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11 Good Things To Know Before You Date A Straightforward Woman

11 Good Things To Know Before You Date A Straightforward Woman

The truth will always be bitter and fierce. People will be more comfortable with facing the world from a soothing perspective. But when you are about to go into a romantic relationship with a woman who will give it to you straight then expect something bonding and most times mutually beneficial. We straightforward women are glowing ladies and offer you the most interesting memories.

1. We are always reliable

We do not falter on our value of being straightforward. We will always tell you to do what is right and no matter what is at stake we will definitely make the choice of being honest. When you want to make that big career decision it just has to reflect what we are known for – reliability.

2. We are responsible

Because of the esteemed value of being straightforward we will always want to be accountable for the good decisions we make. Because we are of proud of our good quality, since our kind is not so common, we will always stand to defend what is just. We will stand for our team members at the office, we will stand for our partner against a terrible landlord as far as it will make a difference.

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3. We don’t make or take excuses

We are responsible also means that excuses do not propel our cause of seeing the world represent what we are. Rather than making an excuse, we stand tall and are responsible. We don’t want to hear that you cannot pay the bills because you are not educated enough or because the system is working against you. Don’t make excuses, fix it. And yes you are sure to have us do the same thing even when we are in a tight corner.

4. We are confident

We are solid and forceful. We establish grounds before you try anything sly. You can’t simply put us down and make us look stupid during frightful times. So please try and show us respect because we are confident enough to always demand it.

5. We are not concerned about how the world views us

We don’t care how the world perceives us. We are secure and comfortable with who we are. Really, there will be differing opinions about us, good and bad, but we will still remain stable in a fickle world.

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6. We are predictable

Expect to know what we will say when questioned and challenged. It has to be something that represents our values and will align with our elevated standards. You are not going to influence or break us easily.

7. We will choose the higher path if we have to

We can be intimidating and fierce. People value us because of our noble and rare quality. This is why we stand out in our careers and endeavors. This could mean a lot to our family virtues. However our quality should trigger and motivate you to become more successful and a better person.

8. We are genuine

We are real. We don’t fake who we are because we are trying to please or make you feel comfortable about us. Because we are genuine, we expect you to always come out plain with us.

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9. We are blunt

We don’t have any excuses to hold grudges or harbor resentment. If we have an issue with you, we will simply come out in the open and address it. Why hold on to an emotion when we can expose pretenses and falsehoods by marching out to confront the other person. We really don’t find a need to be extremely meticulous and placid. We are formidable and will prefer to cut discords with our knife-like attitude.

10. We are considerate

That entire solid persona doesn’t make us mean and brutal. We only want a just and fair world. If we have to be seemingly brutal and ruthless to attain such then you can term our cause and personality as rational. Yet we are very considerate, we embrace the weak and try to offer them the platform to be assisted and considered.

11. We are alert

We are focused and do not admire the sluggish channel. So expect us to be fierce and make astute demands. Yet we will love you and protect you with all that we have got. And we will never betray you as we offer the most solid form of support.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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