it.

          There is whole lot more to racing than just winning. – Tex, Cars

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            6. Our true reality lies in identifying with other people.

            As long as we are together; it doesn’t matter to me. – Marty, Madagascar

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              7. Abandoning your ego is a gift. Strive for it.

              To laugh at yourself, is to love yourself. – Mickey Mouse

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                8. Storms pass. Just wait until you reach the shore and never stop dreaming.

                All at once everything looks different, now that I see you. – Rapunzel, Tangled

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                  9. Believe your gut instinct and just plunge in. All you need is a little faith.

                  All it takes is little faith and trust. – Peter Pan

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                    10. Don’t be deceived by appearances. Search for the soul – it actually counts.

                    Do not be fooled by commonplace appearance. Like so many things, it is not what outside, but what is inside that counts. – Aladdin

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                      11. Your mind is everything. Wield it carefully or it will command you.

                      Your mind is like water. When it is agitated it becomes difficult to see, but when you let it settle; the answer becomes clear. – Oogway, Kung Fu Panda

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                        12. Timing matters. Do not try to prove anything just for the sake of proving it.

                        I’m only brave enough when I have to be. Being brave doesn’t mean you go looking for trouble. – Mufasa, The Lion King

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                          13. We create our own destiny through the choices we consciously make.

                          There are those who say fate is something beyond our command, that destiny is not our own. But I know better. Our fate lives within us. You only have to be brave enough to see it. – Merida, Brave

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                            14. Never give up – you’ll find it. Trust me.

                            If you work on something long enough you will find it, even if you are lost for a while you will find it. – Professor Bomba, Epic

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                              15. Everything bothers you if you let it. Remember you have a choice.

                              Cold never bothered me anyway. – Elsa, Frozen

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                                16. We always search for answers without realizing the fact that answers lie within.

                                There is no secret ingredient. It’s just you. – Po, Kung Fu Panda

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                                  17. Never ever accept your limitations. Human spirit is eternal.

                                  I’m flying… I’m flying! I’m not an ostrich…I’m not an ostrich! – Blu, Rio

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                                    18. When you are going through hell, just keep going.

                                    Just keep swimming. – Dori, Finding Nemo

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                                      19. Whatever you imagine, you can conceive. The universe is waiting.

                                      To infinity, and beyond! – Buzz Lightyear, Toy Story

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                                        20. You can’t see the future with tears of the past in your eyes.

                                        You should, Shen. You gotta let go of that stuff from the past, because it just doesn’t matter! The only thing that matters is what you choose to be now. – Po, Kung Fu Panda 2

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                                          KAMAL SUCHARAN BURRI

                                          Founding Director, Newlight Cinemas

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                                          Published on April 7, 2021

                                          6 Signs Of A Controlling Person To Be Aware Of

                                          6 Signs Of A Controlling Person To Be Aware Of

                                          Some of the most manipulative people are so good at what they do that their words and actions can convince you into thinking they truly care about what’s best for you when in reality, it’s quite the opposite. The most common signs of a controlling person are rarely obvious to outside observers. And for someone enmeshed in a controlling relationship or friendship, it can be incredibly challenging to stay away from this toxic person, even if you’re aware of their emotionally abusive tendencies.

                                          While it’s ultimately up to you to decide whether to preserve or leave a lopsided, unfulfilling relationship, it’s nevertheless critical to understand the following six signs of controlling people so you can better advocate for yourself and mitigate the influence of their manipulative tendencies in your own life.

                                          1. They Push Their Own Personal Agenda

                                          Do you know someone who always tries to micromanage the words, behaviors, and attitudes of people around them? Does this person act like they have the right to know anything they want about you, including your location, what you’re doing in a given moment, who you’re talking to online, or any other private information about you? And when planning events and special occasions, does this person dominate conversations, steer plans in their own preferred directions, disparage others’ suggestions, and refuse to collaborate with anyone who might disagree with them?

                                          If you answered “yes” to some of the above questions, then those are clear signs of a controlling person whom you absolutely need to be cautious around. Controlling people are reluctant to even consider alternative ideas, let alone enthusiastically work with people who have differing views. They prefer to be the captain of every ship—regardless of how much or how little an issue personally impacts them—and they have an arsenal of manipulative tactics to deploy if someone stands in the way of them achieving their own personal agendas.

                                          In long-term relationships with controlling people, you may feel constantly pressured to meet their demands, follow their schedule, and focus on whatever they feel is most important. It’s not an exaggeration to say that these people act like the universe revolves around them, which can be exhausting to deal with for their family members, friends, and colleagues.

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                                          2. They Make Everything Transactional

                                          Controlling people aren’t always self-centered, but they’re not too empathetic either. Empathy for them tends to appear in the form of strategic concessions they use as a means to get what they want. They typically view interpersonal relationships as transactional opportunities to extract more value from people surrounding them, which can have a draining effect on those they interact with.

                                          For example, one sign of a controlling person may be their insistence on “keeping score.” This can involve doing nice things for you with the ulterior motive of demanding something from you at a later date in exchange for what you thought was just an act of kindness or a friendly support.

                                          Perhaps they shower you in praise (also known as “love-bombing”) or gifts then blow up at you if you don’t intuitively know they’re expecting something back from you. None of us are mind-readers, but controlling people behave as though everyone else should think and act like they want others to and those who fall out of line are punished for failing to meet their impossible expectations.

                                          A controlling person may also threaten to withhold support if you don’t adhere to their demands, but they do so in such subtle ways that the guilt they impose blinds you from the unreasonable nature of their behaviors.

                                          Some statements to be wary of include:

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                                          • “I did ___________ for you. What do you mean you can’t do ___________ for me?”
                                          • “Remember how I helped you with ___________? That took a lot of time and energy from me, but I guess you didn’t appreciate my help.”
                                          • “I always give you ___________. Don’t you care about my needs too?”
                                          • “You’re so selfish!” or “You don’t care about me at all!” (gaslighting if you respond with hesitation or politely decline their request for help for perfectly valid reasons, such as not having enough time or resources to assist them)

                                          3. They Criticize Everything

                                          One of the most common telltale signs of a controlling person is their capacity to criticize anything and everything, even small things that seemingly don’t matter. As with many toxic traits in relationships, these problems typically start out so small that you may not even notice. At first, you may even agree with their criticism or at least be able to understand their perspective when they bring up an issue.

                                          However, the criticism tends to get more intense, more constant, and more perplexing for people who maintain relationships with controlling people. You’ll likely notice how they rarely seem to criticize something they do. It’s almost always other-oriented and these types of people are so manipulative that any rationale they offer can seem plausibly legitimate.

                                          Some warning signs of a controlling person who’s overly critical to the point of abusiveness include:

                                          • Criticizing things about you that you have little to no control over (e.g., appearance, disability, family)
                                          • Criticizing your personal choices and interests, such as educational pursuits, career, clothing, favorite music, time spent on your hobbies, etc.
                                          • Punishing you for expressing vulnerability by invalidating thoughts and feelings you share with them
                                          • Attacking you whenever you express an opinion counter to theirs

                                          4. They Balk When Someone Criticizes Them

                                          We all know the adage, “what goes around, comes around.” But this statement doesn’t apply as much to toxic, controlling people. They’d much prefer to dish out criticism without ever having to take it in return.

                                          For instance, if your friend constantly talks about your appearance with little regard for your emotions but flips out if you make just a single comment about their appearance, there’s a possibility that they could have some hidden controlling tendencies left unchecked. Remember, these people aren’t just controlling in their behaviors towards others. They’re also actively trying to stay in complete control over every aspect of their lives, which includes how others view them.

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                                          This seemingly insatiable desire for control can prompt them to lash out against even the smallest bits of criticism, leaving people around them too weary or scared to speak up again in the future. While it’s possible they may suffer from something called rejection sensitivity dysphoria, this does not excuse them from the consequences of their words and actions. They should seek professional help to better manage their reactions to criticism.

                                          5. They Socially Isolate You

                                          Not all controlling people do this, but for manipulative narcissists, socially isolating victims is a go-to strategy for maintaining control because it’s effective at preventing people from truly understanding how toxic their partner, family member, or friend is treating them. Think of it this way—if you don’t talk to many other people in your life, there’s less of a risk that you’ll damage their reputation by revealing their abusive tendencies.

                                          Socially isolating others also gives the person more control over you and your life as it becomes more difficult to break away from them if you don’t have other healthier channels of communication and interpersonal support to turn to.

                                          This process doesn’t happen overnight, nor is it something you can readily recognize as abusive. At first, it may seem reasonable, such as asking you to stop engaging so often with family members with whom both of you disagree on major social or political issues. As the social isolation progresses, they may suggest cutting people out of your life—especially if they don’t like that person, regardless of how you personally feel—or even conjure up high-stakes problems like “it’s me or them” under the guise of saving you from people in your life whom they don’t like for whatever reason.

                                          In a controlling person’s life narrative, they’re always the protagonist who’s incapable of any wrongdoing. The blame is always redirected at someone else, whether that’s you or other people in your life. The more they isolate you from other supportive people in your life, the more susceptible you’ll be to falsely believing that they’re right and you “don’t need” your other friends and family when you have someone as perfect as this person.

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                                          6. They’re Emotionally Abusive

                                          It’s hard enough to be in control of your own emotions but when someone else is constantly belittling you and your interests or leveraging guilt and shame to manipulate you into saying or doing what they want, this can make it even more challenging to stay in control of your own life and emotional well-being.

                                          Emotional abuse is another sign of a controlling person that is often overlooked in relationships. After all, human personalities vary widely in terms of passivity, and it’s not uncommon for one person in a relationship to be significantly more passive than the other. This becomes an issue when the controlling partner or friend exudes signs of emotional abuse, which can start subtly and become much more pronounced over time.

                                          Concerning signs of emotionally abusive language or behavior to watch out for include:

                                          • Dismissing your needs and/or belittling your interests in counterproductive ways
                                          • Privately or publicly shaming or humiliating you
                                          • Making you feel as though you can never live up to their expectations or do anything right (according to their own vague, subjective standards)
                                          • Gaslighting you into thinking they said or did something that never actually happened (making you question your own reality)

                                          Final Thoughts

                                          It’s sometimes hard to see the negative things about someone with whom we have a relationship. We may sometimes unconsciously overlook the signs of a controlling person, especially if that person is someone we have known for a long time or are close to us. However, cutting them off your life is the best thing you can do for yourself. Just watch out for these six signs of a controlling person and take immediate action when you spot them.

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