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10 Reasons You Should Date A Guitarist

10 Reasons You Should Date A Guitarist

We always have preferences when you go out to date someone. Dating, however, could go beyond just dating anyone but dating the right person that represents the image you have in your mind. Being with a guitarist could mean a lot to your personality. You understand music more than you ever have, and it is spectacular watching a guitarist strum their guitar. Here are some reasons why you should date a guitarist.

1. They always have a cute tattoo

Their appearance is always expressive. They are not trying to conform to a conventional approach when grooming or speaking. And, yes, they will always have a cute tattoo to make that statement of what they are count.

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2. They will always be a guitarist

It is hard to stop being a guitarist if they started out as one. The music in them and what they represent will always stick. A guitar will always have a special place in their heart. You have to learn to be a part of such world.

3. They are unconventional

They don’t do a 9-5 day job, and will they won’t be hanging around people who do. They have friends who live for the stage. They are not trying to conform to societal standards – they are setting societal standards.

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4. They are always talking about music and other guitarist

Don’t expect them to be talking about bankers or politicians. They live for the music and most of what they will be talking about is the music and other guitarist like Santana, Tom Morello, Jimi Hendrix, Eric Clapton, Slash and more. They will have you listen to their opinion of what being a guitarist means to them.

5. They have a high price on their guitar

They value their guitar. And this goes beyond the amount of money they pay for their equipment. Their addiction may be spending the money they make on their guitars. You have to make sure you are as valued as their guitars.

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6. They have a way with their hands

The truth is that those hands of theirs can be magical. Their hands do have a special touch. There is a way they strum the guitar that is so sexually appealing that it becomes attractive. And what sound that is born with their hands can be inspired by you.

7. They can become successful

If they are really good with the guitar and play for the right band, they could become really successful. Being popular could mean that you have something extra to contend with when trying to get their attention or acceptance. Yet wouldn’t love to be a part of their success?

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8. They will expect you to love their songs

If you have another guitarist or musician that excites you, you have to shove them to second on the list. You have to make the guitarist you date the number one musician on your list. They do need your support and need you to be their number one fan. And this is so cool if you are a music lover.

9. They will make you love music more

They are always making sounds and listening to sounds. Spending time with them means that you will always have to listen to a lot of sounds whether you like it or not. And the more you listen to the sounds they surround themselves with the more you become absorbed in their music and appreciate it.

10. They will help you understand the magical instrument called the guitar

Before long, when you date a guitarist, you will start to understand a lot of things about this infamous instrument. You will be captivated about this instrument, you will understand that it represents peace, freedom, and it can be a spectacle when it is played by a true guitarist.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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