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8 Reasons You Should Never Hold Back Your Opinions

8 Reasons You Should Never Hold Back Your Opinions

“I am not anxious to be the loudest voice or the most popular. But I would like to think that at a crucial moment, I was an effective voice of the voiceless, an effective hope of the hopeless.”
― Whitney Young

We live in an age where we do not want to be labeled different. It is often easier to follow the crowd rather than state an opinion that may contradict what is popular or generally accepted. Many also do not want to appear foolish or vulnerable when they express their opinion. However expressing your opinion is the trigger that ignites all action, from ideas to plans and decisions.

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“Speak up and speak clearly. I want to hear what you have to say because it matters. Let’s listen to each other and respect one another’s opinions. Although, they may be different, wisdom allows us to be responsible for our own feelings and actions.”
― Felicia Johnson, Her

You have a chip on the bargaining table

Airing your opinion offers your stand on what side you will like to take on a subject. We live in a world where people sometimes try to take advantage of others because they believe they will be too nice to say no. But airing your opinion puts you in a pole position where you are not taking advantage of but you are able to make others aware of what you want and demand of them.

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You are more interesting

No one likes an indecisive or a shy person. It betrays a lack of maturity and overshadow’s ones confidence. When you are clear about your opinion you show that you are knowledgeable about what you are saying and prove to be an interesting person to engage with in a discussion.

You save yourself some stress

Words that are unsaid or can cause you a great deal of anxiety and stress. The play in your mind could be heavy and it will be so easing to make create a different situation rather than just holding up your intentions or opinions.

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You will have something to learn

Whether you are wrong with your opinion or right with it you will have something to learn. Sometimes when your opinion is not grounded enough or relevant it is better to stand corrected rather than holding on to your stupidity. You only become wiser at the end of the day when you air your opinion.

You influence others to do the same

Other people may be finding it difficult to express their opinion. But by taking the step forward to air your opinion you can inspire others to do the same. People appreciate you for being bold and courageous and you are a source of influence to others.

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You live with no regrets

By expressing your opinion you eliminate the feeling of “I wish I would have said…” You really have no pains or sour feelings when you look at the past. You can face the future with no regrets at missing an opportunity to let others know what you think.

You can ignite an action

Whether your opinion is taking seriously or not, by airing it you have been able to provide a reason for thinking, consideration or sometimes a reason for action. For example if you offer a possible solution to a problem, even if it is not worth pursuing it could lead to finding a way to get an alternative solution.

You have fewer risks

Most people don’t want to express their opinion because of what they feel may become a drastic consequence. The truth is that the world is for the courageous. Expressing your opinion differentiates you from the pack. There is something heroic about telling others about your opinion. Yes at the long run you are admired rather than scolded. The truth is that there is more to fear for if you do not tell others what you think.

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Casey Imafidon

Specialized in motivation and personal growth, providing advice to make readers fulfilled and spurred on to achieve all that they desire in life.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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