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7 Kinds Of Toxic Bosses You Need To Avoid

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7 Kinds Of Toxic Bosses You Need To Avoid

Sometimes you find yourself in an office setting with a boss that is less than ideal. Taking into account human nature, at some point managers or bosses are going to make mistakes or treat you somewhat unkindly. However, when that behavior creeps to a different level, and you end up with a toxic boss, you will of course need tools to be able to spot them. For that reason, I have compiled this list of the 10 different kind of toxic bosses.

1. The Tyrant

Usually the easiest to spot, the tyrant is the type of toxic boss who is concern with only their own ego. The tyrant makes every decision in a manner that will only benefit themselves. The tyrant is Machiavellian in nature. Anyone who challenges the status quo is seen as an up-riser and is squashed. This person doesn’t build team moral; rather, they divide and conquer, make seemingly arbitrary decisions, and take every chance to remind you that they are in charge.

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2. The Inappropriate Buddy

Growing up, everyone had a buddy with a dad or uncle who was always “just trying to be one of the guys.” This parental figure would talk to you about members of the opposite sex, about going out and having fun, or about school as if they were there with you. The innappropriate buddy is the workplace version of the same thing. This toxic boss will use their place of authority to make sure you are their friend. Whether or not they mean to, they create workplace division and will inevitably dig up some office gossip that will prove detrimental to someone. 

3. The Promoted-Too-Fast

This person has less than a year’s worth of experience over you, but that did not stop the company from moving this achiever up the corporate ladder too soon. Arguably the worst type of toxic boss to have, this person will be in charge of people with more experience. They will resent every effort those workers make to do their jobs. Constantly in over there head, there is no saving this person – they are doomed. The panic in their eyes says they know it.

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4. The Swoop-In

This toxic boss is usually fairly disengaged in work, which makes it mostly bearable for a good portion of the time. You get to kick back and hold yourself to their nondefined standards. However, when someone higher above the swoop-in comes calling about progress, this boss will show up, misunderstand the situation, make illogical demands of you, and leave. It’s so not terrible, as long as they don’t hold you to those demands once their supervisors find something more interesting.

5. The Innovator

When you first meet them, the innovator seems like an amazing boss to work for. They have all the brilliant ideas. They want you to expand your creativity in executing those ideas. The fault of the innovator is two-fold: they never stop innovating long enough for you to see the ideas to execution, and they have no idea what the end product of their idea would look like.

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6. The Robot

The defining feature of the robot is that they don’t seem to have a need for sleep. Or food. Or social contact, for that matter. This person has memorized all of the benchmarks their department is required to meet. They are relentless in driving you towards just one more ounce of productivity. They don’t even feel a certain way about making you work a billion hours to hit a specific goal. Basically, if they can work 14 hour days every day for eight years, then why can’t you?

7. The Micromanager

When working for a micromanager, you may constantly feel as though you should just give them your work and tell them to do it for you. A micromanager will never be happy with the format of the spreadsheet you used, or the color ink you wrote a note in. They will spend extra time trying to teach you things that you already know, all the while missing meetings and deadlines of their own because what you are doing just needs to be done correctly, dammit. 

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Last Updated on August 25, 2021

Why Personal Branding Is Important to Your Career

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Why Personal Branding Is Important to Your Career

As a recruiter, I have met and interviewed hundreds of candidates who have no idea who they are.

Without a personal brand, candidates struggle to answer the question: “tell me about yourself—who are you?” They have no idea about who they are, what their strengths are, and how they can add value to the company. They present their CV’s believing that their CV is the key to their career success. In some ways, your CV still has its use. However, in today’s job market, you need more than a CV to stand out in a crowd.

According to Celinne Da Costa:[1]

“Personal brand is essentially your golden ticket to networking with the right people, getting hired for a dream job, or building an influential business.” She believes that “a strong personal brand allows you to stand out in an oversaturated marketplace by exposing desired audiences to your vision, skillset, and personality in a way that is strategically aligned with your career goals.”

A personal brand opens up your world to so many more career opportunities that you would never have been exposed to with just your CV.

What Is Your Personal Brand?

“Personal branding is how you distinctively market your uniqueness.” —Bernard Kelvin Clive

Today, the job market is very competitive and tough. Having a great CV will only let you go so far because everyone has a CV, but no one else has your distinct personal brand! It is your personal brand that differentiates you from everyone else and that is what people buy—you.

Your personal brand is your mark on the world. It is how people you interact with and the world see you. It is your legacy—it is more important than a business brand because your personal brand lasts forever.

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I have coached people who have very successful careers, and they come to me because they have suddenly found that they are not getting the opportunities or having the conversations that would them to their next role. They are having what I call a “career meltdown,” all because they have no personal brand.

A personal brand helps you become conscious of your differences and your uniqueness. It allows you to position yourself in a way that makes you stand out from the pack, especially among other potential job applicants.

Don’t get me wrong, having a great CV and a great LinkedIn profile is important. However, there are a few steps that you have to take to have a CV and LinkedIn profile that is aligned to who you are, the value you offer to the market, and the personal guarantee that you deliver results.

Building your personal brand is about strategically, creatively, and professionally presenting what makes you, you. Knowing who you are and the value you bring to the table enables you to be more informed, agile, and adaptable to the changing dynamic world of work. This is how you can avoid having a series of career meltdowns.

Your Personal Brand Is Essential for Your Career Success

In her article, Why Personal Branding Is More Important Than Ever, Caroline Castrillon outlines key reasons why a personal brand is essential for career success.

According to Castrillon,[2]

“One reason is that it is more popular for recruiters to use social media during the interview process. According to a 2018 CareerBuilder survey, 70% of employers use social media to screen candidates during the hiring process, and 43% of employers use social media to check on current employees.”

The first thing I do as a recruiter when I want to check out a candidate or coaching client is to look them up on LinkedIn or other social media platforms, such as Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Your digital footprint is the window that highlights to the world who you are. When you have no control over how you want to be seen, you are making a big mistake because you are leaving it up to someone else to make a judgment for you as to who you are.

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As Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, once said, “Your brand is what people say about you when you are not in the room.”

In her book, Becoming, Michelle Obama writes about the importance of having a personal brand and her journey to defining her personal brand. She wrote that:

“if you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.”

When you have a personal brand, you are in control. You know exactly what people will say about you when you leave the room.

The magic of a personal brand is that gives you control over how you want to be seen in the world. Your confidence and self-belief enable you to leverage opportunities and make informed decisions about your career and your future. You no longer experience the frustrations of a career meltdown or being at a crossroads not knowing what to do next with your career or your life. With a personal brand, you have focus, clarity, and a strategy to move forward toward future success.

Creating your personal brand does not happen overnight. It takes a lot of work and self-reflection. You will be expected to step outside of your comfort zone not once, but many times.

The good news is that the more time you spend outside of your comfort zone, the more you will like being there. Being outside of your comfort zone is where you can test the viability of and fine-tune your personal brand.

5 Key Steps to Creating Your Personal Brand

These five steps will help you create a personal brand that will deliver you the results you desire with your career and in life.

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1. Set Your Personal Goals

What is it that you want to do in the next five years? What will your future self be doing in the next five to ten years? What is important to you? If you can answer these questions, then you are on the right path. If not, then you have to start thinking about them.

2. Create Your Unique Value Proposition

Create your unique value proposition by asking yourself these four questions:

  1. What are your personality features? What benefit do you offer people?
  2. Who are you and why do people enjoy working with you?
  3. What do you do and what do people want you to do for them? How do you solve their problems?
  4. What makes you different from others like you?

The answers to these questions will give you the information you need to create your professional story, which is the key step to creating your personal brand.

3. Write Your Professional Story

Knowing who you are, what you want, and the unique value you offer is essential to you creating your professional story. People remember stories. Your personal story incorporates your value proposition and tells people who you are and what makes you unique. This is what people will remember about you.

4. Determine Which Platforms Will Support Your Personal Brand

Decide which social media accounts and online platforms will best represent your brand and allow you to share your voice. In a professional capacity, having a LinkedIn profile and a CV that reflects your brand is key to your positioning in relation to role opportunities. People will be connecting with you because they will like the story you are telling.

5. Become Recognized for Sharing Your Knowledge and Expertise

A great way for you to promote yourself is by sharing knowledge and helping others. This is where you prove you know your stuff and you gain exposure for doing so. You can do this through social media, writing, commenting, video, joining professional groups, networking, etc. Find your own style and uniqueness and use it to attract clients, the opportunities, or the jobs you desire.

The importance of having a personal brand is not going to go away. In fact, it is the only way where you can stand out and be unique in a complex changing world of work. If you don’t have a personal brand, someone will do it for you. If you let this happen, you have no control and you may not like the story they create.

Standing out from others takes time and investment. Most people cannot make the change by themselves, and this is where engaging a personal brand coach is a viable option to consider.

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As a personal brand coach, working with my clients to create their personal brand is my passion. I love the fact that we can work together to create a personal story that defines exactly what people will say when you leave the room.

Other People’s Stories

Listening to other people’s stories is a great way to learn. In his article, 7 TED Talks About Personal Branding, Rafael Dos Santos presents the best Ted Talks where speakers share their stories about the “why,” “what,” and “how” of personal branding.((GuidedPR: 7 TED Talks About Personal Branding))

Take some time out to listen to these speakers sharing their stories and thoughts about personal branding. You will definitely learn so much about how you can start your journey of defining yourself and taking control of your professional and personal life.

Your personal brand, without a doubt, is your secret weapon to your career success. As Michelle Obama said,

“your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.”

So, go own your story. Go on the journey to create your personal brand that defines who you are, highlights your uniqueness, and the value you offer to the world.

Featured photo credit: Austin Distel via unsplash.com

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