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10 Reasons You Should Date A Guitarist

10 Reasons You Should Date A Guitarist

We always have preferences when you go out to date someone. Dating, however, could go beyond just dating anyone but dating the right person that represents the image you have in your mind. Being with a guitarist could mean a lot to your personality. You understand music more than you ever have, and it is spectacular watching a guitarist strum their guitar. Here are some reasons why you should date a guitarist.

1. They always have a cute tattoo

Their appearance is always expressive. They are not trying to conform to a conventional approach when grooming or speaking. And, yes, they will always have a cute tattoo to make that statement of what they are count.

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2. They will always be a guitarist

It is hard to stop being a guitarist if they started out as one. The music in them and what they represent will always stick. A guitar will always have a special place in their heart. You have to learn to be a part of such world.

3. They are unconventional

They don’t do a 9-5 day job, and will they won’t be hanging around people who do. They have friends who live for the stage. They are not trying to conform to societal standards – they are setting societal standards.

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4. They are always talking about music and other guitarist

Don’t expect them to be talking about bankers or politicians. They live for the music and most of what they will be talking about is the music and other guitarist like Santana, Tom Morello, Jimi Hendrix, Eric Clapton, Slash and more. They will have you listen to their opinion of what being a guitarist means to them.

5. They have a high price on their guitar

They value their guitar. And this goes beyond the amount of money they pay for their equipment. Their addiction may be spending the money they make on their guitars. You have to make sure you are as valued as their guitars.

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6. They have a way with their hands

The truth is that those hands of theirs can be magical. Their hands do have a special touch. There is a way they strum the guitar that is so sexually appealing that it becomes attractive. And what sound that is born with their hands can be inspired by you.

7. They can become successful

If they are really good with the guitar and play for the right band, they could become really successful. Being popular could mean that you have something extra to contend with when trying to get their attention or acceptance. Yet wouldn’t love to be a part of their success?

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8. They will expect you to love their songs

If you have another guitarist or musician that excites you, you have to shove them to second on the list. You have to make the guitarist you date the number one musician on your list. They do need your support and need you to be their number one fan. And this is so cool if you are a music lover.

9. They will make you love music more

They are always making sounds and listening to sounds. Spending time with them means that you will always have to listen to a lot of sounds whether you like it or not. And the more you listen to the sounds they surround themselves with the more you become absorbed in their music and appreciate it.

10. They will help you understand the magical instrument called the guitar

Before long, when you date a guitarist, you will start to understand a lot of things about this infamous instrument. You will be captivated about this instrument, you will understand that it represents peace, freedom, and it can be a spectacle when it is played by a true guitarist.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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